Much has been written about this subject, with often deep-rooted emotions. But few search for the 'why' behind this sometimes heavy-laden topic. In this colourfully written book, full of open and honest heart confessions of both their victories and failures, Ren and Jacqueline de Groot dig up the roots of this conflict, and will show the New Testament solution. Since their marriage in 1987, God has taught them many lessons through sometimes difficult circumstances, which resulted in practical and biblically founded solutions and answers on these often delicate questions. Jacqueline shares her powerful testimony of how God taught her about her value and position as a woman and wife and how this has influenced her life, and the life of her husband and their ministry in a very powerful way.