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Vendor: Multnomah Books
Publication Date: 2011
"What is happening to my life?"
Have you ever honestly asked yourself that question? As young boys, we dreamed of being pilots, firefighters, doctors, and cowboys. Now were older, with a wonderful wife and kids, as well as a mortgage, a minivan, and a fulfilling but not-so-glamorous job. What happened? All the dreams that once inspired us have evaporated into traffic jams, computer screens, bills, and deadlines. Why is life so ordinary?
If you think your life is nothing special, take a look at it through Gods eyes.
The revealing truth is that God chooses "ordinary," faithful men to do His most important workregular guys like Peter the fisherman, David the shepherd, Stephen the waiter, Gideon the farmer, Paul the tentmaker, and even Jesus the carpenter. In this engaging book, Troy Meeder blends stories about biblical characters and contemporary men to show that an "average-Joe" life, an "ordinary" existence, shapes a mans integrity, moral stability, resolve, and strength.
The world desperately needs an army of "average Joes." Like you.
"Troy Meeders heart-felt accounts from both his own personal experience and those of friends and family touch a raw nerve in your soul…. Average Joe reminds us that living a life focused on faith, family, and friends is what makes a man exceptional."
Rick Wiggers, average Joe and account manager
Includes a study guide for use by mens groups.
From the Trade Paperback edition.
Meeder offers some very honest views of men and their roles. He admits that as a fifty-something cowboy, he isnt afraid to tell his opinions truthfully and bluntly. His open, conversational style is friendly and creates a connectedness between the author and the reader. The main content is split into three sections, where each chapter offers ideas that fit neatly into the overall heading, giving specific and easy-to-understand examples. A final plus is the study guide at the back, providing a few reflection questions and a recap of each chapters main points.
Despite Meeder's strong points, his book often lacks a fresh approach to this topic. There are a number of points where his "average Joe" theme seems to be shoehorned into his points, or forgotten entirely. Many chapters feel unnecessarily padded, or the opposite, too short to make their point well enough. The examples he uses are interesting, but they seem more like affectionate stories than spiritual examples. Meeder adds spiritual elements to them, but they often seem strained.
Average Joe is in no way a bad book. Meeder does make solid spiritual points and shares powerful stories from his life. Yet, despite its strengths, Average Joe is a victim of its style. The content is generic, and most of his points seem like theyve been said before, or are just common sense. Meeder makes a valiant effort, but ultimately comes a little short. I would recommend this book to seasoned men of the church, mostly those in the thirties and up. Average Joe is good, but there are better books out there related to male role modeling. Todd Naevestad, www.ChristianBookPreviews.com
"In celebrating the average Joe with remarkably compelling stories, Troy Meeder proves that theres really no such thing as an average Joe and that the closer he gets to Jesus, the less average any Joe will seem or be. Every man will be used greatly by God if he allows himself to be broken and shaped into the Lords image, no matter how unheralded
his title or setting."
Fred Stoeker, coauthor of Every Mans Battle
"Men love to succeed, and we run from anything that has a high probability of failure associated with it. Rather than heap a bunch of guilt on guys, Troy has collected stories and reflections that most men will relate toand which inspire us to consider what were living for. Sharing from his own life as an average Joe, Troy suggests ways we can reframe
how were measuring successand make the most of life. Im really glad he wrote this book and will be giving a copy to each of my two college-age boys!"
John Fuller, vice president, Focus on the Family
"Troy Meeders heartfelt accounts from both his own personal experience and those of friends and family touch a raw nerve in your soul. More than once I found my eyes welling upsometimes because of the sincerity of the story, other times because I realized it was me in the story. Average Joe reminds us that living a life focused on faith, family, and friends is what makes a man exceptional."
Rick Wiggers, average Joe and account manager
"Troy Meeder speaks prophetically to Gods favorite group of men, which He likes to use to foment spiritual evolutions: average Joes. This book echoes the blueprint in the book of Acts, where God fills and forms ordinary men with a powerful spiritual word for their time as well as liberates them from synthetic, broken male culture into an authentic, powerful life in Christ."
Kenny Luck, president of Every Man Ministries, author of the Gods Man Series, and mens pastor of Saddleback Church
"Troy Meeder nails it. Average Joe is a must-read for any guy who questions whether his life can make a difference in the world. Honest and straightforward, Troy reminds us that being average does not equate with mediocrity and that with God nothing is impossible."
Eric Close, actor, director, CBS
"Real heroes are desperately needed in our society today. Troy Meeders book serves as an inspiration to any man who doubts his significance and desires to be a hero in Gods eyes."
Ryan Dobson, author, speaker, and host of Grounded Radio
"An excellent readlike having a cup of joe with your best friend and being infused with hope and destiny! I know it is time for iron to sharpen iron, but this takes true courage. Troy Meeder dynamically opens this realm up in himself. Going through the study guide gave me the give and take I needed to feel as if Troy and I were truly looking into each others heart. We men need to require more of ourselves, and this means we must take the chance and go deeper. After reading Average Joe, I face life with a new focus and purpose."
Rafael Olgine, average Joe and safety specialist
"This book is dynamite! If you are an average Joe, Troy will biblically blow up the lie that your existence and your life are not significant. And if you think youre not an average Joe, then you have an even deeper problem! Either way, this book is strong medicine that counters diseased thinking. The best mens book Ive read in a long time."
