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Why is respect more important to husbands than love? Do men have an inner vulnerability? Why does sex unlock a man's emotions? Is a wife's appearance important? This groundbreaking book unmasks men's inner wiring and equips wives to meet them at the point of their deepest needs.

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Publication Date: 2008
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Discover the Truth He Wants You to Know

The man in your life carries important feelings so deep inside he barely knows they’re there, much less how to talk about them. Yet your man genuinely wants you to "get" him—to understand his inner life, to know his fears and needs, to hear what he wishes he could tell you.
In her landmark bestseller, For Women Only, Shaunti Feldhahn reveals what every woman—single or married—needs to know. Based on rigorous research with thousands of men, Shaunti delivers one eye-opening revelation after another, including:
• Why your respect means more to him than your love.
• How he feels deep inside about his role as provider.
• What it means for a man to be so visually "wired."
• Why sex for him is primarily emotional, not physical.
• What he most wishes he could say to you.
Now, in this expanded and updated edition, you’ll find insights from the latest brain research plus an all-new chapter that shows what’s really going on when he seems to "check out." (You’ll be surprised and pleased.)
Millions worldwide have experienced dramatic change in their relationships because of the "aha" moments and practical ideas in this little book. Discover how to love your man for who he really is.

Author Bio

Shaunti Feldhahn is a popular speaker, best-selling author, and groundbreaking social researcher. Her findings have been featured in media as diverse as Focus on the Family, FamilyLife Today, the New York Times and Cosmo. With a master’s degree from Harvard University, Shaunti has worked on Wall Street and Capitol Hill. Now she applies her analytical skills to illuminating surprising truths about relationships. She and her husband, Jeff, live in Atlanta with their two children.

Editorial Reviews

Praise for For Women Only
"Shaunti’s signature message, which she has shared around the world with millions of listeners, is life changing and something every woman needs to hear. Every time I have given someone this book, I have seen lives and marriages changed!"
—Lysa TerKeurst, New York Times best-selling author of Made to Crave

"This one short, little book brings a long-lasting, big impact on marriage—which is why I've been taking groups of women through a For Women Only study every year since I first read it. Shaunti’s message has impacted my relationships personally, and I’ve seen some amazing transformation in the lives and marriages of others." 
—Holly Furtick, Lead Pastor's wife, Elevation Church, Charlotte, NC

"What an important book!"
—Beth Moore, Bible teacher, bestselling author of So Long Insecurity

"In our weekly couples’ study we read and discussed both For Women Only and For Men Only over the course of several months. They were fascinating and very helpful. The findings in these books about how men and women think are so enlightening. My wife and I think these books should be required premarital reading!"
—Comedian Jeff Foxworthy  

"You’re about to gain some fresh insight into some of the mysteries of masculinity.  For Women Only is a book that I believe will provide understanding and bring harmony to a lot of marriages."
—Bob Lepine, cohost of FamilyLife Today

"Ready for an eye-opener? Shaunti Feldhahn has uncovered a mountain of meaningful information for any woman wanting to understand men at a profound level."
—Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott, Seattle Pacific University; authors of Love Talk

"Men are in agreement on this one:  For Women Only is one book every husband wishes his wife would read! It is a practical, thought-provoking message that will show you what you should do – and not do – when it comes to your relationship with the man in your life.  Read it, and you’re bound to have many ’aha!’ moments that could revolutionize your relationship."
—Valorie Burton, bestselling author of Successful Women Think Differently and What’s Really Holding You Back? 
"Navigating the differences between men and women might be impossibility if it weren't for Shaunti's insight and inspiration. For Women Only is a treasure box that never seems empty of wisdom. Every time I dig in, my hands and heart emerge filled with tools that help me know myself better and relate to the people I love more effectively. If you've already read it, you should read it again. And if you are just opening these pages for the first time, buckle a seat-belt over your soul and get ready for a ride you won't soon forget."
—Priscilla Shirer, best-selling author of One in a Million

"For Women Only is the best book I have read for women, about men. Shaunti's research, facts and stories in this little book create an incredible read for all women. Single, married, divorced or not even allowed to date yet should all read this and come to understand the key truths that will help in your relationship with any man. I bought a copy, read it, was astonished, and then bought ten more and sent them to everyone on our team."
—Craig Gross, founder of

"We purchased 9,000 copies of Shaunti’s book, For Women Only, and gave one to every woman in our congregations as part of a special Sunday morning event. I interviewed Shaunti on stage during all our worship services. The response was incredible. She has an engaging, compelling way of presenting her findings about how men think. It helped open the eyes of women to the real needs of the men in their lives, and it gave men a common language to use to talk about these things with their wives. I urge churches and other groups to give her the opportunity to share this message."
—Andy Stanley, author of Enemies of the Heart; Senior Pastor, North Point Community Church, Alpharetta, GA
Praise for For Men Only and For Women Only
 "Whenever Shaunti Feldhahn appears as a guest on the Focus on the Family radio program, we know that listener response will be enthusiastic. She has a way of connecting with the audience that is unique and compelling. We’re thankful for the unique perspective she provides not only to the Christian community, but to the culture at large."
—Jim Daly, President, Focus on the Family

