Not a parenting book, When Parents Hurt is written for parents who for a variety of reasons do not get along with their grown children. Psychologist and parent Joshua Coleman, Ph.D. offers insight, empathy, and perspective to those who have lost the opportunity to be the parent they desperately wanted to be and who are mourning the loss of a harmonious relationship with their child. His compassionate strategies help parents let go of what they cannot control and develop positive ways of healing themselves and relating to family members.
In When Parents Hurt, psychologist and parent Joshua Coleman, Ph.D., offers insight, empathy, and perspective to those who have lost the opportunity to be the parent they desperately wanted to be and who are mourning the loss of a harmonious relationship with their child. Through case examples and healing exercises, Dr. Coleman helps parents:
- Reduce anger, guilt, and shame
- Learn how temperament, the teen years, their own or a partner's mistakes, and divorce can strain the parent-child bond
- Come to terms with their own and their child's imperfections
- Develop strategies for rebuilding the relationship or move toward acceptance of what can't be changed
By helping parents recognize what they can do and let go of what they cannot, Dr. Coleman helps families develop more positive ways of healing themselves and relating to each other.
Dr. Joshua Coleman, Ph.D., is an internationally recognized expert in parenting, couples, families, and relationships. He is a Senior Fellow with the Council on Contemporary Families. The author of two critically acclaimed books, The Marriage Makeover and The Lazy Husband, he is a frequent contributor to the San Francisco Chronicle, and his advice has been featured in the New York Times, the Chicago Tribune, Psychology Today, the Times (London), and elsewhere. He is a frequent guest on the Today show and has appeared on 20/20, Good Morning America, and many other news programs. He lives with his family in the San Francisco Bay area.
“A wise and helpful book.”
“Joshua Coleman’s book is a gift, offering extraordinary wisdom coupled with practical advice.”
“An especially healing, practical resource. . .for anyone exhausted by strained, hurtful relationships with their adolescent or grown child.”
“I LOVE this book. [It] is written from such a realistic and compassionate perspective that it is heart-warming.”
“A superb treatment...a unique and groundbreaking approach...an eyeopening read for anyone.”
“Coleman’s focus is on helping the parent cope and carry on...an engaging read despite the serious subject matter.”
“An important book that can help parents heal.”
“. . .desperately needed. . . a truly great book for parents, and a great book for therapists who work with families.”
“This is an incredibly insightful and sensitively written analysis of a difficult subject. . . .I have recommended it to many of my clients. . . I highly recommend it to all parents who hurt.”