In this insightful book, Dr. John Townsend introduces a revolutionary approach to resolving problems and moving ahead constructively with those difficult people in our lives. Who's Pushing Your Buttons? takes an in-depth look at the "root" of why difficult people are the way they are, and assists with strategies to navigate these relationships in a way that maximizes change, growth and love between people. Most people have no idea how to reach out to, confront, negotiate with or set appropriate limits with their difficult person. Who's Pushing Your Buttons? provides both principles and practical help from a uniquely biblical perspective. Read by the author. Unabridged. 6 hours.
Button-pushers come in all shapes and sizes, but they have one thing in common: Their behavior drives us crazy and makes us dream of ways to escape the mess we’re in. The person who pushes your buttons is likely someone who matters to you—a spouse, a parent, a boss, a fellow church member. Almost always the difficult person is connected to you by blood, love, faith, or money, so you can’t just end the relationship without causing pain and upheaval in your life. Our friends and today’s culture will often advise us to abandon such relationships quickly—to end this unpleasant chapter and get on with our lives. “Your button-pusher is not someone you would easily and casually leave. You are intertwined at many levels. It is worth the trouble to take a look at the ways the relationship you had, and want, can be revived and reborn.” This audio book offers expert insights to help you understand your own button-pusher, wise assistance in determining the nature of the problem, compassionate help in identifying your failed attempts to fix things, a hope-filled vision for what can be and how to make it come true, and rich resources to help you navigate the necessary changes.
Dr. John Townsend is a popular speaker, psychologist, co-host of the national radio broadcast New Life Live!
, and co-founder of Cloud-Townsend Resources. His many books include the award-winning God Will Make a Way
and the breakout best-seller Boundaries
, both co-authored with Dr. Henry Cloud. He maintains a private practice in southern California, where he lives with his wife, Barbi, and their two sons.
"Do you have crazy-making relationships that wont go away? Here an articulate mental health expert describes a variety of button-pushing patterns and their emotional dynamics. The rational perspective is comforting at first and allows some distance from the pain. But then the genial Dr. Townsend presses listeners to understand their own reactions and do something. Hes a clever writer and enjoyable to hear in spite of occasional indulgences in intellectual wheel-spinning. The morality of Christianity is obvious, but the stronger influences are the secular themes of self-scrutiny, honesty, and accountability. A key lesson is the authors advice on how to talk with troublemakers about their behavior, once insight about the dynamics has been gained."
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