Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul

Helping men rediscover their masculine heart, Wild at Heart, a guide to understanding Christian manhood and Christian men, offers a refreshing break from the chorus of voices urging men to be more responsible, reliable, dutiful ... and dead. God designed men to be dangerous, says Eldredge. Simply look at the dreams and desires written in every boy's heart: to be a hero, to be a warrior, to live a life of adventure and risk. Sadly, most men abandon those dreams and desires---aided by a Christianity that feels like nothing more than pressure to be a "nice guy." It's no wonder that many men avoid church, and those who go are often passive and bored to death. In this provocative book, Eldredge gives women a look inside the true heart of a man and gives men permission to be what God designed them to be---dangerous, passionate, alive, and free.

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Reviewed by Eric Spaar (Harrisburg, PA), February 02, 2010

I think this book does address what I see missing from many men's lives....those of a mundane, powerless, riskless, existence; and a misunderstanding of Jesus. Very important in a society that no longer initiates men properly.

Reviewed by Bonita Haer (Craig, MO), December 26, 2009

This book gives us an understand of what a man was created for and that he shouldn't be put into the box that our churches have tried to put him into. It can also give women a much better understanding of men.

Reviewed by James Masumoto (Waianae, HI), December 17, 2009

Excellent price for an excellent book for men and even their wives. this book will help you understand why men crave an adventure to live, a battle to fight, and a beauty to rescue.

Reviewed by Bert Rawert (Wilton, NY), December 14, 2009

I'm about 2/3 of the way through the book. The author certainly has a gift with words, but I fail to follow his reasoning. Not because it isn't clear, but because there really isn't much. If you like to have points backed up with good reasons, then this book will annoy you. If you don't mind reading opinions, anecdotal evidence, and conclusions based on fictional movie plots, then you may enjoy this book. It has some good content, so I haven't quit reading, but I've definitely slowed down. My interest is waning...

Reviewed by Barbara Antrim (Helena, MO), November 03, 2009

This message can be easily misconstrued. Not a book for everyone. I enjoyed it and it was recommend to me by my son. Written for the men in your life.

Reviewed by Samuel Thornton (Moses Lake, WA), October 13, 2009

AN absolutely outstanding book! Well written it speaks directly to every man's heart. This should be a must read in every church in America.

Reviewed by Jeremy Martin (North Richland Hills, TX), October 06, 2009

Excellent book...I am only half way through it and expect to read it again when I finish (something which I have never done previously).

Reviewed by Mary Blough (Boswell, PA), September 24, 2009

This book is a "must read" for both men and women. It echoes so many of the complaints that I have heard from my husband concerning the emasculating of men in today's society. But it brings to light the causes, and offers practical advice to embrace God's design for men to be men. I have purchased several to give away to my brothers, son-in-loves and men who just want to be "manly men"!

Reviewed by Randy Thibeau (Montrose, CO), September 11, 2009

One of the best books for men I've seen in my 13 years of men's ministry

Reviewed by Matthew Furrer (Wasilla, Alaska), August 06, 2009

Full Five Stars. Let me say first that this book would be good for ANY man whether he is spiritual or not. Anyone open to the idea that we are not perfect, as men, will come away from this book an enlightened individual. It's evident in the writing that the author's priority was to get through to men that we need to be men, and he wants to help us get there. Now, add an open mind, a searching mind, or a mind active in the spirituality of Christianity, and the message is explosive. I have been looking for almost 29 years now, and this book has paved the way to a lot of doors that are now open, both spiritually and personally. This book has been the single most effective tool in my journey so far. It's difficult to explain because things of this nature are so personal, but I would recommend this book to any man that I know, and probably most of their wives. Now, I do not consider myself a Christian, I am not here yet. But this book made sense. As to the negative reviewers, quit hiding from yourselves. This is not the typical 'Christian Man' book, this is real and to the point. Be you a life3 long Christian, or a non-believer, it's easy to believe that your drinking buddy authored this writing.

Reviewed by Robin Spencer (Indiana), July 08, 2009

I read this book at the same time as "Captivating" There were many redundancies between the two books because they were essentially the same message. The message in Captivating is very much directed toward women. The message in Wild at Heart while written more toward men did not seem exclusively to men. It is great to read a book of this nature that doesn't focus on mans fall but on God's original intent. It also doesn't offer 10 steps to being a better, dad, husband, Christian, etc. It goes to the core of the good God put there to begin with. It touches on an issue that nearly no books of this nature do, spiritual warfare. It gives very practical examples and tools for fighting this real threat. I think men and women reading these books can develope a greater appreciation of each other and themselves. I found it very healing.

Reviewed by Evan Marks (Midwest City Oklahoma), July 01, 2009

The Book, while well written, is not for everyone. It preposes that all men have an innate desire for adventure. Which may be true for many, maybe most. But, and perhaps I am the only one, I have no desire. And I feel as though the book has been written for some other species.

Reviewed by Michael Eagle (Franklin, TN), May 30, 2009

An inspirational book for Christian Men opening thier eyes to God's awesome creation and having a chance to rediscover who they are in their heart. It makes you think about raising your boys into men of God.

Reviewed by Debbie Goelz (Cedarburg, WI), April 29, 2009

This is not just another "What Men think" book, it really helps get to the heart of how men tick! I have tried for many years to figure out men, for the sake of my dear husband and my son... and this book finally really hit home, it is so well written and thorough, Wonderful book!!! If you really love the men in your life, this book is a must read!

Reviewed by Maryanne Hrabarchuk (San Clara, Mb,), February 25, 2009

this book was very good. it certainly helped to understand how God created man. well worth taking the time to read.

Reviewed by Yann Schneider (Ontario, Canada), February 04, 2009

Great book! It touches to the deep part of the soul. Obviously not to be misinterpreted is the nice guy idea. We must be nice people, but not tame, it makes me laugh how many people say Jesus was a nice guy. You bet he was, he smiled as he threw truth into peoples faces, his truth hurt so much the people (people like you and me that is) decided to crucify him. He called people "children of the devil", he flipped tables in the temple, he used things like a mustard seed and Samaritan to give lessons (For those who don't know, it was ILLEGAL for Jews to plant Mustard seeds in their garden, and people from Samaria where in general hated!). David was a man "after God's heart", he killed a lion, a bear, and a giant. He became King, followed God, and he was wild at heart. Flipping tables isn't always a good thing, its good if you do it when needed, this doesn't tell men to flip tables for fun, but to do it like Jesus: stepping up when necessary. We are meant to help the poor, go out and restore the world, give love to terrorists (Paul was one before being changed) yet we stay behind pulpits in million dollar churches while people starve. This book reclaims the adventure and wilderness of a mans heart (gentle yet strong, like Jesus) so he can truly live and keep the revolution Jesus started. For all those who dare to live life like God meant it to be lived, restoring the broken hearted, defending the oppressed, loving the oppressor, and being led not by a schedule but by the Holy Spirit!

