Just having fun with them. Shhhh! Sometimes you have to get a person attention to see the truth about what going on. The other person is being "Love Dared" out of an ungodly situation. I just happen to be reaping the blessing from God and enjoying the moments!
These have been great for our relationship. Some of them don't seem to fit into our lives as well as others, but we have become much more thoughtful and loving to each other -- and we're 63 and 70! Who says old dogs can't learn new tricks?
By themselves these cards may be useful, but I bought the Love Dare as well. I am not using the cards because I find I do not need the reminder - the dares are so straightforward and simple that I remember them without a card in my pocket.