While this book challenged me to look at my feminitity differently, and I am sure Leslie Ludy has great intentions and a wonderful heart she does a poor job of giving concrete explanations of what I think she wants say. While she does give a few bits of practical advice here and there it all seemed a little vague to me. I was left wanting to change how I look at my life, but not really sure how to do so practically. I will try another one of her books to see if maybe they build on one another.