Glory in the Ordinary was such an encouragement to my weary heart. It's so easy to think that the mundane work in the home doesn't really matter....especially when it gets messed up within minutes. I needed to read this book and be reminded of the "why." It's not purposeless work.

As a mom who homeschools and works part-time, it's easy for me to have the wrong attitude towards these mundane tasks and do them with the wrong attitude. Courtney Reissig did a wonderful job making this book applicable to women of all ages in all different stages.

I'm very picky when it comes to non-fiction books because I want them to be Gospel-centered and the be biblical truth, not something misinterpreted. Glory in the Ordinary fits all my criteria!

It's so easy for women to compare themselves and to look at their homes and feel like such failures if there's a mess. Ressig reminds her readers, our identity is not in our homes or in the things that we do or don't do. Our identity is in Christ who loves us and created us. When we remember that, we find purpose in the things that matter and we do them with the right heart attitude.

For the new wife or the new mother, this would be a fantastic gift. For the woman who is stressed about not measuring up or who feels like a failure, this book would encourage her greatly. Glory in the Ordinary reminds us that our work in the home matters to God, even if they don't seem to matter to anyone else.

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Stuffing a ratty t-shirt into the washers maw, I try not to think about the fact that it was only yesterday that I hung this very same t-shirt on the clothesline. The laundry is never done even though we are down to a family of four these days. How in the world did I survive eleven years of cloth diapers? Apparently, somewhere along the way I have discovered that there is Glory in the Ordinary, that there is meaning to all the mundane tasks that are stuck on replay in this mothering life. So when Courtney Reissig compared her laundry hamper to her husbands overflowing inbox at work, I stopped and underlined, and nodded, yes and amen.

My soul resonated, too, when she argued that in our ordinary chores and in the act of corralling chaos into order, we image God.

You and I were created to work because God Himself works. It is a function of being image bearers.

Organizing a cluttered closet, mucking out a nasty refrigerator mess, distributing clean and folded laundry to the four corners of the house these are all as quietly mundane as the work God does in our time to water His trees with rain or, in history, to arrange for the Exodus 16 manna that faithfully fed a generation of Israelites.

Go Back to the Purpose

Courtneys personal illustrations and the vignettes shared from the lives of her friends encourage me to lift my eyes from the all-consuming what of my daily list and from the pervasive how (as in how am I going to get all this done?), and to fix my eyes on the one beautiful question: Why?

Why do I do what I do every day in my home? To love God and to love my neighbor. And sometimes the hardest neighbors to love are the ones that share my last name and my DNA.

While Martin Luther made it clear that the works of our hands are not meritorious for our salvation, he wrote decisively that one ought to live, speak, act, hear, suffer, and die in love and service for another, even ones enemies. (Kindle Location 871) Loving others in our homes is more than a feeling, and it is likely to include the inconvenience of vacuuming the mud from their shoes, replacing the groceries they consume, and washing the dishes and the bedding they besmirch.

Mothers Little Helpers

The whole family is invited to experience the glory in the ordinary that comes with the work of home not only because of the many hands make light work principle, but because of the soul-shaping nature of chores and collaborative effort. With sweet reasonableness, Courtney shares this gracious logic (Kindle Location 923):

The home we all live in is for us all, and therefore, requires that we all contribute to it.

She traces the history of housework through the the subtle transition in terminology from housewife to stay-at-home mum, and examines the impact of cultural context on the believers theology of work. For instance, missionary and author Gloria Furman is a mum and keeper at home in a middle-eastern, community-oriented culture, while those of us in the West tend to have a go-it-alone mentality which can lead to the isolation, loneliness, and burn out that has given motherhood a bad reputation.

Toward a Sound Theology of Home

Since God is relational Himself, and since He ordained (Genesis 2:18) that his creatures would fare better in company with others, even the introverts of the world (Im looking in the mirror here), need to consider what part community should be playing in our work at home. Hannah Anderson says it well:

God did not intend for families to be islands; they are part of the continent. This is why multi-generational communities are so important to the work of home.

I enjoy covering the nursery in church these days so that young mums can get a break from little children, but I am on the receiving end when a dear friend in her eighties washes all my dishes whenever she attends a big gathering in my home.

Home here on earth is a microcosm of the heavenly reality that awaits us, [and] so is the church. (Kindle Location 1134-1143) Good theology and its practical application should lead to a connectivity and a my life for yours mentality as we serve one another. This glorious truth gets lived out whenever Titus 2-truth sees daylight in a discipleship relationship between older and younger women or whenever men and women of grandparent age step into a situation where are there are no grandparents nearby to help and encourage.

Community done among women commends the gospel to a world that breathes isolation and loneliness. (Kindle Location 1151)

The God-Designed Gift of Rest

If God rested (and He did), if Adam and Eve in their perfect prelapsarian bodies needed rest, it stands to reason that my own post-Genesis 3 life will be better if I submit to a pattern of work followed by Sabbath. J.I. Packer speaks wisdom into this subject (Kindle Location 1276):

We need to be aware of our limitations and to let this awareness work in us humility and self-distrust, and a realization of our helplessness on our own. Thus we may learn our need to depend on Christ, our Savior and Lord, at every turn of the road . . .

Our prideful rearing up against the rest we need and the fact that work exhausts, depletes, and frustrates us are both factors attributable to our fallen-ness. So is the idolatry that makes work into a god and permits it to supersede in importance even the people we are called to love and to serve.

When my children were all small (in the pre-homeschooling days), I gave myself the weekend off from cooking by preparing meals ahead every Friday. Courtney shares an idea from a friend who depends on leftovers and PB&J for the weekend. Regardless of how we accomplish it, we ensure that the Sabbath is honored in our homes by working hard at rest, investing the effort up front and employing some carefully chosen nos.

Enter into the Joy

The job description driving the work of home is an unwieldy thing, shifting daily and expanding and changing as our families grow. While this is unavoidable, we can lighten our own load with some purposeful choices and a Christ-shaped mindset such as steering clear of comparison; resisting the urge to audition for the role of Super Mum; and encouraging our husbands to fulfill their own God-ordained roles as workers at home without feeling threatened or less than because we are unable to shoulder the work of two single-handed.

Mired in the here and now, we forget that the work of home is the work of spreading Gods glory throughout the world. By entering into the reality of that today, we leave a mark on those we serve and prepare our hearts for a future of greater work and greater joy when we will see that there has never been a mundane task without purpose in Gods incredible universe in which nothing goes to waste. Every little task, every intentional act of service points back to the God who made us and forward to an eternity in which the connection between worship and work will be forever eliminated.

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Does a womans work in taking care of her home matter to God? Glory in the Ordinary: Why Your Work in the Home Matters to God by Courtney Reissig attempts to answer that question. The author begins by discussing views of the home over time and then starts to examine how God sees it. At first, I agreed with other readers and had trouble connecting with the book, even though I really wanted to like it. However, I kept reading and I am so glad that I did. Reading the rest of the book was a great encouragement. It illuminates how every mundane thing we do in life is important to God and His purposes. I would recommend this book to anyone needing encouragement to keep doing little, unnoticed things. I received a digital copy of this book from Net Galley in exchange for my honest review.