Reviewed by Eric Sanders (Alabama), January 27, 2009

I enjoyed the book. I read several negative reviews before actually reading the book. After finishing "Wild at Heart", I realized that most of the negative reviews probably came from the kind of people who think that any music without an organ and hymnal is evil. I will admit that you need to read each scriptural reference along with the book to understand some points. Don't believe the negative reviews. What I found after reading the book was that most of these reviews did exactly what they accused Eldridge of doing; they took some the lines and scriptures from the book out of context to make them sound crazy.

Reviewed by Jeff Holmes (Phoenix, AZ), January 26, 2009

I am presently using this book in a teaching series for our church mens group. The men are excited about going through the series and we are having more men attend because of it.

Reviewed by Haley Hoover (Frederick, OK), January 05, 2009

Great book for teenage men. Gave it to 3 close guy friends and they all loved it!

Reviewed by Tiffany Cole (Saint Peter, MN), January 02, 2009

As a single mother with two boys, this book has become invaluable to me. I am now the advocate for my sons masculinity in their schools, with the church and even within our family. Thank you John for writing such a wonderful book!

Reviewed by Craig (Ohio), January 01, 2009

Interesting read. His honest approach to where many men live their lives - avoiding failure, in fear and self doubt rang true. His insistence on a past "wound", absence of male role model, lack of "initiation" was disappointing. His solution was also disappointing and unfortunately misrepresented biblical manhood. The direction that he points men is a dangerous one. The adventure that I am on requires an eternal perspective, a patient waiting on God, a steadfast and disciplined approach to work and money, a self-sacrificing (as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her) love for my wife and a multi-faceted nurturing love for my children. Most of all it requires a complete surrendering of my heart to God and a complete satisfaction in the love of Christ. This surrendering and satisfaction is played out through obedience. It is here where Eldridge really missed the boat - what does God want men to do? His solution sounds exciting, but it is overly simplified. This is typical of many of today's popular Christian authors - take a complex issue and offer an over simplified solution. It was a good reminder of the adventure that I am on and I am grateful for that, but I got my answers about who I am and what I am to do not from this book, but from my time in prayer and meditation after reading the book.

Reviewed by Terri Laskowski (Clayville, NY), December 26, 2008

My husband and son are not big readers, but my son (22) calls the book "Awesome!!", and my husband says it a "must read" for all men...

Reviewed by Alexander Teefey (Bradenton, FL), December 26, 2008

This book is great. It contains a lot of truth, and has helped me in ways I hadn't expected.

Reviewed by Kelly Johnson (Clayton, DE), October 29, 2008

John Eldredge is an awesome author.I strongly recommend this book to every man,wife and mother.I love his writing style.I have laughed out loud and cried.I am half way through the book and have already received many revelations from the Lord regarding my husband & son.

Reviewed by Debby Schroeder ( TX), October 10, 2008

4 and 1/2 stars. I loved this book! It was eye opening as to understanding the heart of a man. Knowing that many men today have been "feminized" by our society, it was refreshing to see verbalized what I had seen demonstrated in my masculine husband. It has helped me not only understand my husband better, but also opened my eyes to raising boys, as well as understanding God better. The comparison of the heart of a man who was made in God's image was eye opening. Though many quotes were from scripture, the only criticism I have was use of quotes by non-Christian sources. I would highly recommend it to both men and women!

Reviewed by Tin Garvin (Houston, Texas), October 06, 2008

I feel this book is excellent for any one to read. It has a couple flaws, but over all it is a great read!

Reviewed by Cliff Pennington (Camden, Arkansas), September 19, 2008

Every opinion and thought about this book has pretty much already been stated. I'll simply say that when I finished reading this book I had a far deeper desire to learn more and more about my God and to be a better more motivated follower of Jesus. I want to live the example that He left us everywhere I am; at home, at work, and at church. I think that's testimony enough about this book and how God has used it to change many many lives despite it's flaws or lack there of.

Reviewed by Keith Johnson (Millet, Ab,), September 18, 2008

I found Wild at Heart to be an easy read. It really helped me to understand how things that have happened in my life has affected me years later in my relationships with my wife and kids.Can't wait to do the small group video series.

Reviewed by Laura (France), August 12, 2008

As a woman, I understood loads about man's heart. I do not remember everything, and I am not a genius in theology. But I related a lot of what has been written to men I know and love. What I didn't agree with, I do not even remember, and I suppose it wasn't worth of my attention. But the rest has been a powerful way for me to understand. I believe God can speak through everything, even a unbiblical book ! and much more through someone who loves him dearly and is ready to fight for Him, although there might be opposition and enemies who prefer warm cool passive men. About the risk-taking God, I think that He doesn't take any risk if we speak about Him being in danger. But I really believe that it was a risk to create man and give him free will. For God loves us, right ? Truly, deeply, wonderfully. And what do we do, usually ? We are a disappointment to Him. We sin. We speak evil of each other. We forget about Him way too often. Don't you think He suffers because of us ? He suffered on the cross. But He also suffers everyday because of all the evil in this world. Because of all His sons going to church but not ready at all to go out of their comfort zones to fight for Him. Isn't a fight an adventure ? Isn't the trip of life we do with our God a marvellous adventure ? I think He took the risk to suffer. And I'm so thankful to Him for His undying and infinite love. And about the desires that are in the heart of men, I think that they are ruin for the soul when they come from this world. But our heart is the core of our life ! How can you ignore what it tells you ? God speaks to our heart, He wants to reign there... I know that. He created our heart, and we fill it with dirt. But God has created it for a special purpose, I don't think our heart is for Satan to dwell in. And God puts desires in our heart to guide our life and step in the right path...

Reviewed by Scott (oklahoma City), July 28, 2008

One of the dumbest Christian books I have ever read. Not only is Eldredge's view of God 'off', but he has the stupid notion that being a man means conforming to medieval idea of chivalry. This is just one more piece of tripe in a 50-year history of shallow Christian reading, designed for sale only. Sorry I can't recommend it.

