This is a little tiny book, but it asks several big penetrating questions. It was a very nice quick read, and is good to add as a supplement to other more detailed books about relationships and communication. It is a book that you may want to look at in the mid stages of a relationship, when you would be considering where to go with things. For us guys, it get the perspectives into a very simple package, so you don't have to read a 400 page reference manual. It is well written, and if taken seriously, does reveal areas in a relationship that should be discussed, but not necessarily in the first three days of dating. Don't expect detail; look for other resources to compliment this one, and especially your bible.