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Publication Date: 2011
The statistics are jarring. One in four women and one in six men have been sexually assaulted. But as sobering as these statistics are, they cant begin to speak to the darkness and grief experienced by the victims. The church needs compassionate and wise resources to care for those living in the wake of this evil. Other books attempt to address the journey from shame to healing for victims of sexual abuse, but few are from a Christian perspective and written for both child and adult victims. In Rid of My Disgrace, a couple experienced in counseling and care for victims of sexual assault present the gospel in its power to heal the broken and restore the disgraced.
Justin and Lindsey Holcomb present a clear definition of sexual assault and outline a biblical approach for moving from destruction to redemption. Rid of My Disgrace applies a theology of redemption to the grief, shame, and sense of defilement victims experience. This book is primarily written for them, but can also equip pastors, ministry staff, and others to respond compassionately to those who have been assaulted. Part of the Re:Lit series.
Counselor and Faculty, The Christian Counseling and Educational Foundation
I cant express how grateful I am that someone is tackling this subject with both a pastoral heart and an understanding of how the devastating effects of sexual assault can wreak havoc for decades after the abuse. It is an epidemic issue where resources are scarce. There isnt a weekend that goes by where we arent told a gut-wrenching tale of innocence stolen and left trying to help a man or woman make sense of their pain. I praise God for the gospel that can heal and restore and for the Holcombs that had the courage and wisdom to write this book for us.
Lead Pastor, The Village Church, Highland Village, Texas
God sees, knows, heals, restores, and redeems. This is the message of hope this book offers, to all who have suffered from abuse. How desperately needed this message is in our culture today! In my interaction with teens and young adults, I have heard many stories of sexual abuse. I am so thrilled that there is a resource like this book that offers relevant, practical, biblical hope and healing words of life.
-Rebecca St. James,
Having experienced much sexual brokenness in my own life and now having pastored a church that ministers to thousands of broken people, I can say with confidence that this book is desperately needed. Justin and Lindsey write to help the abused and to help those who help the abused. It is a must-read for all those who live and minister in this sexually broken world.
-Darrin Patrick, Founding Pastor of The Journey Church, St Louis, MO; author, Church Planter
Jesus says, Blessed are those who mourn. Rid of My Disgrace gives sexual assault victims, and those who love and serve them, the freedom to grieve the violence against them and the tools to experience healing and hope in Jesus. I am so thankful for this major contribution to my life and the people I love. -Grace Driscoll, pastor's wife, mother of five, conference speaker, author Justin and Lindsey demonstrate a unique level of compassion and concern for victims of sexual assault and the hope for them for healing. The gentle and empathetic tone, along with a sincere belief that victims can experience healing, makes this book indispensable for both victims and those who care for them.
Founding Pastor of LifeChurch.tv and author of Confessions of a Pastor
The worldand too often the churchencourages victims of sexual assault to do more. Self-help advice just adds more layers of guilt and a sense of powerlessness. The authors of this excellent book have good news: literally, a gospel that answers our disgrace with the grace of God in Christ. For anyone who suffers from abuseas well as those who minister to themRid of My Disgrace is powerful, healing medicine.
-Michael S. Horton,
J. Gresham Machen Professor of Systematic Theology and Apologetics, Westminster Seminary California
Where will you find a Theology of the Victim from a Reformed theologian? You just found it. If youve been the victim of abuse, you wont find yourself blamed in this book. Youll find yourself embraced by the love of a God who meets you in your pain. This will be required reading for all of my students.
-Chuck DeGroat, Academic Dean, Newbigin House of Studies; Director, City Church Counseling Center
Some books are easy to read, but this isnt one of them. Its difficulty, however, is not a matter of style or prose but of substance. We dont like thinking about sexual assault and abuse. Wed rather pretend they dont exist. But the church can no longer afford to turn a blind eye to the extent of this problem or to ignore the devastation it brings to both body and soul. What makes this book so worthy of your attention, notwithstanding the discomfort it may cause you to feel, is the wealth of wisdom, gospel grace, and pastoral sensitivity that the Holcombs bring to bear on those affected by this experience. No matter how deep the pain or sense of loss endured by the victims of sexual assault, Gods healing grace and power are greater still. Highly recommended!