Reviewed by Cathy (Thousand Oaks), June 13, 2008

I picked this book up out of curiosity...I read the back cover and realized the author was talking about my son. I was a single mom and my son sorely missed the life of men. Even though I tried to do all the sports and church activities, etc., there was, of course, something missing. John Eldredge explained what it was. My son is a warrior--a protector of the weak and champion of the underdog, who yearned to doing something heroic--in a small-minded society. His frustration has been painful to watch. I bought the book and after I read it, I sent it to my son via overnight express mail. He called to say that he is in a group that is using the book as curriculum. All I can say is PTL and I'm glad I read it as well. I think there will be healing for his boy's heart that was broken so many years ago. Yes, boys dream about saving the town, escaping the captors, winning the day...modern life IS just boring for so many. I thank God for "Wild at Heart"!

Reviewed by LEANE ELLIOTT (MECHANICSVILLE, VA), June 05, 2008

After reading some of the reviews and the lady from Tampa needs to remember that Jesus is a warrior not "a nice guy." Men need to read this book!!!!! Moms need to as well. We have a generation of fatherless boys even if the dad lives in the home they are absent. This book is life changing.

Reviewed by Happy, Christian wife (Tampa Bay, FL), June 04, 2008

This book was recommended to my husband by a fellow Christian man and, upon reading the title, I was actually looking forward to reading it once he finished. However, about a chapter in, my husband realized what some of the others here have apparently realized as well (neither of us had read any reviews before getting the book). I read a few pages myself and was disgusted with the sexist overtone. Nice guys finish last? Um...hello...Jesus was the nicest guy to walk the planet. Come on, guys, don't fall for this self-serving silliness...

Reviewed by William Riemenschneider (Lemont, IL), May 23, 2008

I read Wild at Heart and thought the author knew what he was talking about. My wife read it and it helped her understand me and our son so much better that she gives them to women she meets to encourage them to love their husbands and boys the way God made them.

Reviewed by Regina E Reighard (Sylvania, OH), May 23, 2008

This was a real eye opener on how men must feel. So many are broken and we as women also feel the hurt. Eldredge gave a real look on why some men are dying inside and how they can set themselves free of their hurts and anger just by learning forgivness.

Reviewed by Janet Yarling (Livonia, MI), April 02, 2008

This book and "Captivating" is a MUST read for all adults. It gave me so much insight to my husband and to myself. My life will never be the same!!

Reviewed by Theron (Lilburn, Ga), March 30, 2008

I have read the book, been apart of a church study group surrounding this book. This is not a Christ center book nor does God receive any of the glory. Eldredge does get one thing right! Those of the world desire worldly pleasures and self importance. He feeds them what they desire. One example he gives is for a guy to take his favorite movie where a male hero rescues an attractive woman. Then fantasy a sexual relationship with her. Let us remember what Jesus said about the man who lusts after a woman has committed adultery in their heart. This study is popular because it is worldly in every area with few scripture support. Those there are mainly out of context. It is one mans opinion of how man should act. I personally desire to seek what our creator says for His desire for my actions then a man who clearly is still in the dark. Our prayers should be for him and those who remain lost by his teaching.

Reviewed by Gary Crawshaw (Cumming, GA), March 28, 2008

Very good book. Gives a good perspective on what a man should be in the eys of the Lord.

Reviewed by Christy Clay (Norfolk, NE), March 18, 2008

Excellent view of a man's inner world. All women should read this to gain a better understanding of their husbands, sons, and fathers.

Reviewed by David Gifford (Beaverton, OR), March 16, 2008

Nobody said Eldridge is perfect. Nobody who wrote any other book on this earth is perfect, either. Not Lewis, not Bunyan, not Tozer. Nobody. Given the modern day Phariseeism of the Western Church this is a book that needs to be read. There are dozens of people ragging on this book, that it's non biblical, yet these same people sit in their church services and think they are pleasing God by doing so. I'll make you naysayers a deal: find me a church service in the bible. You do that and then I'll find in the bible full support for the principles put forth in this book. I can be confident simply because I know all the Pharisees in the Western church today can't find a church service or find any evidence at all which supports what we do in church services. Quite the opposite, in fact. In other words, the Pharisees are raging against Eldridge for doing the very things they themselves do. Shame on you self righteous Pharisees.

Reviewed by Steve Kobernik (Highland, CA), February 20, 2008

As both a Pastor and a high school chemistry teacher (in a public school), I post many quotes from this book in my "Wisdom Corner" daily to help boys learn how to become men. I think the girls read and comment on the quotes as avidly as the boys. The boys find it encouraging and challenging, and the girls think it's refreshing that someone cares to help produce some men worth serious consideration for their futures.

Reviewed by Brent Smith (Pottstown, PA), January 10, 2008

An excellent read. Eldredge has nailed the posers in our world and in ourselves for who they really are. Then he shows us how to be real men, and real men of God, by revealing the true enemy, Satan, and how to fight him. I lead a group of boys and men at my church and I have given each of the men a copy of this book to read. I see so much of the "nice guy" pressure that Eldredge describes and yet I long for the adventure, passion, and freedom that I know is within me, and also within those that I lead. Thank you, John for giving us permission to rediscover our hearts!

Reviewed by Nancy Kurtz (Bristol, WI), December 31, 2007

My husband and I read through this book twice...It has made a tremendous impact on us and others we have shared the book with. A MUST read for all men (and women to understand men)

Reviewed by Jennifer Litke (Picton, On,), December 05, 2007

This book is excellent,for both men and women to read. Gives incredible insight into the origins of why men were created and the heart of how they were created. Helps men (and their women) to understand why they feel the way they do. Excellent companion for the book "Captivating" written by the husband and wife team for women.

Reviewed by Karla Lewis (Spring, TX), October 19, 2007

I totally recommend this book for any and every men out there, but most of all, I recommend it to every women. It gives you such an insight of what men are all about and why they are so "wild"...it will help you understand the men in your life. Awesome book!

Reviewed by Joe Buonassissi (Colorado Springs), October 19, 2007

In this book, it's patently clear that Eldrege already had a philosophy in mind and then tried to find verses of Scripture that sound a lot like what he already believes. Instead of taking out of the text what is there (exegesis), he superimposes his own thoughts upon the text (eisegesis). At that point, it ceases to be God’s Word and devolves to the sounding brass and tinkling cymbal of man’s word. If you buy this book you ought to be as embarrassed as I am that I invested any time in reading it; especially when there are so many other fine authors out there (John MacArthur, Martyn Lloyd-Jones, Garry Friesen, Daniel Bock, D.A. Carson, Edward J. Young, Jaye E. Adams, et al).

