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Vendor: Thomas Nelson
Publication Date: 2014
Theres a certain kind of lost a boy feels in this world without a father. Tim felt it. I felt it. And we realized our only way out would be together.
In an openhearted memoir of faith on the fringe, Roger Thompson meditates on the life and premature death of his best friend and business partner, Tim Garrety, cofounder of Skate Street Ventura.
Roger and Tims twenty-year friendship was forged in the surf and on the streets of 1980s California. Together they hazarded countless waves and every rite of passagefrom guitars to girls to Godand influenced the lives of thousands of skateboarders, musicians, surfers, and otherwise disconnected youth in the process.
With unrestrained honesty and a punk-rock soundtrack, My Best Friends Funeral is a memoir of friendship, doubt, surfing, and the complex relationships between fathers and sons. If life has ever left you feeling abandonedor if you simply prefer a rock show to a sermonMy Best Friends Funeral is a memoir you wont want to miss, and a confirmation that you are never alone.
"With the Pacific Ocean as his backdrop, Roger Thompson paints a firsthand picture of the reality that life is not easy. It's cruel, challenging, and hopeless; and being a Christian doesn't make it easy. He questions God's authority in the face of loss and rejection and draws closer to his Heavenly Father in the process. God has taken him on an incredible journey; one that we can all learn something from." -Josh Turner, multi-platinum MCA Nashville recording artist
"A remarkable true story of a deep and true friendship. It's an emotional journey through joy, sorrow, and hope. With insight into living and loving more fully, my friend Roger shows us how to find meaning in the hardships we cant explain, and how love can grow from our deepest loss. Brutally honest and beautifully compassionate, it will inspire you to, once again, tell your family and friends how much you love them. Youll love reading this book." -Michael W. Smith, singer-songwriter
"A gutsy and transparent memoir about the most important and difficult issues we face in this lifetime. Its a true story well told of friendship and fatherhood, love lost and found, grief, forgiveness, and ultimately, redemption. It speaks to me as a father and a manand inspires me to be better at both." -Mark Stuart, lead singer of Audio Adrenaline and cofounder of The Hands and Feet Project
"Life doesn't always turn out like we expect, and we must learn to celebrate every gift and mourn every loss. My Best Friends Funeral will teach you to do both with resolve and grace." -Margaret Feinberg, author of Fight with Joy
"Roger has been a close friend of mine for more than a decade. But in some ways this book introduced me to him for the first time. His writing displays incredible insights into life and loss that cut to the heart and will inspire you. His candor, warmth, and hope encourage us to become better fathers and mothersand friends. I think youll love this book." -David Kinnaman, author of unChristian and You Lost Me
"A profoundly moving, heartbreaking, and surprisingly hilarious story of an extraordinary friendship. Roger takes us to almost unbearable depths of grief and then through laughter and tears leaves us with the assurance that even our greatest suffering can turn to joy. It is a must read." -Mike Foster, author; founder of People of the Second Chance
"With raw honesty Roger Thompson invites us into his narrative of abandonment, friendship, and redemption. Thompson gives a poignant reminder that our stories shape us, and at the center of every story is the need for relationship." -Pastor Chris Seay
"A beautiful, poignant memoir of loss and life. My Best Friend's Funeral is a rare gift that will bring comfort, hope, and even companionship to those navigating the valley of the shadow whilst aspiring to the heights of a life well-lived." -Pete Greig, author of God on Mute: Engaging the Silence of Unanswered Prayer
"Everybody has a secret fishing hole they are looking for. A place where everything makes sense and puts one at ease. Roger takes us on a universal search for the meaning of life. Then he shows us that it may have been right in front of us all along." -Justin Harding, professional fly-fishing guide, Utah Pro Fly Fishing
"My Best Friend's Funeral will take you on a journey through the universal struggle of youth, first love, addiction, loss, marriage, the highs and lows of adult life, fatherhood, finding God, and the untimely death of a best friend. Roger's openness will leave you stretched and challenged to live a life of sincerity and honest humility. In these pages is a beautiful roadmap of how to do friendship well. This story will move your heart in a very deep way, and leave you with much to consider." -Charlotte Crotty, long-time friend
