Mainstream denominations are slowly dying. Your church may be growing; good for you. Your church may not be growing or shrinking. Our churches though are slowly losing thousands and millions of Christians. Is the problem that Christ isn't relevant? No. So who does that leave? We need some way to staunch the bleeding not because if we don't, we won't be a big voting block. It is because we believe that every loss of a child of God from the ranks of our memberships is of eternal importance. What can be done? I'm not positive; but here are some ideas Drew Fryar lives with his Grandmother in San Antonio, TX. He tries to tell everyone that living with someone rent free after college isn't pathetic because she's elderly and she needs him to change light bulbs and work the DVD player. He tells everyone that he's being frugal by not renting an apartment. We all know the truth though, don't we?