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  1. 5 Stars Out Of 5
    A Delicate Balance
    September 27, 2018
    Riss
    Quality: 4
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5
    I am a youth director at a traditional church and have had three students express to me their gender dysphoria. I based most of my talks with them around my own struggles with sexuality and recovery program methods--all of which weren't that helpful because as Yarhouse explains gender dysphoria isn't really a sexuality issue when we come down to it. Finally, I decided to bite the bullet and pray that there was a Christian author who knew both compassion and Truth for my struggling students.

    The book is very clear to say that after reading this we are no expert--humility is the key to this book. I love that. The book even goes so far as to say that there is a lot we don't know and humbly presents every theory of acceptance and cause. It's wonderful!

    What I learned that really helped my ministry was to just listen, acknowledge these feelings aren't a choice, and encourage coping with the dysphoria with the less invasive procedures while understanding sometimes people will choose surgery.

    This book really should be read by all Christians.

    Yarhouse explains this hard to understand concept through many avenues and keeps the Truth alive and at the heart of it all. I loved it and have already recommended it to friends.
  2. 5 Stars Out Of 5
    Informative, Pastoral, Human, Balanced
    June 6, 2017
    Andy Le Peau
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5
    It seems obligatory these days to begin any discussion of sex and society with autobiography. So here goes. I'm an old, white, heterosexual male who basically doesn't have a clue when it comes to understanding gender dysphoria. (But I guess the second half of that sentence was redundant with the first half.) That's why I appreciated psychologist Mark Yarhouse's book so much.

    First, Understanding Gender Dysphoria is just very informative. With dozens of terms being used these days (transgender, cisgender, gender bending, cross-dressing, third gender, genderfluid, genderqueer, intersex and many more) it is quite confusing. Step by step Yarhouse unravels what all these mean, recognizing that definitions are constantly in flux with new terms seemingly being added weekly.

    In addition, Yarhouse keeps the humanity of such people in the forefront. He doesn't turn them into projects or causes. They are simply people we should have sympathy with. Why? Because of the distress they feel due to their sense of incongruence between their psychological or emotional gender identities on the one hand and their biological sex on the other.

    We need to have open, reasoned public discussions on the issues involved. But that's not what this book is primarily about. It's about people, and how we can and should engage them compassionately and pastorally. Yarhouse suggests that most transgender people don't choose to have this kind of distress. They just do. And no one knows why--neither neuroscientists, psychologists, geneticists nor sociologists. Theologically we know none of us is free from the effects of the Fall. We have all sinned and been sinned against. The world and we who live in it are not as God intended. That's our starting point.

    From there Yarhouse offers an immensely helpful threefold framework. First is the integrity framework which emphasizes the givenness of maleness and femaleness biologically. Next is the disability framework which tells us that in a fallen world people will have non-moral mental health issues (anorexia, depression, schizophrenia) with a mix of social, psychological and biological factors contributing in different degrees. We should address those conditions with compassion.

    Third is the diversity framework which has two forms. The strong form is taken by activists (a minority of transgender people) who believe sex and gender have no meaning in society and should be deconstructed. Adherents of the weak form don't want to eradicate gender but simply seek a place in society where their difference can be honored and celebrated.

    Each of these has their strengths and weaknesses, says Yarhouse. He points us toward the goal of combining the best of all of these into an integrated framework. Such a framework would affirm the integrity of the differences between the sexes, be guided by compassion as we help people manage their gender dysphoria, and affirm the opportunity for such people to have meaning, identity and a sense of community.

    As Yarhouse writes, "I know many people who are navigating gender identity concerns who love Jesus and are desperately seeking to honor him. I think it would be a mistake to see these individuals as rebellious (as a group) or as projects. . . . The Christian community faces a unique challenge in rising above the culture wars . . . as we think about how to engage both the broader culture and the individual who is navigating gender identity questions" (pp. 25, 100). His book is a tremendous resource in meeting those challenges.
  3. 5 Stars Out Of 5
    Transgender
    September 30, 2015
    Identity Crisis
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    Very informative on the subject, better than any other book I have read on this matter. If you want to know about transgender and all items pertaining thereto this is an excellent book.
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