"My friend Roger writes a captivating, raw, touching memoir. It will make you laugh and cry, and cause you to regard your friendships as the greater gifts they are." -Britt Merrick, founding pastor of Reality Church and author of Big God and Godspeed
"Enter this book. Please. Take yourself and enter. For from within it you will know what the Celts knew, how to be Anam Cara. Anam is the Gaelic word for soul; cara is the word for friend, together they equal soul friend. Lost are the days of soul friends in our contemporary life, lost are those friendships that cut across all convention and category, friendships that convey deep recognition and belonging, friendships that see each other as whole people and help each other become whole and better versions of themselves. This book, these lives, they teach us, challenge us, carry us, and renew us once again toward the soulfulness of friendship. I know this to be true, for I was taught personally, and so can you. Read." -Greg Russinger, friend of Tim and Roger, and founding pastor of the Bridge Community where Tim served, loved, and taught us to be soul friends
"A beautiful and brave tribute; casting light onto what it means to grieve and process the monumental loss of a parent and a best friend. I was engrossed by Rogers forthright writing; he lays himself bare about the things that we grapple with the most. What happens when we lose people we care about? What do we do next? Affirming, spiritual without being preachy, and above all, honest. Kudos." -Mario Calire, multi Grammy-winning drummer (Wallflowers, Ozomatli)
"Taut with the suspense of life itself, hung precariously between dark winter and brimming springtide. Like the Psalms, it shimmers with both sorrow and hope. The journey is lyrical, haunting, deeply personal yet rich in treasures for all. Amidst it all, Roger Thompson reminds us that the place of our greatest ache can be also the source of the greatest gift God gives others through us." -Jedd Medefind, president of the Christian Alliance for Orphans and author of Becoming Home
"I could not put this book down! A refreshingly raw, honest, insightful behind the scenes look into a friendship that God worked through to impact this entire generation! Each of our lives are difficult at times but reading this book reminded me of how God uses our pain and suffering to draw us closer to Him and to refine us so we can shine brighter." -Bryan Jennings, founder of Walking On Water
"This is a beautiful book about friendship, failure, and fighting with God and others over lifes mysteries. Roger provides the reader a poetic, playful, and generous place to marinate in the experiences that flavor our lives. His stories moved me deeply, not only because of his engaging and humorous wit, but because I had the incredible privilege of sharing some of these memories with Roger and Tim. You will be encouraged by Roger's vulnerability and authenticity, and invited to open up your heart a little more to love and be loved." -Scott Grabendike, senior pastor of Westbrook Church
debsMaineAge: 35-44Gender: female4 Stars Out Of 5My best friends funeral ~ Roger W. ThompsonNovember 22, 2014debsMaineAge: 35-44Gender: femaleThis is a story about GOD's journey he has for everyone. The beginning was a little too slow for my reading, but I kept going. It is the story of how Roger has gone through heartache in his life due to the death of his dad and his best friend. The story tells of how each person has come and gone in Roger's life. It teaches you to make everyday and moment count. Our memories are all we have in life that count in the end. This story makes you think back to all the good and bad times you have had with friends and family.
I liked the story, it made me think and want to reach out to friends that I haven't spoke to in a long time. I would recommend this book to those that treasure the day that GOD has made or want to know how to treasure all the moments of the journey he has put us on.
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Mo5 Stars Out Of 5Touched my soulSeptember 25, 2014MoQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5I could not put it down! I read the first 21 chapters straight and finished the book within a day. Roger's descriptive and beautiful writing transported me back to my hometown and high school where I knew Roger and Tim. Each chapter touched my soul in a unique way. Like Roger, I lost my father at a young age and a best friend came alongside and showed me the love of Christ. Roger and Tim's story is a must read for anyone with a best friend, a father, a son, surfers, skaters and those who have lost loved ones. I bought extra copies to give to non-believers, the book will be a great ministry opportunity. Roger, thank you for sharing your life and preserving Tim's memory for us.