Reviewed by Crystal Mathews (Gainesville, FL), September 17, 2007

I love this book and I've given a copy to so many friends! It's a great read for women seeking to understand the masculine heart as God created it!

Reviewed by Debbie Friesen (Gig Harbor, WA), September 12, 2007

This is a fabulous book, I have read it several times. Such a big help in understanding a man's heart.

Reviewed by Lyle Beabout (Hilton, NY), September 10, 2007

If there is any book that can tap into the heart and soul of a man, this is it! For those men who wonder why they cannot always win the heart of their beauty, John Eldredge explains in everyday language what is the root cause, and then gives a solution. This book literally changed my perspective in how I view my wife, who for the last 13 years has always been a mystery to me--Eldredge now explains why, and has given me the determination to be that knight ready to slay the dragon and rescue the damsel in distress. Recommended!!!!!!!!!!!

Reviewed by Brian Moseley (Soddy Daisy, TN), September 09, 2007

Great book, and a must read for men! I thought the book ended a little abruptly, but John Eldridge hits the nail on the head - Christian Men need to stand up and be men.

Reviewed by MC (Birmingham, MI), August 24, 2007

This was definitely one of the best books I have ever read. It talks about the male heart in the way that it should be. After reading this book, I felt so much more free to be the man I am, rather than staying contained in a little box and killing all my hearts desires. I would highly recommend this book for any guy who is looking for that passion that's missing in their walk with Christ.

Reviewed by Tim Mcclelland (Naugatuck, CT), August 10, 2007

This book reaches right into the soul and heart of men. I finished reading it and began it again immediatly. I purchased a copy for each of my three sons and have urged (required) them to read it before they get married. I also got a copy for my son in law. I wish this book had been available for me 30 years ago. A must read.

Reviewed by Luke Jackson (Australia,), August 02, 2007

Awesome. Practical. Relevant to those experiencing hard times and looking for ways to become a man again. While struggling through some tough times in my marriage and worried I couldn't run the race back to being with my wife again, this book helped me focus back on God and His love for me. Heart breaking and heart healing at the same time. Every word written in that book was like it was written from my life. This book (and the Lord) has changed me forever. God's grace is so good. Blessings

Reviewed by Mike (Donnelly), August 01, 2007

Amazing, John Eldredge wrote this book for me. Oh, and for my brothers, my friends, and associates. It is real and finally squares the little thing we carry in our souls - fear of being a man, and fear of being a Christian man. Let's roll! Thanks John, I really appreciate it.

Reviewed by Jo (Vancouver, Canada), June 18, 2007

I think there are some valuable truths in this book that can help us understand the men in our lives. There are many hurt men who have not been affirmed by their fathers and many men, women and children who are suffering as a result. God does want to heal them. I would not advise my sons to hit a bully, but can we not (as with all books other than the Bible), read discerningly and benefit from the nuggets of truth?

Reviewed by John Myers (dallas tx), June 16, 2007

Real men don't need snake oil salesmen to make them feel all macho. The real man is the one who can "walk humbly with your God." or as Paul said, "that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness." How many people who give this book 5 stars would consider themselves to "understand theology"? That is the place to start, otherwise who knows where you will end up. Real men can handle their theology.

Reviewed by Garry Rodgers (Australia), May 10, 2007

I found this book very helpful in discovering my identity in Christ. It is by no means the be all and end all of Christianity (far from it) but it is a valuable signpost to Jesus, and an inspiration to study the scriptures closer to find out what God really thinks of me. It helped me deal with many self esteem issues and helped me see life in a new light. I found it very enabling and empowering. I don't necessarily agree with some things Mr. Eldrige puts across, and all things should be read with wisdom and discernment, but if we all wait 'till we're perfect before saying anything, the Bible wouldn't even have got written. Yes, there are flaws, but listen to God as you read it, and use it as a prayer starter and a motive for self examination. Very well worth it. It seems yet again God has used a crooked stick to strike a strait blow...

Reviewed by Jim Buchanan (Marshall, TX), April 18, 2007

We have a men's group at our church that has now been through "Wild at Heart" 3 times; part of the reason for this is the attendees of the group changing and part of it is our desire to continue to search within ourselves for who we are. Our group has found this book to be an awakening or reassurance that pain can be overcome, it is okay to seek help, that we are not alone in some of the pains we have gone through, that as Christian men we do have a mission and should be willing to reach out and grab the brass ring and go on that mission. Those of us who have studied the book more than once have found deeper meaning with each study, and have been surprised with the degree of closeness that sharing with like-minded men that has resulted. One of the facets of the book that has stood out to us is the mix of humor along with the seriousness of opening ourselves up. There is not a man in our group who would not recommend this book for a group study; and in fact, many of us have asked our wives to read it so that we can better understand each other. While some reviews try to critically pick the book apart I think we must look at the larger picture of one man talking to another as a best friend and trying to come to grips with what his life has been, where it is now, and how can positive change come about. "Wild at Heart" is by no means the "see all, end all" answer to being a better Christian (that would be the Bible), but it does spur discussion (which, as a group of men comes to know each other, can be quite personal) and is a good tool for many men to use to explore some parts of the Bible that maybe we haven't studied before in our continuing journey to be the best Christian possible.

Reviewed by Jake Clough (Plymouth, IN), April 10, 2007

Upon reading the reviews for this book, I was shocked and appalled upon the review of a Mr. Dirk Moll from Germany. It was very plain that he knew nothing about the book or the Scripture which it referenced. I personally checked all the times the author used Scripture and I saw that it was perfect in the use of context. Jesus does this very thing, he grabs Scripture from the Old Testament to reveal who he is and how it has been foretold. This book is one that will motivate and inspire every reader in one form or another, as is seen from the diversity in comments. Yet, if one is to grow up and truly become a man he is to acknowledge all the principles touched upon in this book, and many more. One's journey is never complete in the Christian faith, it is the course of the Wayfarer one that is fallowing God and uncertain where He will take you. What I have found to be the reason most males do not like this book is because it addresses the fact that we all have pain and that pain has caused us to go through life with holes and wounds that have not been healed. For most men ,this prospect that we are wounded and need to be fathered by God Almighty is one they will not accept, for man as a whole is too prideful. This book brought to the forefront of my thoughts what pain, particularly from my father, had done to me and how I was not living as I should be and as God intended for me to live. Sadly, this is not felt in all circles, which proves the accuracy and relevancy of this book and another one of Mr. Elredge's which is "Waking the Dead" and it speaks of how we are in a battle, one that we are often times not aware of. I have this to say about the previous commenter from Germany, you say that all these men who are writing books such as this and living lives that show Christ are in the wrong. You are wrong, and what these men are doing is starting another reformation that will sweep this globe, and they are opening themselves to be used by God. Who are you?

