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In Unbound: Finding Freedom from Unrealistic Expectations of Motherhood, Jamie Sumner helps women who are struggling with the pressures of motherhood find comfort, hope and companionship by detailing her own difficult journey and highlighting women of the Bible who triumphed in the face of seemingly insurmountable odds.
She accomplishes by walking readers through each chapter of her own journey to motherhood through infertility and special needs parenting and pairs it with that of a woman in the Bible so that readers can find comfort, hope, companionship and honesty rooted in biblical truths.
Number of Pages: 240
Vendor: Faith Words
Publication Date: 2018
|Dimensions: 8 X 5.25 (inches)|
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"Jamie Sumner approaches the ups and downs of motherhood with honesty and wit, making us all feel a little better about the job we're doing...while at the same time inspiring us through the fact that we're not alone. Women through history -- from the ancient Old Testament to now -- have all struggled to find the balance of their identity in Christ and as mothers. This book is balm for our souls." Kate Etue, co-author of The Essential Five: A Grown-Up Girl's Handbook for Everything
Michele MorinWarren, MaineAge: 45-54Gender: female5 Stars Out Of 5Motherhood: Learning the Ropes of JoyApril 10, 2018Michele MorinWarren, MaineAge: 45-54Gender: femaleQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5Motherhood, for me, started out like a tightrope walk. To keep my balance and maintain my place on the tightly stretched wire, I read all the books, analyzed all the angles, second guessed all the decisions, and the only thing that saved my sanity is that Google had not been invented yet.
Im still in the process of taking grace for this mothering gig, and one huge encouragement along the way is the shared experiences of others. Jamie Sumner is also a mother who walks on the tightly-wound side, and Unbound: Finding Freedom from Unrealistic Expectations of Motherhood is a memoir of her mothering journey in which she allows her own story to tell itself, while weaving in fresh re-tellings of the familiar life stories of biblical women.
It was none other than Sarah and Hannah, Elisabeth and Naomi who walked with Jamie in The Wanting and The Waiting of infertility. It was Mary Magdalene, Martha, and a choir of lesser known biblical women who sang her through The Getting and The Appreciating of a high-risk pregnancy, a ten-week endurance test in the NICU, and the white knuckle gauntlet of learning to parent an extremely fragile special needs infant.
The conflict that persists throughout the books narrative arc is Jamies struggle to stay present, be still, and take notice of the moment she was in. Being in a season of infertility presented a persistent reinforcement of the truth that even a much-wanted baby would not fill Jamie and her husband Jodys hollowness in a way that was eternally satisfying. Years of shots and pills and finally the roller coaster of IVF made it hard to stay close to their mission statement: What was all this about, anyway?
The Wanting and the Waiting
As she waited for success, Jamie threw herself into her teaching career and went about the business of lesson plans and grading papers as a distraction from the continual pondering of the state of her uterus. Progress was always followed by set backs, and the devastation of miscarriage mirrored the empty/full, empty/full rhythms of Naomis life in the book of Ruth. Jamie identified with Mrs. Noah, pacing the deck of the ark and feeling like a spectator in her own lifes story.
The Getting and the Appreciating
Throughout her first pregnancy, Jamie worked hard to turn down worry and crank up the trust, which is a continual battle in a process over which one has so little control. Coping with waves of uncertainty and an always-changing prognosis, Jamie was Mary Magdalene, sitting on a hard rock during a long sermon on a Galileean hillside. She was a frayed and frazzled Miriam in the thirty-fifth year in the desert.
Learning the ropes of joy meant embracing the blessing of birth and the promise of new life while living with the bitter disappointment that came when waves of bad news continually washed over their days.
Images of Motherhood
Unbound comes from the perspective of a young mother against the backdrop of infertility, high-risk pregnancy, and parenting toddler twins plus a special needs pre-schooler with a chromosomal defect and cerebral palsy. Jamies story will encourage and lighten the load of readers who are living a similar journey, but her insights on mothering transcend any particular season. The voice of Unbound is a dialogue between reader and author, and feels like the conversations that happen among mums over coffee around a mult-generational table.
Reading Unbound, I was reminded that Motherhood is:
a sky dive into unknown territory where your shoot wont open until the very last possible second, and only when someone else pulls the cord; (76)
an endless attempt to get your legs back; (115)
a long way to fall without a net; (107)
a continually changing plan that has you kicking the tires and eating fried rice; (140)
a continual reminder that we cannot claim possession of either our lives or the lives of those we love. (166)
Tracing the Outlines of Grace
We come through the challenges of mothering NOT because of our own incredible giftedness or the presence of a mom-gene (157) that imparts super powers and exalted wisdom. Women become mothers and thrive in the role because there are outlines of grace (153) on our story, even though they are not visible to us all the time.
When Mary of Nazareth sang the poignant theology of the Magnificat, she was operating in faith that the new upside-down of her life was part of a bigger plan. When the impoverished New Testament widow emptied her pockets and let those two coins fall away, she was exercising trust for an unseen and improbable future.
In the NICU and beyond, Jamie and Jody Sumner have parented their children in the context of a growing faith that prays two-coin-prayers for God to keep [their son] protected and deliver him to [them] in whatever state He saw fit. (177)
Faith unbound perseveres in prayer no matter what.
Hanging on hard to the ropes of joy, faith prays and doesnt give up during seasons of infertility, during the sturm und drang of toddlerhood, against the hum of hospital emergency equipment, when the engine of the teens new truck is revving in the driveway, or when the grandchildren are coming for their first overnight.
Throughout our wildly varied parenting journeys, may we find freedom from anxiety and unrealistic expectations as we trust God and pray:
Please help us to be good stewards of our own lives and any life you grant us. (192)
Amen and amen.
Thank you to Faith Words, a division of Hachette Book Group, Inc. for providing a copy of this book for my review which is, of course, freely and honestly given.