Tough Guys and Drama Queens: How Not to Get Blindsided by Your Child's Teen Years  -     By: Mark Gregston
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Tough Guys and Drama Queens: How Not to Get Blindsided by Your Child's Teen Years

Thomas Nelson / 2012 / Paperback

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In Tough Guys and Drama Queens, Mark Gregston, founder of Heartlight Ministries, a residential counseling center for struggling adolescents, helps parents become the parents their children need them to be. The ability of a parent to reach their teen has more to do with approach than words. The book is divided into three sections: 1) What's Different About the Culture Today; 2) Why traditional parenting no longer works; and 3) A new model for parenting teens. So, if you want assistance with guiding your child through raging hormones colliding against a worldly culture, Mark's advice will help you engage your teenager and influence him or her for good.

Product Information

Format: Paperback
Number of Pages: 240
Vendor: Thomas Nelson
Publication Date: 2012
Dimensions: 8.38 X 5.50 (inches)
ISBN: 0849947294
ISBN-13: 9780849947292

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Are you ready for your child's teen years?

If you've ever lain awake at night wondering what might be around the corner of your child's adolescence, this book is for you! After more than thirty-eight years of working with more than 2,500 years, Mark Gregston, founder of heartlight, a Christian residential counseling center, introduces Tough Guys and Drama Queensa must-read "how-to" book for parents of pre-teens and teens with time-tested, biblical techniques to guide you  through these unavoidably challenging years.

Mark helps parents realize that some natural parenting approaches are actually counter-productive and therefore totally ineffective.In place of those, he offers tried and true wisdom on the vital importance of relationship, forgiveness, and explains how conflict is actually the precursor to change.

Everyday your child is bombarded by highly sexualized culture and over-exposed to words and images that can influence them beyond your reach.your connection to them during these years is critical as is your response to tough issues such as appearance, performance, authority and respect, boundaries, and many more.

Author Bio

Mark Gregston has been helping parents and teens for 38 years. He is the founder and executive director of Heartlight, a residential counseling center for teens, which has helped more than 2,500 struggling adolescents. Mark spends 90 percent of his weekends teaching, and also hosts the Parenting Today's Teens radio program. Mark is happily married with two children, three grandchildren, one dog, and too many horses.

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  1. Age: 25-34
    Gender: male
    3 Stars Out Of 5
    Parents of preteens and teens
    February 8, 2013
    Age: 25-34
    Gender: male
    Quality: 3
    Value: 4
    Meets Expectations: 2
    This book provides a functional interface between a teen and a professional therapist. I recently bought a copy to review and immediately purchased several for current clients. My adolescent clients identify with the examples and quickly catch on to "go to thoughts." Teens don't usually read straight through a book. They will tend to identify what matters most to them (in spite of what I may suggest as homework) and cut right to the salient features. It works well. Five thumbs (stars) up! Not too academic for them...thanks for your work.
  2. Athens, AL
    Age: 25-34
    Gender: male
    4 Stars Out Of 5
    Good Read For Parents and Ministers
    February 5, 2013
    Athens, AL
    Age: 25-34
    Gender: male
    Quality: 4
    Value: 4
    Meets Expectations: 4
    Tough Guys and Drama Queens by Mark Gregston

    This is a good book concerning the survival of the parents of teenagers. The parents of teenagers are the most battle weary, mentally exhausted group that exists in our world today. Most teenagers do not realize the stress that they put onto their parents by the choices that they make and the words that they say. Many parents feel that they are simply "clinging" to their kids by their fingernails in hopes that something they say will finally stick and make an impact. Gregston does a good job of trying to ease the minds of parents that are either a) in the midst of raising a teenager, or b) will be raising a teenager in the near future. He attempts to give something in the way of a handbook for parents who will be dealing with hormones, changing body types, rebellion, frustration, disobedience, brokenness, fear, love, lust, and everything in between. I would recommend this book not only for parents, but also for youth ministers and even preaching ministers who are going to have to be a witness to the struggles of not only the teenager himself/herself, but of the parents as well. Ultimately, the entire family is going to need to recognize what is occurring and by using some of Mr. Gregston's suggestions, they may be able to survive better than they could have before.
  3. Indiana
    Age: 45-54
    Gender: female
    2 Stars Out Of 5
    January 16, 2013
    Age: 45-54
    Gender: female
    As a mother of 3 teens, I found much of the advice in this book to be ineffective and even damaging! The author seems to take a permissive approach to parenting. I can tell you, this makes matters much worse. I agree with some of the common sense information (spending time with teens, etc) but the overall message lacked biblical backbone.
  4. Dubai, UAE
    Age: 35-44
    Gender: female
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    Tough Guys and Drama Queens Book Review
    January 13, 2013
    Dubai, UAE
    Age: 35-44
    Gender: female
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5
    I never thought that raising a teenager is like riding a roller coaster. One minute, you're up and the next thing you know, you're emotions are all going down the drain. That's how it feels like dealing with my own daughter.

    I thought I was prepared to enter the battle but I was totally wrong. This book gave me the insights on how to deal with my own teenager and to be able to come out of the battle victorious.

    The author, Mark Gregstons, uses picturesque words to describe the ordeals of dealing with a teenager and his tips on how to tackle unwarranted behavior, dangerous activities and malicious curiosity of today's teens.

    The book presents viable tips to parents to reinforce positive relationships with their own teens and how to cope with their volitive behavior. Not only that the book is full of advise, tips and wisdom coming from a man who dealt with every face of teen angst and rebellion, and explains everything through his eyes as a founder and councilor of Heartlight, a center for teens with issues.

    I highly recommend this book to parents who have teens or even those who have none as a means to better understand today's youth, what ticks them, what works and how to enforce a loving approach to a troubled teen.

    The book was given to me by Thomas Nelson Publication via
  5. Ontario
    Age: 35-44
    Gender: female
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    Practical Wisdom with a Balanced Approach
    December 27, 2012
    Wanda Costinak
    Age: 35-44
    Gender: female
    Quality: 4
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5
    Tough Guys and Drama Queens: How Not to Get Blindsided by your Child's Teen Years came at the perfect time for our family: the oldest just turned 13 and the youngest just turned 11. Gregston gives insight into raising teens that I have never considered and probably never would have. Having worked with the extremes of teen issues and behaviour, he is able to provide advice and godly wisdom that is invaluable.

    If I find interesting information when I review a book that I want to refer back to, I will turn up the bottom corner of the page. This book has more turned-up pages than any other I have reviewed! Part One: What's So Different About Today's Culture was frightening and provided motivation for me to get on my knees for my children! Part Two: Parenting Practices to Avoid was painful but helpful. There was one chapter in particular that had me saying "ouch" on more than one occasion. Part Three: Parenting Practices that Really Work was a breath of fresh air and filled me with hope that my children and I will survive and thrive through their teen years! I am very thankful for Appendix A: Conversation Starters and will be referring to Appendix B: How to Discuss Conflict before I ever open my mouth in a confrontational situation.

    I give this book 5 stars out of 5.

    I received this book free from BookSneeze. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own.
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