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Written by two stepmothers, But I'm Not a Wicked Stepmother offers support and encouragement for women dealing with the demanding role of loving and caring for other people's children. Offering spiritual insight from Scripture on marriage, prayer, and forgiveness along with practical action points, this Focus on the Family resource is an essential resource for stepmoms. It also is conducive for use in a small group setting.
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Vendor: Focus on the Family
Publication Date: 2015
Its no secret, being a stepmother can be a living nightmare. But it can also be an enriching and rewarding experienceone that God can use to strengthen you, helping you survive and even thrive in the toughest job you never asked for.
Written by two women who are stepmothers themselvesand know the difficulties of helping to raise someone elses childrenthis book is filled with down-to-earth insights and advice for stepmothers from stepmothers. It also offers expert guidance from pastors and counselors on such issues as roles, expectations, realistic goals, organization, finances, holidays, vacations, relationships with stepchildren, negotiation, forgiveness, healing the past, building a strong marriage with stepchildren on the scene, dealing with in-laws and ex-spouses, sexual tensions in stepfamilies, health, depression, stress, and much more.
While there is no magic formula to guarantee stepmother success, encouragement and practical wisdom are available in this much-needed resource.
SquarelySarahAge: 25-34Gender: female5 Stars Out Of 5It was helpful and insightful, has been well-read.February 2, 2017SquarelySarahAge: 25-34Gender: femaleQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5I got this book, perhaps, a touch too late unfortunately. At the time I got my hands on it, I was a prospective step-mother for a very strong willed little one and the issues of trying to blend a family had already began to sink it's teeth into ripping our plans apart.
I still read through the book and it gave me the encouragement and tools I needed to keep trying my very best in the situation even though it was falling apart.
The good news is that I've been able to pass it along to a friend who is a new step-mother and she reports it has been of the utmost help to her.
Seasons of GraceAge: 35-44Gender: female5 Stars Out Of 5I Wish I'd Had This Book Years AgoJuly 22, 2015Seasons of GraceAge: 35-44Gender: femaleQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5Being a step-mom myself, this book was of great interest to me. I was so excited when I found out I was going to be blessed with the privilege of reading and reviewing it. It is not easy being a step-mother, especially if you gain children who have already begun being raised by the biological mothers, as mine had. Your methods may differ greatly and along with that comes along much bigger issues.
Kathi's book has amazing insight into what being a stepmother consists of, as well as how to handle it as a Christian (if you are one). The importance of God's calling in our lives and how we can use that to help when the situation may seem a little overbearing or out of control.
Her book is chalk full of information, techniques, ideas and so much more for handling minor as well as major problems. Two important lessons I felt stood out to me above the rest were - prayer and communication. Without those two things, failure is on the brink.
Kathi devotes many pages to the importance of prioritizing your marriage, building your husband, respect, and communication as well as problem solving, staying in God's Word, and lowering our expectations of our stepchildren's acceptance of us.
"Step-motherhood can be an instrument God uses to mold us into the image of Christ." "God's design for step-mothers begins with 'one thing' to sit at His feet and receive from Him all He delights in supplying us to live the abundant life".
Being a blended family is a big step for all parties involved! Remembering that and walking with the Lord will greatly increase our chances of not just surviving but thriving in a possibly difficult environment.
I highly recommend this book if you are starting out a new blended family, but it will also be very beneficial if you have been in one for years, or maybe know someone who is. Sadly, Kathi writes in her book, "according the the Step Family Foundation, second marriages only stand a 40% chance of survival, and third marriages less than that". All the help we can get seem important under such a strain.
I was blessed with this book by the author as a part of her launch team in exchange for my honest opinion.
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