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Number of Pages: 216
Vendor: InterVarsity Press
Publication Date: 2009
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The Introvert Advantage: How to Thrive in an Extrovert WorldMarti Olsen LaneyWorkman Publishing / Trade Paperback$11.99 Retail:
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McHugh walks the readers through ways that they can participate in their church, as well as bring healing where introverts may be unintentionally discriminated against. The book seems to be designed to be used in a small group situation, as it has discussion questions associated with every chapter. Introverts in the Church provides a very interesting analysis of the current evangelical Christian climate, giving a voice to the quiet introverts in churches of most denominations. Andrew Broersma, www.ChristianBookPreviews.com
"For the longest time, I've considered my wiring as an introvert a thorn in my side. After spending time engaging with others, I felt so empty and overwhelmed . . . and lonely. With my calling as an author and pastor requiring me to publicly speak and consult, I wondered if I misunderstood my place in this world. In Introverts in the Church, Adam brings a voice to those of us who often trade ours in for a little bit of respite. This is not only a needed resource for introverts; all leaders need to read Introverts in the Church for a better understanding of how introverts can lead, how they follow and how they refresh."
A mixture of biblically grounded psychology, examples from Scripture, personal anecdotes, and practical advice on how to reach out to introverts as well as what to do if you're the Introvert in ministry. His goal is to show that introverts and extroverts alike have a place in the church despite how they handle relationships and process information.
"At last a book for and about introverts in ministry, and a wonderful book it is! McHugh unpacks the challenges and characteristics of the introvert leader in a ministry world designed for extroverts. He offers practical guidance for developing as a leader, evangelizing, joining a community, preaching and becoming spiritually mature in Christ. The book not only helps introverts, but it can serve as a great resource for extroverts who lead, coach, mentor or relate to introverts."
"This is a book that all leaders in the church should read! It made me realize that I owe an apology to all the introverts whose insights and contributions I have not understood or have overlooked. McHugh's perceptions are crucial for churches in our extremely extroverted society--we are missing some of God's best treasures for Christ's body. I highly recommend this book to everyone who wishes more thoroughly to understand the Holy Spirit's creation of a diversity of personalities and gifts."
"What a timely and badly needed book! Introverts in the Church will encourage thousands of Christians who have felt as if they don't quite fit. It will help them find their rightful place in Christian community, so that their gifts might be well used in the work of the kingdom. This book will also help churches to be a place where all people can flourish as disciples of Jesus. Adam McHugh has given us a precious gift through his openness, theological soundness and godly wisdom."
"Adam is addressing a huge number of folks in the church. Read it and heal."
"What Adam McHugh's Introverts in the Church did for me the first time was unmask the extroversion-shaped churches that we have and open up possibilities for how an introversion-sensitive church might conduct its business. . . . The reason our church is sensitive to introverts is because our leaders have absorbed the insights of Adam's Introverts in the Church and become one of those places of grace for introverts and extroverts."
" Introverts in the Church changed my life when I first read the book seven years ago. Adam's voice on the topic of introverts resonated with so many people like me, who found themselves as introverts functioning in extroverted positions and living in an extroverted culture. In many ways, through this book I was given permission to be myself, and I have continued this work with my clients each week in my private practice. I regularly recommend this book to both introverts and extroverts."
" Introverts in the Church is thoughtful, validating, and charming. It's the book for all churchgoers who have ever wanted to disappear into their seats when the pastor said, 'Turn and introduce yourself to three strangers.' Adam teaches an important lesson: spirituality should not be measured by sociability. The introvert who quietly reflects on her faith is as true a believer as the extrovert who preaches exuberantly to others."
"God must love the introverts, because he made so many of us. In this wonderful new edition of Introverts in the Church, Adam McHugh helps us see that there is a place for us in communities of faith. His wise observations are rooted in experience and deep study, and his advice is both practical and profound. So let us make a joyful quiet unto the Lord!"
Any introverted Christian who ever has felt misunderstood because of his or her personality type likely will find this book a revelatory, mission-affirming reading experience.
McHugh challenges churches to recognize that the significant numbers of introverts in their bodies have been gifted to serve in unique ways and to encourage them and open up avenues for service.
Full-time and lay ministers within churches will enjoy reading this book to understand better the struggles and strengths introverts can bring to church ministry. Highly recommended.
With clarity, logic, practical examples, and scripture Introverts in the Church offers ways for more reticent types to effectively serve, lead, worship, and share their faith with some helpful advice to the terminally introverted on how to be more involved in the world outside themselves. Introverts offers hope and reveals how more restrained people can approach relationships differently and practice spirituality in ways that fit who they are.
"As an author and consultant, I have seen firsthand the struggles that introverts face in a society built for extroverts. But I have also seen how powerful introverts can be once they embrace the gifts of a quiet and thoughtful temperament. In this deeply felt and beautifully reasoned guide for introverts in the church, pastor Adam McHugh shows the way for introverted Christians to find peace within themselves and their community."
"As an introvert who has experienced both the strengths and weaknesses of my temperament, I appreciate the way McHugh goes well beyond the facile stereotypes and conclusions of armchair psychologists. If you've ever felt vaguely sinful for not being a gregarious Christian I suggest you spend some quality time alone with a copy of Introverts in the Church."
"As a fellow introvert, I well know the tension, irony and even contradiction of being in vocational ministry where public speaking and being with people are major and vital parts of our roles. This book puts together extremely helpful thinking to better understand who we are and how to navigate and celebrate being introverted and in leadership in an extroverted world."
