I needed a book to help rebuild my marriage and to help my husband see my side of what I was feeling, so he could better understand what I was going through. This book far exceeded our expectations! Not only did it help him see what I was feeling, it helped me to see what I was feeling and it helped us have a deeper relationship with God! It has helped us rebuild our marriage. I always thought our marriage was a good one, but after reading this book it showed me our marriage wasn't as good as it really should be, and it showed me the path of destruction. I got a chance to see what other men also struggle with. This book will also help you (women) to take a deeper look at yourselves so you can help your men overcome this deep dark horrible mess. It will also help all of us take a stand on what our society "thinks" is normal acceptable behavior. There is lots of scripture to look at, to back everything that is written. Blessings :)
Blessings to Clay and Renee for sharing their personal story. Many people are struggling with sexual addictions today. As the wife of a husband working through his addiction, Renee's testimony gave me a place to begin. Clay's testimony helped me to better understand the struggles my husband is working through. My husband is reading it now and has learned a lot about me through Renee's story. Most of all, this book gave us confirmation of letting God be in the forefront of this battle. It is too big for us to fight alone. Thank you Clay and Renee and may God continue His good works through you.
The product is a learning tool for anyone who has suffered any issues in life. It is not just about pornography. It is about putting God first in your life and your relationship with Him. Well written and so much to learn. I love Clay's music and when I heard about his suffering, my heart ached. He was blessed with the most beautiful voice. I am happy that God allowed him to sing those beautiful messages when he did. I will cherish those CDs that I have. I Surrender All is one of my favorite songs. God bless the Crosse family. Thank you God for the message and messages in the songs.
This is a great book for anyone who is going through this. Clay and Renee clearly explain how your daily life can encourage such behavior. Thank you for having the courage to write this book. God is faithful to find you where you are and bring you back to Him.
I highly recommend this book for any woman who is dealing with the feelings of betrayal and broken trust caused by her husband's use of pornography. This was one of the very few books I could find written to comfort and encourage the wife. It helped to hear Clay's perspective, then to read Renne's reactions and thoughts... how comforting that someone else thought the very same things I did. This book gives hope for a renewed, healthy marriage in the wake of pornography use.