I discovered Pastor Lutzer's books by accident while looking for another author. In the year since I have read 12 books written by him. This was the most recent one. He seems to know exactly what is in your heart and it's as if you are having a personal conversation with an understanding friend. This book touches the hurting heart longing for reconciliation with someone and tells you how to cope when that isn't possible. It was so helpful to me personally in dealing with past wrongs either done to me or done by me.
I bought this book for a friend who is going through a difficult time and thought I should read it before I gave it to her. In reading it I discovered a lot about myself and old grudges I was still holding on to. I really am being changed by this book.
This book has been very helpful to me for things that have happened in my life concerning people who profess to be Christians. I have some questions I would like to go over with my pastor who was the one who recommended it to me.