I suffered a miscarriage at 9 1/2 weeks. It was awful. I wanted to be a mom so much, as did my husband want to be a father. A neighbor brought me this book and said nothing. When I was ready, I read it and it stayed with me for days. I kept it in my purse and by my bed. WE read it over and over. If you have suffered a miscarriage or know someone who has, get this book. It is just a reminder of the fact that we, as parents, did nothing wrong. and, people understand.