"Introverts, take heart! As an introvert myself--an off-the-chart 'I' on the Myers-Briggs--I find certain aspects of church life, like speaking to other human beings every Sunday, really taxing. McHugh thoughtfully explores the gifts introverts bring to the church, and he considers both how introverts can live well in the church and how churches can be more hospitable to us."
Arnold MainMindemoya, OntarioAge: 55-65Gender: male5 Stars Out Of 5A timely book in deedMay 16, 2012Arnold MainMindemoya, OntarioAge: 55-65Gender: maleQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5This book is a welcome reminder that the extraverts are not the benchmark for Christian character and intraverts are valuable to the Kingdom of God
MartVTAge: Over 65Gender: female5 Stars Out Of 5Life-changing book for an introvertMay 4, 2012MartVTAge: Over 65Gender: femaleQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5Adam McHugh offers heart-to-heart understanding of an introvert's outlook on the world and his/her struggles to be a participant in it. Each chapter is another validating experience for anyone who has felt like an outsider in a culture (including the church) where extrovert characteristics seem to be both the norm and the most appreciated qualities. McHugh emphasizes the strengths that the introvert has to offer others, in our culture and especially in the church. It is a very encouraging book.
Kimberly5 Stars Out Of 5May 11, 2010KimberlyI read this book so fast! It really helped me to learn more about who I am and accept it. As I felt free to be me, I felt more free to step out of my comfort zones. The writer is gentle and understanding and yet, held on to much truth. It's worth a read even if you aren't an introvert. As I read some excerpts to my husband it helped him to understand and confirmed his wisdom. May God bless the writer and all who reads it!
Lauren5 Stars Out Of 5April 24, 2010LaurenAdam McHugh's "Introverts in the Church" has been a huge blessing in my life. I have long struggled to reconcile my introverted nature with the teaching and pressures of more extroverted church leaders. This book helped me to realize I had been fighting against my introversion instead of learning to work with it and embrace my unique but no less valuable giftings.Introverts will find in this book self-understanding and healing, with comforting reassurances that we are not alone in our struggles. McHugh empowers with insights into ways we can serve God and His church within our introverted nature and without self-destructing! Extroverts would do well to learn from this book how to better utilize and minister to the introverts in their communites. Afterall, we are roughly half the population!The author communicates all of this in a relatable, conversational writing style. He brings a great deal of credibility to the book by sprinkling it with a more academic approach (supplementing anecdotes with cited references). I appreciated his upfront acknowledgement (and periodic reminders) that the generalizations he makes are necessary but not intended to represent universal truth. I am a better person for having read this book and am so thankful to Adam McHugh for writing it!
Liadan5 Stars Out Of 5April 15, 2010LiadanThis book is more about the Contemplative Prayer Movement, Desert Fathers, Monks, Monasteries and former-evangelical-turned-Catholic Priest than it is about the Lord using Introverts in the Church. This book is an example of how New Age practices creep into the Church. ***The above review is absolutely ridiculous! This book contains nothing of the sort. This book helped me (an introvert) feel more comfortable in my church. If I had read this book sooner in life, it would have saved me a lot of pain. I highly recommend this book. The reviewer above doesn't sound like she even read this book. "Do not bear false witness!" I would also recommend this book for extroverts who may know 'shy' people.
Author: Adam S. McHugh
Located in: Claremont, CA
Submitted: August 07, 2009
Tell us a little about yourself. I'm an ordained Presbyterian minister, a spiritual director, and an introvert. I've served in Presbyterian churches, as a hospice chaplain, and as campus staff with InterVarsity Christian Fellowship. I grew up in Seattle and graduated from Claremont McKenna College and Princeton Theological Seminary, and I live with my lovely and brilliant wife in Claremont, California.
What was your motivation behind this project? To be honest, the book started out as somewhat of a self-apologetic. There were two unmistakable realities in my life 1. I was called to be a leader in the church and 2. I was an introvert. But too often I experienced those two things as contradictory, and the book began as my way of trying to make sense of my call in light of my introverted temperament and vice versa. But as I thought about the topic and started talking with other introverts about it, I realized just how prevalent, and often how crippling, the struggles are for introverts in the church. So I decided to address not only leadership, but also spirituality, community, worship, and evangelism through an introverted lens.
What do you hope folks will gain from this project? My hope is that the book will help introverts both to find peace in their God-given personality preferences, and also to discover their places in their Christian communities, which so badly need their gifts and strengths.
How were you personally impacted by working on this project? It was a very healing process for me, to think deeply about my introversion and how that actually aids me in my life of discipleship. I loved talking with other introverts (one-on-one, of course!) about the topic and sharing struggles and hopes with them. There are a lot more of us out there than people might think and we are much more committed to the Church than people might think too. We are eager to discover our gifts and to use them for the blessing of others, as well as to engage in the Missio Dei. We just want to participate in ways that are authentic to who we are.
Who are your influences, sources of inspiration or favorite authors / artists? In this project, Henri Nouwen, especially his book The Way of the Heart, was highly significant. I also drew quite a bit from Marti Olsen Laney's book The Introvert Advantage. In general, my favorite authors are Eugene Peterson, N.T. Wright, and Henri Nouwen, and I love listening to Rob Bell preach.
Anything else you'd like readers / listeners to know: In case you introverts are running low on energy, but are unable to withdraw at the time, I find that caffeine can be a quite effective stopgap.