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Publication Date: 2015
When youve put into practice all the usual advice, but your marriage still falls short of the intimacy and joy you want, what then? Are patience and perseverance your only hope for a better relationship?
Author and speaker Sheila Wray Gregoire says, "Absolutely not!" The solution to a happier relationship is not found in being a more patient, more perfect wife, but in taking responsibility for what you can doand especially for how you think about your marriage. She challenges you to replace pat Christian answers with nine biblical truths that will radically shift your perspective on your husband, your relationship, and your role in Gods design for marriage, including…
· My Husband Cant Make Me Mad
· Being One Is More Important Than Being Right
· Having Sex Is Not the Same as Making Love
With humor and honesty, Sheila invites you to believe that God wants to bring oneness and intimacy to your marriageand challenges you to partner with Him in that process by changing the way you think.
From the Trade Paperback edition.
From the Trade Paperback edition.
About the Author▼▲
Sheila Wray Gregoire is a popular speaker, marriage blogger, and the author of seven books, including The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex. She loves encouraging women in their relationships, both with God and with their husbands, children, and friends. Her passion is for marriage, and she and her husband Keith speak together at marriage outreaches and at FamilyLife Canada marriage conferences. Sheila believes in authenticity, and gives real solutions to the very real and messy problems women, and couples, can face.
Nine Thoughts That Can Change Your Marriage▼▲
- Happiness is like a boomerang; Aim for it and you'll get smacked. (Romans 8:29; Micah 6:8)
- You married your husband, not the potential inside of your husband. (Romans 12:18; John 21: 20-22)
- God is on your husband's side, too. (Darn it) (Matthew 25: 31-46)
- The aim of marriage is oneness, not hierarchy. (John 17:21, 1 Corinthians 1:10)
- You're called to be a PeaceMAKER, not a PeaceKEEPER. (Matthew 5:9; Matthew 18: 15-17)
- If you win a marriage battle, you'll likely lose the war. (Luke 14: 31-33)
- You can determine your thoughts. (2 Corinthians 10:5; Philippians 4:6,7)
- Having sex is not the same as making love. (Genesis 4:1; Psalm 139: 23, 24)
- You will never drift together; you can only drift apart. So don't drift! (Matthew 25: 1 - 13)
Sheila on "Nine Thought That Can Change Your Marriage"▼▲
Marriage is messy. We desperately yearn to feel like we're one, but too often our spouse gets in the way of all of our sweet dreams. And when we've tried all the typical advice - just pray, just duck and wait for him to change, just hold your tongue and be nice and he'll adjust, too - what do we do then?
What if making marriages work is more than just submitting and respecting? What if God gave us a far greater arsenal for forging intimacy - and we've ignored it?
9 Thoughts That Will Change Your Marriage will point people to deep truths which, if we understand them, will empower us to grow our marriages, even if those marriages are messy. You do have the ability to change your marriage. It's not about sitting back and waiting and playing the "duck" game - but actually joining the battle and being part of what God is trying to do in your family.
Fawn Weaver, New York Times best-selling author of Happy Wives Club
"What a wonderful book! Sheila has such a delightful writing style that you forget youre learning so much. The teaching points are inspiring, and the action steps truly can be marriage-transforming. Many readers will particularly appreciate Sheilas delightful way of challenging conventional wisdom as she offers freshly applied biblical wisdom. One of the best things you could do for your spouse, your children, and your own happiness and contentment in the coming year is to read and apply Nine Thoughts That Can Change Your Marriage."
Gary Thomas, author of Sacred Marriage and A Lifelong Love
"The truths in Nine Thoughts That Can Change Your Marriage hold the power to revolutionize relationships. Sheila Wray Gregoire gives it to us straight: we can be happy, we can have the good marriage that God designed. But first we need to change our thought life. As Sheila challenges pat answers and common misconceptions about what makes a marriage work, she offers an alternate, hope-filled path. Her real-life examples and biblically rooted insights will free you to approach your marriage with a transformed attitude and renewed energy."
Shannon Ethridge, relationship coach, speaker, and author of the bestseller Every Womans Battle
"In this lively and engaging book, Sheila doesnt just explode cultural myths about marriage and relationship and replace them with biblical truth; she also provides ultrapractical tasks for wives to apply every bit of their new knowledge. I love the emphasis on working on yourself first, rather than trying to change your spouse. Way to go, Sheila!"
Shaunti Feldhahn, social researcher and best-selling author of For Women Only
"Weve all heard the adage, It takes two to make a marriage work. And its true. But with Nine Thoughts That Can Change Your Marriage, Sheila Wray Gregoire gives women powerful tools to make a huge difference in their marriages all on their own. Instead of focusing on what our husbands should do, Sheila helps us focus on what we as wives actually can do. Actionable, empowering, and freeing. A must read for every woman who wonders if her marriage could be better."
Kathi Lipp, author of The Husband Project and Clutter Free
"Although an honest personal assessment can be painful at times in marriage, it is worth it. Sheila takes us on a journey of discovering how our personal thoughts may be interfering with our marriage and gives us practical steps on how to make the lasting change we long for and desperately need!"
Ruth Schwenk, speaker, author, and creator of TheBetterMom.com
"For as [she] thinks in [her] heart, so is [she] (Proverbs 23:7, nkjv). Sheila wisely helps women think healthy thoughts so they can create a healthier marriage. Think honest, loving, practical, biblical, relevantthose are the kind of wise thoughts Sheila will help you think so you can discover the power to build a love to look forward to living."
Pam Farrel, best-selling author of forty books, including Men Are Like Waffles, Women Are Like Spaghetti and Red Hot Monogamy
"In Nine Thoughts That Can Change Your Marriage, Sheila Wray Gregoire challenges spouses to take the focus off of what their marriage partner is doing wrong and, instead, change their own thought patterns to see their spouse in a whole new light. What I love most about Sheila is that she writes from experience, not just theory. She is transparent about how her own faulty thinking created struggles early in her marriage, and she celebrates how God redeemed her situation to create the beautiful relationship she now enjoys with her husband. Through this, readers will be encouraged that a transformed marriage relationship just may start in changing their own way of thinking."
Erin Odom, creator of TheHumbledHomemaker.com and author of Your Retreat: A Guide to Giving Yourself a Personal Planning Day
From the Trade Paperback edition.