Pastor, Bridgeway Church, Oklahoma City, OK; Founder, Enjoying God Ministries
One can tell that the Holcombs have extensive experience working with victims of various kinds of assault because this book is so comprehensive in elucidating the types of healing necessary. Thoroughly researched, richly evangelical in theology, strongly assertive to deliver from blame and guilt, Rid of My Disgrace is heartily recommended for all who suffer from sexual exploitation.
-Marva J. Dawn,
author, Sexual Character, Being Well When We're Ill and Joy in our Weakness; Teaching Fellow, Spiritual Theology, Regent College, Vancouver, BC
As the President of Youth for Christ/USA, I am a first hand witness to thousands of lives that have been impacted and marred by sexual assault. Often the trauma is replaced by debilitating shame and despair. I was moved and inspired by the thoughtful, comprehensive and approachable way that Justin and Lindsey Holcomb unpack the power of grace. The pages of the book unwrap the gift of God, they unlock the shackles of guilt, and they unleash the Spirit of God to transform. Rid of My Disgrace is an important work, for a vital time, to a broken people. I praise God for the fruit that this book will produce.
Written passionately from the agony that haunts victims, this book also offers a message of hope and healing. It is an invaluable resource for those who have been victimized and a must-read for family, friends, pastors, or counselors of victims to be equipped to serve and love them well.
author, Eyes Wide Open; senior pastor, Central Christian Church, Las Vegas, NV
This important book places the powder keg of gospel truth where it is most needed: on the frontline of pastoral ministry. A mixture of clear writing, real-life stories, and faithful Bible exposition makes this a powerful resource in the fight for redemption in the lives of those we are called to serve.
Lead Pastor, Church of Christ the King, Brighton, MA
This is a sad and disturbing book. The dark of it will keep you awake at night. But the light will cause you to sing with joy and hope. What a gift to the church and to those who have felt the shame of sexual assault or who love those who have! Read it and give it to your friends. They will rise up and call you blessed! It is the best book Ive ever read on the subject of abuse and Ive read a lot of them.
author, A Scandalous Freedom: The Radical Nature of the Gospel
This compelling, disturbing and hopeful book written from the perspective of the Christian faith, has the potential to be a lifeline for many who have experienced the horror of sexual violence.
President and co-founder, Love146
Rid of My Disgrace reminds victims of sexual assault that they are not alone and it is not the end of the story. From King Davids daughter Tamar to the courageous survivors telling their stories today, the Holcombs take sexual assault out of the shadows of shame and isolation and into the light of the gospel. With a solid grasp on both the effects of sexual assault and of redemptive history, the Holcombs thoroughly identify sexual assault and its aftermath while calling the reader to let even such a painful, hideous act be a part of their story of redemption through Christs sufficient work on the cross.
co-founder and counselor, Grace Clinic Christian Counseling
This book helped us understand the painful emotions that go along with the particular suffering of sexual assault. But more than that, it showed us how to respond to our twelve-year-old son who was assaulted.
-Parents of a child victim
I thought I had gotten over the abuses in my pastI had forgiven my abusers, stopped feeling like a victim, and felt like I was a stronger person. After reading Rid of My Disgrace, I realized there were still underlying issues I hadnt dealt with that were preventing me from getting close to other people and, worst of all, preventing me from having a deeper relationship with God. Each chapter not only discussed each emotion that had been secretly weighing on me, but also showed me that those emotions dont have to rule me. Jesus death and resurrection apply not only to my sins, but also to the burden of someone elses sin against me. My identity is no longer as damaged goods. It is child of God and with that comes Gods unending love. I highly recommend this book for anyone who has experienced not only some form of sexual abuse, but other abuses as well.
-Adult female victim
MultipleHatsMomAge: 45-54Gender: female5 Stars Out Of 5A book on freedom from the impact of sexual assultJuly 27, 2012MultipleHatsMomAge: 45-54Gender: femaleQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5This is an excellent book for those who are stuggling with the impact in their lives of sexual assult or those who love them and want to understand better what they are going through.
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