Lysa TerKeurstThomas Nelson / 2018 / HardcoverOur Price$14.995 out of 5 stars for It's Not Supposed to Be This Way. View reviews of this product. 29 Reviews Video
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Lulu4 Stars Out Of 5Great author with insight into the human conditionSeptember 17, 2020LuluWe all have disappointments and we cry out to God to ask why me? Lysa explains why we face many disappointments in life....we were created to be perfect and live in a perfect world. The world is no longer perfect, but God is and His plan is to restore it all. Easy to read and understand.....it will touch your heart and your mind. I really enjoyed it and would recommend her video as well.
Denise5 Stars Out Of 5It's Not Supposed To Be This WayAugust 18, 2020DeniseQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5Excellent, excellent, excellent! Recommend this book and bible study for every woman. Lysa gives good advice on dealing with hurt using the Wisdom of God to guide the reader. Wonderful book and the bible study (which I am currently in) takes it to a deeper level.
Teri5 Stars Out Of 5Great bookFebruary 20, 2020TeriQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5This is an excellent book. Using this, the DVD and study guide with my ladies' Sunday School. She truly understands going through the hard stuff and offers guidance from His Word to work through it.
ReaderLas VegasAge: 55-65Gender: Female2 Stars Out Of 5Not a good readJanuary 17, 2020ReaderLas VegasAge: 55-65Gender: FemaleQuality: 3Value: 3Meets Expectations: 2Didn't care for this book. Seems to repeat the same thing over & over.
JeaniePhoenix, AZAge: 55-65Gender: female5 Stars Out Of 5His Way of Leading Us HomeNovember 21, 2019JeaniePhoenix, AZAge: 55-65Gender: femaleQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5This is one of the best Christian non-fiction / inspirational books I have studied this year! Lysa TerKeurst is a Christian woman, wife, mom, ministry leader, book and Bible study author who found herself in three major life crises in a short time. The situations highlighted in this book to show the power and love of God when we endure similar or entirely different circumstances that just weren't supposed to happen. Circumstances that He can and does use for our good.
The author takes us through her feelings and faith challenges she experienced as a result of those situations, and how she wrestled through with scripture, prayer, and reliance on the Lord. Her vulnerability is refreshing, her wisdom inspired by the Lord. "Disappointment isn't proof that God is withholding good from us. Sometimes it's His way of leading us home." (pg. 5)
Lysa doesn't mince words. She does not minimize the Lord in any way, rather, He is everything! She is honest, showing that bad things do happen to Christians even while believing that God is good. She writes in a manner that someone who has been a Christian for any length of time, whether new or seasoned, can grasp when in the midst of a trauma. There are stories of people from scripture, and parts of her own life. The wisdom imparted comes from serious wrestling in a walk with God through painful disappointments. I could see myself in some of her feelings and reactions not in circumstances like she was experiencing, but things going on in my own life. It isn't the situations that are front and center, it is how we can learn to respond despite times that simply weren't what that should have been.
Those responses may sound overly simple to those not going through a trauma but are profound to the person who is trying to put one foot in front of the other for one more day. There are two ways we can get through with God, or giving in to our flawed desires. One quote that is important is "We must set our minds and our hearts on things above by choosing to remember God's words, repeat God's words, and believe God's word about us." (pg. 65)
I listened to the audiobook and read the print copy while doing the associated Bible study (and purchased the e-book), and I feel it is a valuable resource to the person going through struggles or the friend of someone struggling through hard times. Don't compare the author's situations to yours; instead, compare your reactions, feelings, and responses. I very much like the writer's approach to seeking God, wrestling, praying, and getting into scripture. Our responses in times of crisis are vital to how we live our lives from those times forward.
Regarding the audiobook, it is read by the author. I felt in many ways as if we were sitting in her kitchen over coffee or tea from the writing style and simply hearing her word sin her voice. Why did I get three formats? Because some things I learn better by repetitive hearing. Other times it is easier to open the book and search for the relevant pages, including chapter endings of "Going to the Well", "Receive (a scripture)", "Reflect", and prayer. Back sections include scripture and helps for situations.
I highly recommend this unique and timely book to Christians who are going through trauma of any kind and want to know that God is still in control and appreciate solid biblical teaching.