Reviewed by Dirk Moll (Germany), April 07, 2007

On a personal level, I am not really amazed or even shocked how John Eldredge uses (twists) scripture in our postmodern age. People like Robert Schueller, C. Peter Wagner, Carl F.H Henry, Rick Warren, Bill Hybels, Bruce Wilkinson, Brian MacLaren, Erwin MacManus, etc. are giving their best to transform the true church of our Lord Jesus Christ (Warren’s second Reformation for example). The same misuse of the Bible and the same old goal of trying to be independent (autonomous), we find in Eldredge’s book! I guess the best thing I can do, in regard to this worldly presentation, of what it means to be a godly man (or a Hollywood Movie star?) is to recommend, John MacArthur’s book “Fool’s Gold?” to you. In chapter five of MacArthur’s book (Fool’s Gold?), you will find an honest biblical critic, written from “Daniel Gillespie” about “John Eldredge’s” book “Wild at Heart”. So, be careful beloved and examine everything with scripture (Acts 17:11 ; 1Thes 5:21) using an accurate translation of the original text (ex. ESV, NKJV, NASB). “…and from among your own selves will arise men speaking twisted things, to draw away the disciples after them” (Acts 20:30 ESV) “See to it that no one takes you captive by philosophy and empty deceit, according to human tradition, according to the elemental spirits (principles) of the world, and not according to Christ.” (Col 2:8)

Reviewed by Dirk Moll (Germany), April 05, 2007

I guess the best thing I can do, in regard to this worldly presentation, of what it means to be a godly man (or a Hollywood Movie star?) is to recommend, John MacArthur’s book “Fool’s Gold?” to you. In chapter five of MacArthur’s book (Fool’s Gold?), you will find an honest biblical critic, written from “Daniel Gillespie” about “John Eldredge’s” book “Wild at Heart”. On a personal level, I am not amazed or even shocked how John Eldredge uses scripture (twists the Bible) in our postmodern age. People like Robert Schueller, Rick Warren, Bill Hybels, Brian MacLaren, E.R. MacManus, etc. are giving their best to transform the true church of our Lord Jesus Christ (their New Reformation). The same idea we find in Eldredge’s book “Wild at Heart”. So, be careful and examine everything with scripture using an accurate translation of the Bible (ex. ESV, NKJV, NASB) (see Acts 17:11). “…and from among your own selves will arise men speaking twisted things, to draw away the disciples after them” (Acts 20:30 ESV)

Reviewed by Tyler Davis (Siloam Springs Arkansas), March 13, 2007

First of all, I want to say this book is wonderful. Eldredge definitely got his point across(to me). He puts you in a place obviously not everyone is comfortable with. Everyone who writes negatively about this book, saying it's heretical and not of Christian beliefs need to stop and understand that Christianity also can be categorized as heretical. It's all about perception. Life isn't about arguing who is wrong and right. I believe Eldredge is merely saying that your being is great and capable of many things. God put you on this earth to live. Not to worry about every little thing that's going wrong. There are many battles you will face in life. Therefore I agree with Eldredge that we are capable of God's power. You alone are capable of being the best you can be. I believe God knows that and understands that. Why else would we be here? All you have to do is believe in yourself. You are not binded by what God has intended for you to do. That's why we have choice. I believe God doesn't know which path we will decide to take in life. But, I do believe he will give you many opportunities to make the path you have chosen the greatest path of all. Eldredge may have taken some scripture out of text. But who's to say he's wrong. We are not all the same. I can guarantee my perception of the Bible is different than most. We all read and try to portray in our minds what is right and wrong. I believe we need to think with our hearts like God intended us to do. Don't follow, lead. Nobody can say your wrong because nobody knows what's truly right. Be who you truly believe you are and be happy. Otherwise you will spend your life wandering and not living!! Don't be afraid to speak your mind. Heretical or not. Wasting your life is the greatest sin of all.

Reviewed by Les Pilgrim (Custer, South Dakota), March 08, 2007

FREEDOM, SWEET FREEDOM!.....This book let me into healing, strength, forgiveness, and most of all, intimate union with My Warrior King, sweet and loving Savior, Jesus! It was the beginning of a beautiful and wonderful journey. I am 60 years old and at long, last know that power of the Gospel. I am living in it, experiencing it in my life.

Reviewed by Steven McCorkindale (Dumfries Scotland), February 28, 2007

Speaking as a graduate of a mature Bible school and trained Sunday school teacher and having read this book 4 times, I do have at least a little athority to review this with scripture. Eldridge through this book misquotes scripture, takes it out of context and uses secular entertainment to support his point which really is unbiblical from the start! I agree with a few of his points but that doesn't make this a good book! This book also contains incitement to violence and gives very disturbing advice on how to live as a man, very different from the life of Jesus the prophets and the apostles etc. Oh and by the way, I eventually ripped my copy up!

Reviewed by Carolyn Wyman (Belding MI), February 06, 2007

One thing that has always bothered me is the view of God's love as dispassionate. If we take the clouds and wind and rain out of the Biblical picture, we are left with a wimpy God who is not TERRORIZING at all - yet that is exactly the Hebrew word when we are told to FEAR Him. With that in mind, I can say that this book made more sense to me in regard to my relationship with my husband of 31 years than most books I've read. As with any book that is not the Word of God itself, we must not embrace it as the end all of truth, but NO DOUBT, it explains a whole lot more about God as a consuming fire - and my marriage as His testimony to the world - than anything outside the Word that I've read to date. Thank you, Mr. Elredge.

Reviewed by Derrick Miller (Marion, IN), February 06, 2007

By far one of the best books I have read. A must read for every Christian man. John shows Christian men that they do not have to emasculate themselves to love Jesus, but to fight for him and stand up for what we believe. Very powerful and one of the major reasons I went to China for 3 weeks last May.

