Fight: Winning the Battles That Matter Most by Craig Groeschel
"_within every man, God has planted a divine desire to fight for righteousness." - Fight, p.13
As king of the flannelgraph boards, the Biblical/historical figure of Sampson is one that many a young boy wishes to be. Set apart by God from birth, Sampson is the original superhero. Fight, by pastor Craig Groeschel, examines the life of Sampson in parallel to the modern Christian male. Both have been created by God in His image; both are prone to utter and complete failure. Groeschel goes out of his way to point out that Sampson's failures, like ours, are never due to one time events. Like the falling blocks in a game of Tetris, our decisions stack up and can eventually lead us down a road to ruin. However, like Sampson, we are never beyond God's redemptive power.
Fight is organized into 3-4 page chapters. I enjoyed these easy to digest chunks of truth. My biggest and only complaint with the book was the unneeded machoism that permeates throughout. Much like John Eldredge's Wild at Heart, Groeschel felt the need to add blanket gender assumptions such as:
"Think about it this way. There are two kinds of movies: chick flicks and, well, everything else. Do chick flicks inspire men? Do they make them want to be stronger, braver, better men?What about in Pride and Prejudice when Keira Knightley's character says to her new husband, "You may only call me Ã¢â¬ËMrs. Darcy' when you are completely and perfectly and incandescently happy." And he responds with, "Then how are you this evening_Mrs. Darcy?" and kisses her on the forehead. And then, "Mrs. Darcy," as he kisses her on the cheek. And then, "Mrs. Darcy," as he kisses her on the nose. Again, if you're a guy, you have no idea what I'm talking about right? Or if you do know, you're trying hard to forget." (page 14)
Despite comments such as the one found above, I enjoyed my time reading Fight. Craig does a fantastic job going beyond the Sampson depicted in Sunday school flannelgraphs and digs into the heart of what made him a man. I highly recommend this book.
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I regularly follow his church's podcast and try to keep up with his sermons as much as possible.
Needless to say, I enjoy the resources Craig Groeschel puts out.
And so when I was given the chance to receive an advance copy of his upcoming book for men, I jumped at the opportunity (well, not literally, but I did get really excited).
I was not disappointed.
This book reads like a devotional book, with five sections containing seven short chapters each (so it would take five weeks to go through, reading a few pages each day).
In this book, Craig focuses on the story of Samson, and how men can overcome the lies of the enemy and the pull of the sinful nature in order to fight - and win - the battles that really matter in life.
And I must admit, I was a little curious how he could spend an entire book focusing on the life of Samson.
It's one of the most well-known stories in the Bible.
Most people have heard it ever since Sunday school.
Could I really learn anything that I hadn't already been told for years?
Craig dives into the details of Samson's life, and points out things that I had never realized.
He successfully takes the story of Samson, and uses it to draw powerful application points for my life.
If you are a man looking for an excellent read, I completely recommend picking this book up when it comes out.
And if you a woman, wanting to find out ways to encourage your man to reach his potential in Christ,
then I also encourage you to read it (Craig also invites you to read it).
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We all make poor choices, and sometimes those choices concern the things that we think are important. Using Samson (read about him in Judges, chapters 13-16) as the primary example, Pastor Craig Groeschel does some teaching on how to pick our battles in such a way as to make an impact for God. In his latest book, Fight: Winning the Battles that Matter Most (Zondervan, 2013), Groeschel makes a strong case for allowing God to use us despite our weaknesses. As he puts it, Samson is the strongest man to ever live, but his story doesn't have a happy, Ã¢â¬Ëwalking-with-God' ending. Why, because he made some poor choices. (Can you relate?)
Samson was a Nazarite; set aside, dedicated to God, and as such made three vows. 1) No booze; 2) don't touch anything dead; and 3) hair doesn't get cut. Of course if you read the Sacred Text, you'll see that Samson broke all of his promises. Goreschel points out that as Samson got off track, and lost focus, he allowed lust, entitlement and pride to take over. He listens to his emotions instead of God.
Groeschel writes in an engaging style, he's pastoral, but reading this book was like reading a letter written to me. He's transparent, but not in the tabloid sensationalism style, and time and again he referred to his own Samson moments. Time and again I was reminded that I have Samson moments too. We're all faced with Samson moments, but Groeschel shows how he uses (and we can use them too) his faith, an active prayer life, and knowledge of the Word of God to overcome the loss of focus moments in our lives.
The happy ending is that Samson after a life of letting his "I want it" emotions rule his thinking was able to turn back to God. My take away from this book is that I'll never measure up to the super-heroes of the faith, but that doesn't mean that in my imperfections I can't be used.
