Love at First Fight: 52 Story-Based Meditations for Married Couples - eBookDena Dyer, Carey DyerShiloh Run Press / 2016 / ePub$7.99 Retail:4.5 Stars Out Of 5 19 Reviews
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Laurie5 Stars Out Of 5Love at First FightFebruary 10, 2020LaurieQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5I loved the book and saw myself in many of the examples given. It is a great couples read and a handbook on how to love and live with your spouse. Excellent!
In it to win it5 Stars Out Of 5Great book for couplesDecember 14, 2017In it to win itQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5I highly recommend this book for couples of all ages and years of marriage. If you want something that you can sit down and read together during your devotional time, this is a great book. I love the fact that it gives the male and female perspective on each day's reading. It provides food for thought and opens the lines of communication between you and your spouse.
MadeoverBedford,TexasAge: 45-54Gender: female5 Stars Out Of 5Love At First Fight--Great Resource For CouplesSeptember 13, 2016MadeoverBedford,TexasAge: 45-54Gender: femaleQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5What a delightful resource for couples. I loved that the
book is set up for couples to study together with 52
Meditations. Allowing couples to spend a year together
strengthening their marriage. Each devotion includes
prayer scripture and action steps to work on together.
Also included are Tips from Pro's. A very short section at
the end of each devotional. I enjoyed reading the tips from
This is a great and helpful book for all couples. Even if
you've never done a study or devotional together this is a
good place to start.
I recommend Love At First Fight for all
I received a complimentary copy from Barbour
Publishing in exchange for my honest review.
JeaniePhoenix, AZAge: 55-65Gender: female5 Stars Out Of 5A Gift for your MarriageSeptember 9, 2016JeaniePhoenix, AZAge: 55-65Gender: femaleQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5Have you ever felt as if your marriage is a battle, or that you dont understand your spouse? Love at First Fight by Carey and Dena Dyer is a unique, Christ-centered devotional for couples that can help bring them closer together or help one spouse if the other isnt ready for it. There are many beneficial things that this real-life married-almost-20-years team share. It is a must-read for Christian couples, whether newly-wed or together for years. The authors are transparent with their feelings and struggles and how they learned to work through them not in their own strength but in the Lords. They share humor, showing how to laugh at oneself or the situation. Each devotion is a starting place for couples to converse with each other.
One thing they demonstrate is that, while each person and couple is unique, there are many ways we are alike. Many husbands and wives are complete opposites. Many spouses are afraid to share their feelings, fears or failures with anyone, much less their spouse. Carey and Dena are blessed examples that others might have had the same struggles. Learning to speak with and listen to ones spouse can bring positive changes over time, especially when each begins to have empathy for each other, also allowing a couple to seek a solution together in a way pleasing to the Lord.
The authors address challenges common to many couples, and challenges that effect some couples and not others. The devotions begin with the early days of marriage and go through various life stages such as having children, raising children, or looking at aging situations. These include if one of the spouses has a chronic illness and the other spouse has to step up in ways that neither anticipated, if a spouse has lost a job and struggles to find a new one, or if a spouse is dealing with depression. A topic not addressed, probably since the authors did not personally experience it, would be one or both spouses having children from prior marriages and the variety of challenges that can result. I do feel that using this couples pattern of devotions, these and other challenges can be peacefully discussed and worked through.
Each devotion begins with a scripture apropos to the conversational, story-based devotion, then each spouse writes from their point of view and what they learned. They include a prayer, then a section aptly called Taking off the Gloves where suggestions are made, based on the authors experience through the Lords direction. These suggestions are a starting place for a couple to discuss their challenge while seeking a solution. The last part of each devotion is Tips from the Pros, literally a tip from someone who has been married for various numbers of years sharing something they learned in their marriage.
Included is a list of ministries that address couples situations (such as Focus on the Family), a list of authors who write on marriage relationships (such as Gary Smalley), and a list of scriptures used.
There is something for every couple at in this valuable book! I highly recommend Love at First Fight to every couple (or even one spouse if the other isnt ready). Couples preparing for marriage may also find some suggested discussions helpful, especially if guided by their pastor before the big day.
With a grateful heart, I received a copy of this book from the publisher, Barbour Publishing, in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are my own, and no monetary compensation was received.
Laura HiltonHorseshoe Bend, ARAge: 45-54Gender: female4 Stars Out Of 5Love at First FightSeptember 9, 2016Laura HiltonHorseshoe Bend, ARAge: 45-54Gender: femaleQuality: 4Value: 4Meets Expectations: 0LOVE AT FIRST FIGHT is written by a husband and wife team. Mr. Dyer has an outstanding sense of humor which had me (and my daughter who read parts of it) in stitches. Both of them talked about different personality traits and how they as complete opposites learned to live with each other. The authors were both very transparent, shared their brokenness and stressed that they aren't experts, but want others to learn from their mistakes. A great book for newlywed couples.