Reviewed by Dave Allen (West Lafayette Ohio), January 14, 2007

I have read this book and can tell you it has and is changing my life.This is not a book with a sexest agenda it simply states that our God meant us to be more than pew dusters.Men are meant for adventure and that adventure is a life of service to God.Is our Lord happy to see men in pain? Is God happy to see a woman or child in pain because of a husband or father? John describes Ladies as beauties to rescue not chavanistic but that all Ladies are beautiful and they may not need rescuing but they need to be persued by thier husband almost as much as in courtship and maybe more.Yes this book may open wounds .It opens wounds in order to heal them.John will help guide you to allowing God to heal your wound.If you have read this work and are concerned with terms like dangerous... Yes a God fearing man is dangerous.Not to other people but to the plans of darkness.I urge any person who has read this book and dosn't think it is an asset to a man to reread it but ask God to clear your heart of preconsived idias and start fresh. I have been through two studies on it and belive God uses it to make better fathers,husbands,and servants for his Kingdom.

Reviewed by bill habing (gilroy), January 13, 2007

Jesus said He is meek and lowly at heart. Eldridge says wrong, be a man. This is more nonsense to get Christians to believe it is ok to kill and do war. Jesus is the prince of peace not the man for all seasons.

Reviewed by Dan (California), December 20, 2006

I have read this book, and feel like it has helped me to understand what God wants from me... my heart. It is the hardest thing to give. I recommend this book to anyone who is going through life the 'I want to be a good guy' route. Another person said this book is dangerous because her husband read it and started drinking??? This book in no way says you should do whatever you wish, it states that God put you where you are for a reason. If anything, this book is an encouragement to keep up the good fight. I whole-heartedly recommend to anyone.

Reviewed by mrsray (vabeach virginia), December 18, 2006

I do not like this book it has done horrible things to my husband. He is a recovering alcoholic and this book drove him to want to drink again. I thought we were finally going to be done with the wanting to drink, actually he hasn't wanted to drink in almost 2 years and all of a sudden after reading this book he wants too. I don't think this is a very GOD willed book. GOD doesn't want my husband to go out and drink and kill himself, but this book is telling him too. Re-evaulate this book and maybe you also will find the bad in it.

Reviewed by Brandon (Texas), December 11, 2006

I have just read the negative review for this book. It is unbelievable how small minded many of us in the church are. I would bet that these same critical reviewers are the ones who try to shield their "boys" from the "world", and end up alienating them from learning real life lessons. What a disgrace to rant and rave about this book. His references are top notch, and this book ROCKS. These views are what make men, men. Sacred, secular... truth is truth, it overcomes. I think his new book, Road or Map of Wild Heart is great. Thank you Mr. Eldredge

Reviewed by Carolyn (Winston-Salem, NC), December 01, 2006

This book contains incredible truth about the warrior-poet. King David was a warrior-poet, and Jesus Christ is the ultimate warrior-poet, of course. I know several men who have grown as men and become more confident and secure. They are better leaders with the wisdom from this book.

Reviewed by Keara Richardson (Sharon Springs, KS), November 30, 2006

I would strongly recommend this book to anyone, male or female, young or old. It counters the lies our culture has sold to us as Christians that men are supposed to be...women. Men were made to be bold and fierce. Christ was full of love, yes, but He was bold and fierce. Our churches are teaching men not to be "nice" but to be weak. Men are to be leaders and that requires boldness and courage. I grew up in a family of bold men because my dad was himself and demanded it of his sons. This book is truth among a bunch of lies Christians have excepted. It is a must-read in my opinion.

Reviewed by Brennan (Rice Lake, WI), November 21, 2006

This is an inspiring book that should be on every man's reading list. God did not give us a heart to be timid or "nice." We are more than conquerers, and Jesus himself was much more than a nice guy. This is an excellant read that I pray will open more readers' hearts to live strongly.

Reviewed by mary (greensburg pa), November 16, 2006

It's fine to tell men to find themselves, but this book is sexist. This book advises women to put up with men's "wild" behavior. No Way. There's nothing wrong with being a nice guy--they do finish last--remember that Jesus was a nice guy!!!

Reviewed by Ahpue Sar (Ft. Washington, MD), November 12, 2006

This book helped me recover my lost heart. I thank God for that. God is using John supernaturally to lead regular Christian men to become men that God has made us to be. It has changed my life completely, I highly recommand this book to young men for their own survival of souls. Probably one of the best book ever!

Reviewed by Byron Carrell (Madison, Al.), October 31, 2006

I've read this book & listened to the cd twice and have nothing but praise for John's views on the Christian male. For years I have stated that who in the world would want to be like a Christian male when most come across as dull, boring, namby pamby, low testoterone sissies. I have recommended this book to many of my male counterparts and have basically said this IS MY view on how a Christian man should be. The self-righteous reviewers who slam John just don't get it. They are so filled with doctrine they cannot think outside the box. They probably shake your hand like a wet noodle. You go John and lots of love!!! GOD BLESS U!!!!

Reviewed by Michael B. Alfaro (Walnut, CA), October 25, 2006

This book is a gift from God to every boy who needs to know if they are a man! I can not tell you how many times God spoke to me threw this book! On another note, my best friend who is a hard headed US Marine broke down in tears after reading the first chapter and he accepted Christ! Yes this book is that powerful! YOU NEED TO BUY IT.

Reviewed by Audrey (Ontarioaud), October 23, 2006

Excellent book, It really touched my husband and lots of his friends. I even enjoyed it, very well written, and really will cause you to look deep within.

Reviewed by Michael B. Alfaro (Walnut, CA), October 18, 2006

If you are considering reading this book, then get ready for the spiritual warfare! Because I know that God will speak to you. This book is a gift from God to every boy who wants to know if he is a man at heart.

Reviewed by After God's Heart (Florida), October 10, 2006

Wow! I've always heard that Satan will leave you alone if your not doing something for the kingdom and you're no threat to him. All of these negative comments prove that theory. John wrote something that is stirring hearts for the Lord, to be his royal children,and Satan doesn't like it. John never said he is writing a new Bible or adding a chapter, he is telling of a way to get a closer relationship (yes the Bible STILL is # 1)to the Lord. For too long we haven't seen that our relationship with our earthly fathers affect how we see God as our father. Let's get real!!

Reviewed by Dennis Maeder (Balto/DC MD), October 04, 2006

"Wild at Heart" is flawed at heart. It is about the heart of man - not the heart of God. "Have you got what it takes?" is the recurrent humanistic theme. The author's psychological analysis of the male psyche is interesting, but its message of "validation" puts man firmly on the throne, and there is no room for that if God is to be King in His kingdom. It espouses no Christian distinctives whatsoever even though it frequently and selectively misquotes Scripture.

