Same-Sex Marriage: A Thoughtful Approach to God's Design for Marriage
Buy Item $6.99 Retail: $9.99 Save 30% ($3.00)
In Stock
Stock No: WW018343
Baker Books / 2014 / Paperback

Add To Cart

Add To Wishlist
Buy eBook Begin reading in seconds $6.54 eBook Details

Add To Cart


Same-Sex Marriage: A Thoughtful Approach to God's Design for Marriage

Baker Books / 2014 / Paperback

In Stock
CBD Stock No: WW018343

  • Other Formats (1)
Other Formats (1)
  1. In Stock
    Retail: $9.99
    Add To Cart

Product Description

Whether for it or against it, same-sex marriage matters: to the Church, to people, and to the future of our society. In Same-Sex Marriage, authors Sean McDowell and John Stonestreet face these uncharted waters by clearly defining and contrasting two very different meanings of marriage. In the process, they reveal the dramatic shift in our culture's understanding of human dignity, and the meaning of freedom and sex.

Product Information

Format: Paperback
Number of Pages: 173
Vendor: Baker Books
Publication Date: 2014
Dimensions: 8.5 X 5.50 (inches)
ISBN: 080101834X
ISBN-13: 9780801018343
Series: Thoughtful Response

Related Products

  1. A Surrendered Life: A Thoughtful Approach to Finding Freedom, Healing, and Hope After AbortionSALE
    A Surrendered Life: A Thoughtful Approach to Finding Freedom, Healing, and Hope After Abortion
    Patricia K. Layton
    Baker Books / 2014 / Trade Paperback
    $1.99 Retail: $9.99 Save 80% ($8.00)
  2. The Truth About Same-Sex Marriage: 6 Things You Must Know About What's Really at Stake
    The Truth About Same-Sex Marriage: 6 Things You Must Know About What's Really at Stake
    Erwin W. Lutzer
    Moody Publishers / 2010 / Trade Paperback
    $6.99 Retail: $8.99 Save 22% ($2.00)
    4.5 Stars Out Of 5 3 Reviews
  3. Counter Culture
    Counter Culture
    David Platt
    Tyndale House / 2015 / Hardcover
    $11.99 Retail: $19.99 Save 40% ($8.00)
    5 Stars Out Of 5 4 Reviews Video
  4. What Is Marriage? Man and Woman: A Defense
    What Is Marriage? Man and Woman: A Defense
    Sherif Girgis, Ryan T. Anderson, Robert P. George
    Encounter Books / 2012 / Trade Paperback
    $14.39 Retail: $15.99 Save 10% ($1.60)

Publisher's Description

Same-sex marriage is here, presenting unique challenges and opportunities. How do those who follow Christ faithfully answer the standard talking points for same-sex marriage? And how can they best articulate the case for one-man, one-woman marriage in everyday conversation?

Sean McDowell and John Stonestreet believe a thoughtful approach to God's design for marriage is the answer to both questions. The key is not a contentious attitude towards those who believe in same-sex marriage, but a winsome perspective that is faithful to Christ, committed to truth, and shaped by a love for God and others. Christians need to know that because Christ has risen, there is no such thing as "all hope is lost." They are still called to engage culture even if they are viewed as wrong, illegal and intolerant.

Author Bio

Sean McDowell (PhD, Southern Baptist Theological Seminary) is a gifted communicator with a passion for reaching the younger generation with the gospel message. A professor at Biola University in the apologetics program, Sean is the author or coauthor of fifteen books, including The Apologetics Study Bible for Students. He travels widely, speaking at camps, churches, universities, and conferences.

John Stonestreet is a speaker and fellow of the Chuck Colson Center for Christian Worldview, as well as the co-host with Eric Metaxas of Breakpoint, the Christian worldview radio program founded by Chuck Colson. John is a sought-after speaker at conferences, colleges, and churches on the subjects of theology, apologetics, and faith and culture. He holds degrees from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School and Bryan College and is the coauthor of Making Sense of Your World.

