Sober Mercies: How Love Caught up with a Christian Drunk - eBook  -     By: Heather Harpham Kopp
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Jericho Books / 2013 / ePub

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Format: DRM Protected ePub
Vendor: Jericho Books
Publication Date: 2013
ISBN: 9781455527731
ISBN-13: 9781455527731

Publisher's Description

Where do you turn for hope when you already have the answer--but the answer isn't working?

As a long-time Christian, Heather Kopp never expected to become an out-of-control alcoholic who kept private stashes of booze all over the place--tucked behind books in her study, zipped into a special compartment in her oversized purse, at the back of her closet stuffed inside her boots.

Even as her career and marriage teetered on the brink, Kopp couldn't get a grip, desperately hiding the true extent of her drinking from the rest of the world--her husband included. During the day she wrote books about God and prayer and family. At night she'd locked herself in her bathroom to guzzle chardonnay.

For her, as for many Christians who struggle with addiction, overwhelming shame and confusion only made things worse. Why wasn't her faith enough to save her? Why didn't repentance, Bible reading and prayer work? Where was God?

Meanwhile, as she watched in horror, her grown son descended into his own nightmare of drugs and alcohol. She feared for his life, yet she couldn't stop drinking long enough to help him--or find a way out for herself.

Until the day everything changed.

Engaging, funny and bracingly honest, Kopp shares her remarkable journey into darkness...and back to the light again. Her story reveals the unique challenges and spiritual conundrums Christians face when they become ensnared in an addiction, and the redemption that's possible when we finally reach the end of ourselves.

If you love Jesus but shop too much, drink too much, eat too much, crush on men who aren't your husband, or otherwise fixate on doing things you hate but can't stop doing, SOBER MERCIES is for you.

As you follow Kopp's sincere, stumbling journey toward freedom and a deeply satisfying relationship with God, you'll find renewed hope--and practical steps of recovery--for your own journey.

Author Bio

Heather Kopp is an author, editor, and blogger. Among her books are a critically acclaimed memoir, I Went to the Animal Fair and The Dieter's Prayer Book. With her husband, David, she wrote Roar! A Christian Family Guide to the Chronicles of Narnia, the Praying the Bible series, and other books. Heather blogs about addiction, grace and recovery at She and her husband have five grown children, and live in Colorado.

Editorial Reviews

"In SOBER MERCIES, Heather Kopp's soft wisdom is delivered so skillfully that it continued to settle in days and weeks after I read the last page. Heather's vision of Christianity is vast, inclusive and interesting. Her journey is hilarious and inspiring and her honesty is both surprising and comforting. I plan to keep extra copies of SOBER MERCIES on my bookshelf, ready to give to any friend struggling with faith, recovery, forgiveness, or life. So, I'll give it to everyone, I guess. I love this book. SOBER MERCIES is a gift and Heather Kopp is my favorite kind of person: a student-turned-teacher of life."—Glennon Doyle Melton, founder of, author of Carry On, Warrior
"I loved SOBER MERCIES. Kopp is funny, heartbreaking, compelling, and wise. More than that, this is an important book. Kopp talks frankly about being a Christian and an alcoholic. This book is a must for any church recovery group or anyone facing addiction."—Susan E. Isaacs, actor, author of Angry Conversations with God
"SOBER MERCIES is simply one of the best, most honest, brilliantly written memoirs I've read. Heather Kopp gives such encouragement for when we wonder why faith alone hasn't rescued us from destructive habits. Her story stands as a beacon of hope for all of us in a broken world."—Jud Wilhite, author of Pursued, senior pastor of Central Christian Church
"SOBER MERCIES is a delightful and brave read. Heather Kopp's narrative, full of gut-wrenching detail and heartfelt confession, is beautifully crafted, a story filled with the kind of self-reflection and wisdom reminiscent of Anne Lamott and Mary Karr. And like the works of Lamott and Karr, the true gift of Kopp's tale is that every reader--addict or not--will find its honesty and hope filling."—Matthew Paul Turner, author of Churched and Hear No Evil
"Taut prose, a compelling story, and a beautifully fresh voice kept me turning the pages of SOBER MERCIES. This is not a pretty story. It's not another well-decorated memoir where the author glosses over failure and stress. Heather Kopp's story is raw. Her bravery will give others the permission to grow, change, and heal."—Mary DeMuth, author of Thin Places: A Memoir
"I couldn't put this book down, devouring it in a weekend. Even people who have never struggled with addiction will find themselves in Heather Kopp's memoir of finding God's strength only when she recognized her own powerlessness. As she says, it's about 'how to lean-helplessly, foolishly, hopefully-on a God you can't fully explain. And how to do it, over and over, every day.'"—Jana Riess, author of Flunking Sainthood: A Year of Breaking the Sabbath, Forgetting to Pray, and Still Loving My Neighbor
"This is not a book for alcoholics, or a book for friends and family of addicts, or a book for counselors, or a book for women; it's a book for everyone. Heather's story--honestly and beautifully told--invites us all to the table, baggage in tow, to confront our shared brokenness, our shared hopes, and our shared need for community, forgiveness, and grace. This book will challenge and change you. It will reintroduce you, with new words and images and stories, to the grace and goodness of God."—Rachel Held Evans, blogger, author of Evolving in Monkey Town and A Year of Biblical Womanhood

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  1. 5 Stars Out Of 5
    Riveting Tale
    June 1, 2013
    Kathy Collard Miller
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    Heather Kopp's new book is entitled Sober Mercies: A Memoir: How Love Caught Up With A Christian Drunk. I didn't want to stop reading this riveting tale of how she overcame being an alcohol abuser. It tells the ups and downs of recovery and draws in the reader to feel a part of her struggle. Plus, her writing is filled with little twists of humor and word usage that actually inspired me to laugh out loud. She definitely has a way with words!

    Heather's very honest and vulnerable sharing kept me thinking about her story and how important it is. I think it's important because it helps us who don't have a problem with alcohol understand the mind and motives of those who do. But it's more than that. Her story is everyone's story—but with a different temptation.

    Because Satan isn't all that creative in the tactics he uses to addict Heather to alcohol. The same strategies and lies that he tells Heather, are the same ones that he tells us all. Lies like

    I need something to help me feel comfortable in social situations.

    I'm responsible for other people's needs being met.

    If I am good enough, God will love me.

    I have to strive on my own to complete God's work in me.

    What I need right now to cope is... (choose your addiction of choice: eating, chocolate, being angry, telling a little white lie, blaming, criticism, etc, etc)

    Sound familiar? They should be. Heather's journey of sobriety involves facing those kinds of lies and replacing them with truth. And we're all on that journey in one way or another.

    That's why I think everyone should read this book. It's an inspiring story that strengthens our trust in God and reveals the ways we're all addicted to something...whether it's perfectionism or hardening our heart or responding with anger or being defensive name it. Alcoholism is only one of many maneuvers Satan uses to built distrust in God.

    While Heather's journey involves a twelve-step program, she does not name it and asks readers to refrain from trying to guess which one it is. As a part of such a program, she refers to the belief that alcoholism is a disease. Personally, I'm ambivalent about it being described in that way. I'm not proficient enough or knowledgeable enough to argue otherwise, but in the end, Heather writes, "These days, instead of viewing addiction as either sin or sickness, I believe it involves both." (pg 200).

    I'm very excited to recommend Heather Kopp's book and to also suggest you check out her blog: I read every one of her posts. They challenge me in my own Christian walk. (Although I received a copy of this book from the publisher, my comments are my own.)
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