Learn to be a warrior, you're going to have battles, and you've already got the tools you need to fight those battles (faith, prayer and the Word of God). The choice is yours - what kind of decisions will you make?
I was provided a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. I was not required to write a favorable review.
We have all probably had to fight for someone or something at one time in our life or another, and most people don't enjoy losing. But, sometimes the difference between winning and losing is understanding how to fight and knowing what it is that is worth fighting for in this life. And learning to fight is the subject of the newest book by author Craig Groesschel, titled simply Fight, that is due to be released this October.
Craig Groeschel is well known throughout the world as the Pastor of one of the largest churches in the United States, Life Church, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. With a congregation of multiplied thousands, he has had to speak with his share of more than a few people who had some challenging fights, and with others who fight every day to stay spiritually strong in a world of compromise. In the book Fight, he uses the Biblical model of Samson as an example of the wrong way to fight, and draws out many Biblical principles that can easily be applied to our lives.
He states very directly that the book is primarily geared toward men but, knowing that women will also read the contents, he encourages every reader to learn how to apply the truths contained in the pages to the areas we all struggle with most. What are some of those areas of struggle? For men in particular, from Samson's life he chooses to focus on lust, entitlement and pride. And later in the book he adds some thoughts about failure and regret that can easily be applied to multitudes of beaten down warriors.
I found his stories, particularly those which he tells about himself, to be hilarious and sometimes familiar to anyone who recognizes the challenges all of us face from time to time. The book is very easy to read and the chapters remarkably short, proving that you can say a lot in only a little bit of time. As the subject matter is very important in men's ministry, he covers the issues well and any man should find himself hidden somewhere in between these pages.
I received this book free from the publisher through the http://BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I believe that whether you're a man or a woman that you will gain insights into the world of the way a man thinks and feels. And if you will apply the principals contained in this book, then you too can learn to fight...and to win.
Fight is a book for guys. Really. In every way, it's designed to appeal, minister to, and address a male audience stylistically and in content. Groeschel says that pretty clearly up front, encouraging women readers to just put the book down because it's "not for you." I was sent the book to review, though, so as a woman I pressed on and kept reading. After all, sometimes it's a help for me to better understand where my husband is coming from.
The book essentially argues that men are designed to fight, created by God to be holy warriors, and encourages Godly men to step up and fight the battles worth winning against sin and for their marriages, families, finances and personal holiness.
Interestingly enough, Groeschel chooses to study the account of Samson in the Bible--God's champion-gone-bad---mostly as an anti-hero, one that reminds men of what happens when they squander their potential, refuse their calling, and give into temptation rather than discipline themselves through obedience. It's not often that we really examine the story of Samson, other than to tell the sordid story of Delilah, and I think it is valuable to look at Biblical characters not just for the examples they give us of what to do, but also to show us what not to do. Samson certainly fits into that category.
As a woman, I was struck by how much of the book addresses men's emotional reactions, but not in a way that is typical of more female-focused material. Groeschel argues that, while women run the gamut of emotional responses, guys generally experience anger. Maybe it's directed at themselves, others, God, the situation or anything else, but generally it's anger that drives their reactions. So, Groeschel focuses here, on disciplining male emotions and overcoming anger or at least redirecting it. He also covers the topics of pride, lust (lots and lots of time spent on this topic), envy, greed, and the small steps that lead guys closer and closer to habitual and devastating sin.
The chapters are extremely brief and the book itself is fairly short. It's a quick read with amusing anecdotes and personal stories with humor that will resonate with a male audience. Overall, Groeschel is undemanding of his audience, never requiring extended attention, lengthy reading sessions, or even in-depth study.
Perhaps that leads to my main criticism of the book. It was hard to tell from place to place or chapter to chapter exactly what the extended argument was here. It seemed like a series of nearly disconnected chapters, like mini-talks or podcasts, strung together loosely under the theme of "stuff guys deal with."
In the final chapters, he seems to hone in on a final push for self-discipline and holiness, but he meanders his way there in the previous chapters. The overall progression seems jumpy as a result. A little bit on lust here, a little bit on pride there, a little bit on how men need to fight and then back to lust again and maybe another discussion of lust a little later on, as well. The discussions on Samson seemed secondary to the topic, added in to provide Biblical anti-examples, but not really the driving force behind the book.
Overall, this book will probably work well for guys, holding their attention, addressing practical problems, and encouraging them to step up as holy warriors for God, not being knocked out by sin, temptation, lack of discipline, and selfishness. But it isn't a particularly deep Bible study or even my favorite of Groeschel's books (but then, as a woman, it wasn't meant to be my favorite).
I received this book free from the publisher. I was not required to write a positive review and the opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255 : "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."