Product Reviews

5 Stars Out Of 5
5 out of 5
3.3 out Of 5
(3.3 out of 5)
3.3 out Of 5
(3.3 out of 5)
Meets Expectations:
3.3 out Of 5
(3.3 out of 5)
of customers would recommend this product to a friend.
Displaying items 1-3 of 3
Page 1 of 1
  1. Riley B
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    A gracious and constructive response to modern culture
    January 26, 2016
    Riley B
    Quality: 0
    Value: 0
    Meets Expectations: 0
    The fight for gay marriage has seemed to have ended, as the government finally made same-sex marriage legal in all states. But as a follower of the Lord, I have struggled to find a way to justify this act in everyday lives, because I believe it to be against what God has called us to do and how to behave. Legalizing gay marriage has put Christians in a difficult situation as to how we should respond and what we should do from here. Though I want to be pleasing to the Lord, I also aspire to be loving and caring to all those around me.

    I read "Same- Sex Marriage" By Sean McDowell and John Stonestreet and found that this book was shown to be an insightful and well-thought out approach to how Christians should respond to same-sex marriage. This book carefully stated the Christian beliefs against same-sex marriage, but it also exampled the many loving ways we are to handle this topic. This book equips us with the right mindset and attitude to have with this sensitive subject.

    The first few chapters of this book face what it actually means to be married, the requirements through the government versus what it means to be married according to God's Word. This leads into the discussion of why marriage is important and what it effects, and as I have learned, it does not just simply effect the people participating in this relation, but it also effects the entire next generation and the government we will have through the children that families may raise. Many other arguments were made in favor of the pro-life movement, giving detailed reasons that children need a mother and a father.

    The second half of the book was strung together in a way that allowed a Christian reader, such as myself, to feel more comfortable in my beliefs against same-sex marriage. As the first half of the book explained why we should belief what the Bible says about same-sex marriage through the Lord's Word and through non-biblical arguments, the second half of the book tackles how we should respond now. As I read through this part of the book, I felt much more confident in the way I would interact and respond to the changes in my culture. The authors provided detailed examples and many scenarios that prove that a Christian can oppose what culture is pushing, all the while doing it in a respectful and loving way that pleases the Lord.

    My favorite chapter in this book (chapter 9) gave a fair push back against Christians and how we must be careful to not judge or have unfair thoughts against those we hold different views from. For example, this book proves that that God has a specific design and set for marriage. Although we know that we see same-sex marriage as a sin and something that isnt for God, it does not mean that same-sex marriage is what is corrupting the world. Though it is one of the many factors that is pulling society away from what God is calling us to do, it is not what is destroying the world. The problem with the world is us, and our sins and our disobedience towards Christ. The authors bring up very good arguments reminding the reader that every single individual in this world has sinned and gone against the Lord, they remind us that we are no better than any other person in this fallen world. We are responsible for the sin in this world because we are the ones that allowed it to exist. This book finds a fair insight to what it means to live for the Lord and to search for His guidance in a culture that is leading away from Him.

    Culture has shifted drastically, making what was hardly even acceptable to consider doing sixty years ago, lived out and fought for today. This liberal approach to marriage drives our culture and adjusts the world's view on how much authority we can have in our life. If we can redefine what it means to be married, it opens many more opportunities to change the meaning of a broader selection of aspects in each of our lives, giving us much more power to control our lives rather than let God have the power. "Same-sex Marriage" has offered fair arguments and compelling points that have given Christians a more confident and loving approach to this subject. This book offered many facts and deep insight to how we should respond to same-sex marriage and I know that it guided me to understand what the Lord wants me to do from here. So, I recommended this book to any Christian struggling to find confidence to stand against the world in a way that is not prejudice or hateful, but loving and fair through the way in which God has intended for us.
  2. TheToddLynn
    Roanoke, VA
    Age: 25-34
    Gender: male
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    Great read for anyone questioning Same-Sex marriage
    December 8, 2014
    Roanoke, VA
    Age: 25-34
    Gender: male
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5
    Same-sex marriage has been the topic you use to stir up controversy for years now. Political parties have been divided and businesses sued all due to how this topic drew a proverbial line in the sand daring people to stay on the opposite side and not support the movement. Today, if you do not support same-sex marriage, you are labeled a homophobe and fear-monger. All you have to do to see that is look at how the Duggar family has been attacked recently as well as Phil Robertson from Duck Dynasty. It is either support us or else. How did this country get to this place? How did we arrive at this point in history? Is there any chance for recovery from it? Is there any chance for the Biblical perspective on marriage to stand strong again?

