In Pulling Back the Shades, Dannah Gresh and Dr. Juli Slatery expose and explain the desires that drive womens attraction to erotica. Although the book appears to be a response to the popular secular book Fifty Shades of Grey, Pulling Back the Shades goes much deeper than a simple rebuttal.
Gresh and Dr. Slatery explore the innate desires that, left unmet, can leave women vulnerable to erotica, affairs, and sexual temptations. Pulling Back the Shades allows readers to examine their own lives and consider whether they are vulnerable to the enticement of erotica.
Gresh and Dr. Slatery also emphasize how erotica leaves spiritual needs and desires unfulfilled. They explain the spiritual battle behind erotica, which is an important, though often avoided topic. The last two chapters of Pulling Back the Shades focus on this very subject and include a call to action based on the story of Nehemiah.
Pulling Back the Shades is written in an easy-to-read format, but is incredibly thought-provoking. Gresh and Dr. Slatery used care to provide just enough information and detail to emphasize the seriousness of their concerns, without becoming graphic. I am thoroughly impressed with the content of Pulling Back the Shades and recommend the book to anyone looking for a Biblical response to a sex-centered culture.
Disclaimer: I received a free copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for an honest review. The opinions I have expressed are my own.
While this was a very timely and helpful book, it was really only a jumping off place as an explaination for the down side to "Shades of Grey" for me. This did, however, give me a place to begin in finding answers as to why and how sexuality has gotten off track today. I appreciate very much the honesty and insight the author brought into this book's pages. I would like to see her delve even deeper into this subject matter and will be looking into future works written by her.
Dannah Gresh and Dr. Juli Slattery tell it bluntly. My heart is so troubled for women of all ages who have been lured into the temptations of erotic books, movies and porn. These women explain the damage that can follow after getting hooked on this type of entertainment. They are straightforward and compassionate as they write. I would recommend this to any woman who is thinking of reading erotic romance novels or has become hooked on it and is looking for a way out.
I think I first heard of "Fifty Shades Of Grey" two and a half years ago, when a fellow blogger mentioned that it was on her to-read list. I really had no idea what it was, but I quickly learned enough to decide it wasn't a good thing and avoid it. Only later did I realize just what exactly is in this book, and the damaging effects this type of "literature" is having on women and the culture. I have not read "Fifty Shades Of Grey", and I will not see the movie. I don't think I have to read it to have an intelligent conversation about it. But I know enough to be deeply concerned. From what I can tell, this book (and/or movie) is full of abuse, even ra.pe, and it is somehow wrapped up in a romantic package. I don't care if there is some sort of "redemption" at the end, romanticizing and promoting abusive se.xual relationships is not okay. I like to be informed on cultural issues. I don't think Christians should bury their heads in the sand about anything, we should be able to address issues and defend the biblical perspective. For that reason I picked up a copy "Pulling Back The Shades: Erotica, Intimacy, And The Longings Of A Woman's Heart" by Dannah Gresh and Dr. Juli Slattery (who used to be a co-host of the Focus On The Family Radio broadcast). In this book, Gresh and Slattery address this genre of literature, why it is appealing to women, why it is ultimately harmful to women, and how we can and should address this issue as Christian women. I got so much out of this book, even though I have never read ero.tica. This book challenges you to look at your own heart and s.ex life to see if there is anything that is preventing you from reaching true intimacy, and I appreciated a lot of what it had to say. I have always felt a little wary about even some Christian romance novels when I feel they are getting a bit too descriptive, or TV shows that focus too much on s.ex - because I know the effect that can have on me, and I know it's slippery slope. This book challenged me to keep a vigilant eye on what kind of things I allow into my mind, and it was encouraging to realize that I am not being a prude by limiting what I watch and read. I just want my se.xual excitement to come from my husband alone - that is God's plan and ultimately it will make our s.ex life healthier! This book also gave a lot of talking points and food for thought on why ero.tica is harmful, and I think it was really good information for me to have, even though I've never read it. I think it would be that much more helpful to someone who is currently struggling with an interest (or addiction) to ero.tica. And I just want to say, lest anyone think this book was a big list of "don't's", that ultimately this book had themes of hope and freedom. Hope to overcome se.xual addictions, and a hopeful message of the kind of freedom and pleasure that is available when women are brave and strong enough to stick to God's plan. Whether or not you have read "Fifty Shades", "Pulling Back The Shades" is worth a read.
Note: I received copy of this book for free from the publisher in exchange for this review. This is my honest opinion.