Steve Farrar, speaker, author of Point Man
From the Trade Paperback edition.
Penny Toomer4 Stars Out Of 5Good Book!January 12, 2017Penny ToomerQuality: 0Value: 0Meets Expectations: 0My hubby wants to order more copies to use for a small group time with some men in the church. He enjoyed it.
raroederKansasAge: 55-65Gender: male5 Stars Out Of 5Great wisdom mixed with great adventures.June 15, 2012raroederKansasAge: 55-65Gender: maleQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5While reading "Average Joe," I was amazed at Troy Meeder's insight into life. Truly the real heroes are the Average Joes, and any man with determination and integrity, regardless of age, can be a hero rising to the rank of Average Joe.
This is a book every man should read, even if you think you are above average or like me, less than average. We have a great God and what matters is what He sees in us. He is our fulfillment.
This book would make a great gift for husbands and high school grads.
JohnAge: 45-54Gender: male5 Stars Out Of 5Simply GreatFebruary 18, 2012JohnAge: 45-54Gender: maleQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5We are all average Joes .We just need to see it & what we can do through GOD....
owensdadOhioAge: 25-34Gender: male2 Stars Out Of 5Who Wants to Be Average?November 4, 2011owensdadOhioAge: 25-34Gender: maleQuality: 3Value: 2Meets Expectations: 1Troy Meeder is a cowboy in the Pacific Northwest, where he runs a ranch for at-risk teenagers, a wonderful ministry. I'm not sure why he doesn't share any stories from his many years working the ranch and, in particular, working the hearts of rough kids. Instead, he focuses on those men he calls "average Joes," men who have in some way influenced his maturity.
"Average Joe" is an attempt Ã¢â¬â at least from what I can gather Ã¢â¬â to encourage regular guys to make the most of life in their station, a far cry from something like John Eldredge's "Wild at Heart," which I recommend to any man. Meeder's content is inconsistent. At one time he seems to persuade guys to stay average and at another to fuel that "passion and desire to do something that will set us apart to face and survive an impossible circumstance."
Perhaps I just don't fit into the readership Meeder was addressing, for he tells a lot of stories about fishing and ranching. His affinity toward John Wayne certainly tells his age and also confuses his intended audience. Is he writing to younger men in the throes of building a career, a family, a marriage Ã¢â¬â not necessarily in that order Ã¢â¬â or to middle aged men discouraged concerning their averageness?
Meeder has a glorified image of military men, "This old cowboy tips his hat to honor them, the very best of us all Ã¢â¬â the soldiers, airmen, and sailors of the United States Armed Forces." Indeed, they may be brave, but I'm not sure I'd call them the very best of us all. What makes a man the best? That he dons fatigues and carries an automatic weapon?
Further, Meeder virtually deifies cowboys, at times conveying, though likely unintentionally, that a man's occupation defines the man. And he will not suffer anything less than his version of masculinity. For instance, in his chapter on friendship, he assures us that his idea of sitting down to chat with another guy doesn't involve "the cost of a designer coffee at some metrosexual hangout." Personally, I've had some amazing conversations with guys at such metrosexual hangouts.
If you're a rough, Folgers-only kind of guy, and over 50, you might appreciate Troy Meeder's take on being a man. My metrosexual friends and I would have a harder time gleaning the good beyond the macho. There is some there, but nothing that hasn't been written better or less objectionable to guys who like "designer coffee."
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book for free from WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing Group for this review I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255 <http://www.access.gpo.gov/nara/cfr/waisidx_03/16cfr255_03.html> : "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."
Scotty4 Stars Out Of 5"Average Joe" is the same old story told wellSeptember 3, 2011ScottyQuality: 4Value: 3Meets Expectations: 3How many versions of your favorite movie would you watch?
Three? Five? Maybe even seven?
How about 71?
Since Chapman & Hall first published "A Christmas Carol" in 1843 by English writer Charles Dickens, this story about Ebenezer Scrooge has been told in some kind of movie or television format at least 71 times. It's an old story that people seem to never tire of, although some versions are better than others.
Troy Meeder's new book, "Average Joe: God's Extraordinary Calling to Ordinary Men" (published by WaterBrook Multnomah) reminds me of the constant telling of a popular story, but this time it's the usual stuff men's ministries are made up of, just a different version told fairly well.
Therein lies the value of "Average Joe."
If you've been in --- or even near --- a men's ministry, you won't find the overall content of Meeder's book to be anything new. From the focus of God doing extraordinary things through ordinary men, to a chapter making the classic pitch for men to be involved in a mentoring relationship, the message comprising "Average Joe" isn't anything original or different. But the stories Meeder tells in crafting his message are new and often captivating.
From the first five chapters of the book, I thought Meeder may have been unfolding a larger, overarching message for his readers. Then chapter six happened. That chapter was an odd break from the preceding chapters inserted simply to "tip his hat" to the men who serve in a branch of our country's military. Chapter seven was also a little odd as Meeder turned to the image of a cowboy to draw out his example for the "average Joe."
But Meeder's skills at story-telling, coupled with his fluid writing, brings out a strong message about friendship in chapter 10, an intensely personal story in chapter 11, and chapter 12 tells a story powerful enough to make a grown man cry.
"Average Joe" has common messages for men, being told once again here by Meeder. But the messages are well crafted, and the stories they are composed of are worth the read.
I received this book free from WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing Group as part of their book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255: "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."