The 5 Love Languages of Children: The Secret to Loving Children EffectivelyGary Chapman, Ross CampbellNorthfield Publishing / 2016 / Trade Paperback$7.99 Retail:4.5 Stars Out Of 5 22 Reviews
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VictoriaCanadaAge: 25-34Gender: female4 Stars Out Of 5Valuable read for anyone interacting with childrenJune 21, 2016VictoriaCanadaAge: 25-34Gender: femaleQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 4Somehow, despite all those classes I took, I managed to miss reading any of Gary Chapman's Love Languages series in college. According to my classmates, this was sort of miraculous because the books were everywhere. I actually remember many cases where someone would mention "love tanks" or ask someone what there language was and blankly stare until I made the connection. However, the book didn't necessarily fit into my focus and I let it be.
Fast forward a few years and my family now includes a husband and two little boys. as well as the dawning realization that, even factoring in the gender difference, there seems to be honest differences in how we expressed and received love. It was definitely time to jump into Chapman's series.
First off, I loved how Chapman laid out his book. Utilizing the expertise of Ross Campbell, Chapman has laid out his book in easy to read, self contained chapters that each bear a quick summary for easy referencing later on. Seeing as this book is geared towards those with children, the ability to read a chapter, put it down after a nap and come back later without interrupting a train of thought made for a much smoother read.
The material itself was similarly easy to read. Pulling on both authors strengths the text clearly leads readers through each language, the process of determining one's language, and even branching out into areas such as marriage or single parent households. I loved how holistic this was looking at the entire family and not just the portion (in this case the kids).
This holistic approach really allowed Chapman to look at his material from all angles./I appreciated his cautions about changing languages as children went through different ages as well as cautions for how to approach discipline without fulfilling a child's need for love. While I think it's infinitely harder in practice, he raises some interesting food for thought.
Overall, I appreciated Chapman and Campbell's work especially as a mom to two young children but can still see the benefit for any who regularly interact with children of any age.
4.5 out of 5 stars
I received this book from Moody Publishing in exchange for my honest opinion. The views expressed are solely my own.
Dee5 Stars Out Of 5Recommended for all parentsJune 5, 2015DeeQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5Excellent book to understand children's perception of love. A great addition to the 5 love languages books. Keeping my niece's "love tank" full has made her a very happy, well behaved 2 year old. i would recommend this to all parents.
Jolene4 Stars Out Of 5Insightful & ChallengingJanuary 13, 2015JoleneQuality: 4Value: 4Meets Expectations: 3In The 5 Love Languages of Children, Dr. Gary Chapman and Dr. Ross Campbell apply Chapman's popular concept of the five love languages to the parent-child relationship. Each of the five love languages is explained and examples are given of how to use (and how not to use) a child's love language. Parents are encouraged to love their children unconditionally, which is sometimes not as easy as one would assume it to be, and to successfully express that love to a child.
I found The 5 Love Languages of Children to be insightful and challenging. The explanations of each language were informative, but the real life examples were what I found to be most helpful. There is a full chapter as well as a love language game at the end dedicated to help parents correctly identify how a child gives and receives love. At times, the book was a bit overwhelming to me as it felt like I have to do everything perfectly or I'm going to really mess my child up. I know that was not the authors' intention and maybe not everyone will get that feeling, but that's how it was for me.
The 5 Love Languages of Children is geared for children above age five. My child is only two which is a bit young for her love language to be obvious. The authors say five is usually the minimum age before a child's love language can be determined as it's prone to fluctuate in the early years. Therefore, a lot of the information was good, but not completely relevant to me. The main points I was able to take away from the book were: unconditional love is the desire of a child's heart, whether or not a child's love needs are fulfilled will affect them positively or negatively, and it's important to practice all five love languages at this point. I plan to keep The 5 Love Languages of Children and will probably revisit it in a few years.
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cruscop4 Stars Out Of 55 Love languages for kidsOctober 23, 2014cruscopQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5I really like this book im not completely done it but so far it is really great I only have small children and I don't know their love languages yet but this way I can practise and make it a habit until I know what they need more of.
Mia4Christ5 Stars Out Of 5A Must Read for Every RelationshipOctober 2, 2014Mia4ChristQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5I have read The 5 Love Languages (original- for Couples) & now The 5 Love Languages for kids and highly recommend them both! They are a must read for everyone. You may apply these principles to every relationship. They make great gifts too. These are life changing books, no doubt.