Brad Hambrick is a biblical counselor who gets it. He understands that there is a difference between difficult marriages and destructive ones. He presents potent descriptions of what its like to live day in and day out with a self-centered spouse. He gives sound biblical wisdom for how to recognize these patterns and practical guidelines how to tackle address them. This small booklet is chock full of biblical wisdom for the victimized spouse, for the perplexed counselor/pastor, and for the destructive spouse so that true marital restoration can take place.
The Self-centered Spouse overflows with wisdom, hope, and compassion for the abused or neglected spouse as well as the offending spouse. This booklet is also a "must have" for pastors and counselors as they deal with this issue regularly. Hambrick's framing of the discussion with Matt 7:6 is masterful an fit provides helpful categories for understanding severe conflict.