Reviewed by Doug (Louisville, KY), August 23, 2006

If you're reading this, you'll read the other comments too I hope. Seems folks really like it or really hate it. NOTHING will ever substitute God's own word, so if you're using this strictly as Bible study, don't. But the value this book and DVD series had for my men's ministry is immeasurable. This book is a wake up call to men to behave as God intended. Through use of John Eldridge's book, we have had men step out and lead and many more deepening their walks with God. Excellent tool for this! Be smart, John isn't Jesus, but it is evident that he loves Him!

Reviewed by Stuart Brogden (Houston, TX), June 22, 2006

I perceive two problematic themes running through "Wild at Heart". First is the idea that God's plan for a man is adventure.Throughout the book, Eldredge brings in the word "dangerous", implying that it's a major component in God's life as well as man's. While Eldredge can be assumed to be speaking metaphorically about the Lord, it’s a stupid thing to say about the omni powerful God of the universe. He who is and was and ever shall be, Who holds all of His creation together by His own will – He faces no danger! Second is the recurring reference to Robert Bly, of "naked men beating drums in the forest" fame, with an implicit endorsement of this man without any qualifications at all. Bly is a pagan (or was when he wrote "Iron John") and Christians must always be careful about recommending non-biblical sources. Pg 48 - "Desire reveals design." So many desires are the product of a wicked heart and do not reveal God's design for man. pg 87, "The enemy fears you!" Yeah, right - a Bob Larson view. In truth, the enemy fears Christ in me; he isn't impressed with me at all. pg 115, "God in His humility gave us Eve." This made me wretch. The only time God is recorded in scripture as being humble is when He took on human form and Christ submitted Himself to the Father in all things. God the Father, humble? Not in my Bible! Find me one reference in scripture where the Lord’s desire for us is “adventure” and I will reconsider my main objection to this book. “Adventure!” It sounds too much like an invitation to take another bite from the apple.

Reviewed by Jeff Middleton (Jasper, AR), June 03, 2006

I know the enemy is laughing hard. Finally someone has come out with something that is helping men regain their true heart so that they can serve God better, and the "too heavenly minded to be any earthly good" crowd--the Pharisees-- are calling it evil. This is a follow-up to a post I made a while back. I ordered (through my church) the DVD teaching set on Wild at Heart entitled Band of Brothers and we are just completing it-have been going for 10 weeks, and have 2 or 3 more to go. Incredible!! The 6 men who took the risk to sign up have along with me shown incredible spiritual growth as we all begin to see how the enemy has wounded us and crippled us to the point that we were not serving God at all. These are men that are church memebers, but that's about all for most of them.Example: During turkey season, 2 of them (they missed morning services) showed up in their camos for Wild at Heart. When a couple of the guys had to be out of town, they begged me to take that week off from WAH so that they would not miss it. I would never have thought that these men would be so excited about anything that gets them closer to Christ, but they are. There are men in our church that are already asking when we are going to have another session. (Some of these guys didn't sign up at first, then wanted to start a couple of weeks late after they heard such great things, so I told them it was too late ,but that we would do it again!) I've about decided that these folks that are ripping this as un-Christian and un -Biblical have themselves been so wounded that they cannot bring themselves to admit that God is using this in a mighty way. I'd guess that none of them has been involved in a study like I have, so they have not seen it with their own eyes. I'm afraid even then, like the Pharisees, they would not believe. Christ's church needs fewer Pharisees and more men who are indeed "Wild at Heart."

Reviewed by Matthew Bearinger (MD), May 12, 2006

Reading comments from some of you people scare me. I believe that John has hit on some very true and honest assessments of Christian men in today's world. I have read all of John's readings and attented his seminars as well. The message in this book is mainly one that does challenge you to see Christ not only as the "Lamb of God" but also as the "Lion of Judah". He charges us with the fact that too many people live with forgiveness, but without the power than the authority of Christ has given us. Also that most churches teach us don't smoke, don't drink, and don't cuss and you'll be a good Christian. He charges that our hearts know better, helps to show how wounds affect us, and the vital role that men must fill. If you think for a second that he is sexist, pick up "Captivating" he is not sexist. This is far more, it's about knowing how you reflect the image of God, either as a man; or as a woman. Both vital, both necessary and both so wonderfully different. Kudos to John and the success of his ministry, the is a much needed place for more men like him in this world. If this book offends you, it says alot about you, not the book.

Reviewed by Chris Martens (Calgary, AB, Canada), March 21, 2006

I’ve read a lot of the comments on this book. Some have made me angry. Notice how opinion is severely divided, that people either enjoy the book or despise it? This is a good thing: truth always separates wheat from the chaff, the nourishing from the redundant. Fact is, some people like chaff. So, because some are so vehemently opposed to this book should be an indication that there's at least some truth in it. The book is not an advocate for machismo in Christian circles; it is a call to stop apologizing for being a man and be who God made you to be. I loved the book. God has taught me much about myself and more importantly about Him. I’d always been a timid, insecure, pew-warmer before reading this. Do I own a shotgun and a monster truck now? No, I don't need to compensate for my insecurity. I know who I am now and it has given me the freedom to be sensitive, kind and gentle without feeling like I’m being a pushover. It has also given me freedom to stand up for what I know is true, to fight for and protect those I love. This doesn’t mean I’m going to join a militia and learn ninjitsu. Yes Jesus didn’t fight back when he was crucified, but there was a point to his crucifixion, wasn’t there? He fought back when the Pharisees tried to trap him; he fought back when people were using God to line their own pockets; he fought back when people tried to lead others astray. Jesus was loving to those who depended on him; Jesus was dangerous to those who tried to use him for their own ends. If I’m supposed to be like Jesus, how come I’m being told to take everything that comes? Do I hang on every word that Eldredge wrote as if it were scripture? No, it’s not scripture, but how is it different from the commentaries and conflicting theistic theories that you get taught in colleges and seminaries? Then why read it? Because there is truth in what he is saying. What he wrote has helped thousands of lives, including my own.

Reviewed by Daniel Gloyne (South Africa), March 01, 2006

I recommend this book to any fellow christians. I'm 19 years of age, male, and this was the first real book i've read!! The first book that appealed to me. For me this book has strengthened my faith with god and has re-shapened me to become the man who god wants me to be. It's so revelant and i can relate to so many stories. This book has alot of motivation which is great, to uplift your spirit. also woman can read it, to find out about a / their mans heart. This book is full of adventure and i give it a full rating !!