"These are the books I pass out to people as the best on the subject. Shaunti Feldhahn has the rare ability to do impeccable research and then make her findings incredibly practical. There is something to learn on every page."
 —Jim Burns, PhD., President, HomeWord and author of Creating an Intimate Marriage  

"Whatever Shaunti Feldhahn researches, read. Actually, do more than read…study!  Shaunti’s ability to ask the right questions, find the right answers and communicate the results clearly and practically sets her apart as a gifted researcher. Her content guides and changes lives."
—Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D., best-selling author, Love and Respect

"Shaunti Feldhahn has a unique gift for helping men understand women, and women, men. Her books, For Women Only and For Men Only, are the best I know at providing rich and practical gender understanding that can be used immediately. I highly recommend both all the time!"
—Robert Lewis, author of Raising a Modern-Day Knight; founder, Men's Fraternity

"Shaunti Feldhaln has the unique gift of communicating a Christian worldview in a language everyone, Christian or secular, understands. Her experience and educational background qualify her to speak and write authoritatively about relationships and how people respond. I personally have seen and felt the impact of her research. She is the "go-to" person for our organization when we need insight."
—Phil Waldrep, founder, Women of Joy Conferences and Phil Waldrep Ministries, Decatur, AL

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  1. Spruce Grove, Canada
    Age: 25-34
    Gender: female
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    August 28, 2014
    Spruce Grove, Canada
    Age: 25-34
    Gender: female
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5
    I had no idea...this book made me aware of several guy things I had not even bothered to think about before--just complain about. It's straight forward and funny, but also looks at matters that I, as a woman relating to men, should have a better understanding about.
  2. Somers, NY
    Age: 55-65
    Gender: female
    3 Stars Out Of 5
    It's OK
    March 21, 2014
    Somers, NY
    Age: 55-65
    Gender: female
    Quality: 4
    Value: 4
    Meets Expectations: 3
    Perhaps it is because I am only reading the women's version of the set and getting only the one side of the story, but it seems as if men are one big bottomless pit of neediness and we are there to fill it. The way men are described (or describe themselves) are that they are weak. I don't believe this to be true and I think a more balanced approach is necessary for a marriage to thrive. A man and a woman need to work as a couple and that means they need to practice patience, sympathy, empathy and take time to communicate. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 comes to mind. If we all read that verse daily, committed it to memory and called upon it regularly, we would have a good foundation for our marriages and other relationships.
  3. Age: 45-54
    Gender: female
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    Helped turn our marriage from just okay to great!
    February 14, 2014
    Child of God
    Age: 45-54
    Gender: female
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5
    Totally helped me to understand my husband from a whole different perspective. Showed me how to work with our differences instead of battling over them. This book helped to change me and to respect my husband in a whole new way.
  4. Pomona, New York
    Age: 45-54
    Gender: female
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    Great advises
    January 9, 2014
    Pomona, New York
    Age: 45-54
    Gender: female
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5
    I first read For Men Only before reading this. The book was great. A lot of insights to learn from. For Women Only is a great

    Book because I learned how to understand the way men think and what a difference it is from what previously have thought it should be. I wish I had the book before everything has happened in my life. My husband had passed away 1yr ago at a young age. This will help me with any future relationships I will get into. I recommend it to every woman who's gettin into a relationship & married ones.
  5. Oregon
    Age: 45-54
    Gender: female
    3 Stars Out Of 5
    An okay book
    June 3, 2013
    Age: 45-54
    Gender: female
    Quality: 3
    Value: 3
    Meets Expectations: 2
    I found the first five chapters of this book to be very interesting and insightful. When it came to chapter 6 "Sex Changes Everything" I did not feel the chapter gave a balanced perspective on the topic. I'm very aware and very much respect that men have a strong drive/need/desire for sex. But I also believe the man is not entitled to selfishness in this area, and that God, in giving him this drive, also expects him to use some self-control in giving consideration to his wife and her needs. I have read "His Needs Her Needs" by Willard F. Harley, Jr., and highly recommend his book over this book in regard to this topic as well as many other important topics pertaining to marriage.

    I did enjoy the first chapter of this book as I found the topic of respect to be very insightful. I do know, however, that this topic is covered in much greater depth by Emerson Eggerich in his book "Love and Respect". I own that book but have not yet taken the time to read it, as I have so many good books to read. Thus I found it was nice to get a shorter overview of the topic in this book.

    In my opinion, while there is some value in the information contained in chapters 6-10 of this book, I didn't find it to be useful enough to warrant a strong recommendation of this book; however, if you simply want a quick read that touches on the issues, I believe you would find something beneficial from this book. I received my copy for free from WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing Group for my review.
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