    Is homosexuality a sin? Is God really ok with people who practice homosexuality? Should Christians support marriage between homosexuals? How should Christians and churches respond? In the name of the new tolerance Christians are being shut up and people are trying to change what the Bible says to defend their lifestyles. So how should we as Christians respond? So what is or should be our response?

    That is where this book comes in. Sean McDowell and John Stonestreet do an excellent job at covering the topic of same-sex marriage in-depth. This book helps people understand this: Same-sex marriage is here. It went from unthinkable to legal at a dizzying pace. The question is: Now what? (Front cover) This topic matters, especially to followers of Christ who want to stand with the Bible and its truth. There is a battle that will continue to be fought and for Christians, it is imperative that we know what we believe, know why we believe it and know how to defend it.

    Throughout this book there is never a harsh word written towards anyone who labels themselves a homosexual or gay. You will not find it. There is no fear-mongering or trying to get people to see gay people, as unequal or unworthy of human rights. You will not find any hatred. This book is written in a loving but truth seeking manner. Same-Sex Marriage is about helping Christians learn to live fully engaged in the world. (Back cover) If we want to move forward and defend the Biblical definition of marriage, we need to understand a few things. We need to understand how the homosexual movement got us to this place, we need to be willing as the church to learn from the past and then we need to be able to look forward to the future and use what little voice we have left in the public square to stand for truth. If we truly want to engage the world around us as Christians should, then we need to be able to balance humility, conviction, truth and hope. (Back Cover)

    Let me share 5 meaningful and powerful quotes from the book with you:

    A strong marriage culture brings stability to the lives of the individuals who are involved and to the entire community. (p. 49)

    Unfettered freedom is destructive. Marriage brings incredible freedom, but only when properly understood. (p. 127)

    Regardless of our words, reality hasnt changed: sex still makes babies, society still needs babies, and babies still deserve a mom and a dad. We need a word for the unique relationship that best manages those things in a society. Expanding marriage to same-sex couples leaves us without one. (p. 58)

    A culture in which sex is cheap is a culture in which people are devalued. (p. 125)

    The most important question is not What are we going to do about same-sex marriage? It is What are we going to do about marriage?

    Go pick up a copy and read it with your family, teach it in your church and use it as a way to engage the world around you. We as Christians cannot come at this by attacking the other people. We must be willing to have conversations with people, engage them. That will open the door for us to speak truth.

    Disclaimer: In accordance with FTC regulations, I received this book from Baker Books in return for a review of the book.
  3. Burley Gwaltney
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    A thoughtful book
    October 26, 2014
    Burley Gwaltney
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5
    I received a copy from Baker in exchange for my review. Same-Sex Marriage is probably the most thoughtful book Ive received from Baker as I have been doing these reviews for the last couple months. While I dont think its the ultimate book on gay marriage, it was useful. A particularly interesting chapter to me was Chapter 8, Learning from the past, which considered how homosexuality became acceptable, and what we may need to take into consideration in our response. One particularly salient point that most Christians could learn from today was that telling stories doesnt change our responsibility to present good arguments.
Displaying items 1-3 of 3
Page 1 of 1

Ask Christianbook

Find Related Products

Author/Artist Review


Ask Christianbook

What would you like to know about this product? Please enter your name, your email and your question regarding the product in the fields below, and we'll answer you in the next 24-48 hours.

If you need immediate assistance regarding this product or any other, please call 1-800-CHRISTIAN to speak directly with a customer service representative.