Reviewed by D. Radliff (Franktown, CO.), February 23, 2006

I am a woman who read this book. I was very impressed with the insight that this author offered. I was advised to read this book to help me relate to men in my life and I was astouned at how accurate that it was. I believe that it encourages men to be the strong, beautiful, and God-inspired beings that He created them to be. If more women would encourage and lift-up the men in their lives to be what God created them to be, then more women could concentrate on being the best image of God's femininity that we could be. Not every word is applicable, but as a whole I would recommend this book to every man I know!!

Reviewed by Jeff (Jasper, Arkansas), February 05, 2006

Opinions are like noses--everyone has one, but I wonder of the folks that gave this book a 0 read the same book I did. I'm sure it was never intended to be a Bible Study or a book on Christian theology, so criticisms in those areas are to me unjustified. Do I agree with 100 per cent of John's opinions? NO. But it spoke to me like nothing else I've ever read EXCEPT the Bible. We are getting ready to do a Men's study at our church using Wild at Heart as a Guide. It makes me wonder if those that are attacking it so strongly are being defensive because they see themselves in it. One of the main reasons the church is so powerless today is because by and large the men are acting as if they are powerless. I think Wild at Heart could very well lead some men to rediscover the power that God gave them and be the man that God wants them to be.

Reviewed by Mark Stevens (Muncie, IN), January 31, 2006

What a disgrace that Christian publishers and booksellers are associated with this book. Read the jacket cover, the opening pages, and you will find blatant sexist bigotry. Mary Wollstonecraft dispensed with this male-as-beauty-hunter, woman-as-beauty gender stereotyping two centuries, but Eldredge drags the church into the gutter of sexist bigotry again.

Reviewed by A. Samuel (Raleigh, NC), January 27, 2006

I have not viewed or used the facilitator's kit, or the DVDs, but I am almost done with the book and I have a word or two to say about it. I have never read a book that was more of a waste of time than this one. I would hardly even call this a Christian/spiritual book. This book reminds me of a topic I read of in seminary a year or two ago called PsychoBabble. This is the trend of our Christian world today and we need to be fearful of it. Books from Joel Osteen, Rick Warren, and Doug Fields proclaim a "heaven on earth mentailty" by getting Christians to examine their lives according to psychological or heart-emotional techniques, and not seeking the Lord or the guidance of the holy Spirit out in anything. "Wild at Heart" has been the most disappointing reading I have gone through since Rick Warren's book. Since I lead youth and speak to men all of the time, I know we should not try to understand our heart's and desires for what they are, because at the end it is sinful and lustful. Sin causes men to be wild and sinful, and "Wild at Heart" encourages it all, and justifies it by saying here and there, that it was God created us for. WRONG!!!! Where is "glorifying God" in all things. Not seeking your own desires, and wild fantasies. "saving the beauty" "beating up the playground bully" I am sorry to say this, but this author adds to the confusion that men already face.

Reviewed by Andrew (Lafayette, IN), January 13, 2006

Excellent book. This book revived my spiritual life and faith in the true Christ.

Reviewed by Jeremy Noel (Bloomington, IN), December 08, 2005

Great book...as with most readings, one should be mature enough to digest the beneficial!

Reviewed by Eric (New Orleans, LA), December 06, 2005

I thought that secular references were okay, but since when is it okay to fill 3/4 of the book with quotes? I don't think I've seen writings this basic since high school. I expected a lot better since I had heard good things about the book.

Reviewed by Randy (Louisville, KY), November 16, 2005

This book is very popular, but it has some serious theological flaws. If you are going to read this book, you should do it with a critical eye. A good review that touches on some of the thological issues can be found here: http://www.ccwonline.org/wild.html

Reviewed by Michael Taylor (St Louis, MO), October 08, 2005

Don't let the secular references disturb you. Even Paul referred to pagan poets when writing his letters to the churches.

Reviewed by Grandmother (Alabama), September 17, 2005

If you buy/read this book, please pray for discernment. Be prepared for many secular references (Jackson Browne lyrics, movie heroes--Eldridge even says God spoke to him saying he (Eldridge) was the hero in Bravehart. He also compares Christ to said hero! At the least, Mr. Eldridge borders on humanism, a worldview (pop psychology & when he does quote Scripture, he often takes it totally out of context!

Reviewed by Kelli (Kettering, Ohio), September 06, 2005

I had to read this book during my senior year of high school as a requirement for my religion class. At first I really didn't want to read this book, but after just a couple of paragraphs I was hooked. It gave me a greater insight towards the men in my life. I was able to better understand why my dad was the way he was and why the guys in my class were acting like idoits without using the "they're boys" phrase. It really helped me and better prepared me for future relationships with the opposite sex. Although my opinions were not shared with others in the classes. A few of my friends who read books similar to this one did not agree with the concepts and ideas presented. I really liked the book and am currently comtemplating purchasing it for my dad for Christmas. That's my opinion and I'm sticking to it.

Reviewed by R.Davis (Rochester NY), July 20, 2005

I appreciate the concerns that Mr.Eldredge has concerning men, and I am sure he is well meaning in his desire to help in this matter. However, I have great reservations in recommending this book to anyone. I understand that this is not a theological work or doctrinal study per say, however when one seeks to discuss a subject such as this from a Biblical perspective, one must use the Word of God accurately. Scriptural integrity must be the top priority and should not be sacrificed in any way for the sake of "entertainment" or "relevance". For example, the account of Ruth and Boaz is an example of poor exegesis. Boaz is pictured as a "drunk" who had been "partying" just before going to sleep. The Hebrew text never says he was "drunk" or intoxicated as Mr.Eldredge implies, rather the Hebrew word simply means "to drink". Ruth is depicted as "seducing" Boaz. Mr. Eldredge's use of the term "seduce" in his book is unfortunate and inaccurate. To seduce someone means to lead someone into error or into sin. The Word of God makes no mention of any such conduct of either Ruth or Boaz! Remember the Word of God states that BOTH Ruth and Boaz were beyond reproach and righteous in character. I am sure Mr.Eldredge had no intention of insinuating any such things of this Godly couple; however I would recommend that Mr.Eldredge have a good commentary and lexicon handy when he writes his next book!

Reviewed by Brian Mains (Harrisburg, PA), June 01, 2005

This book is an excellent book, taking a man through the wound that he has experienced through life. It discusses how we got to this point, helps us to realize some of the wounds we had happen over our life, and how to overcome them. It discusses some of the problems with the viewpoint of Christian men and tries to make us warriors for Christ. Very helpful for my own life.

Reviewed by Kevin (Columbus, Ohio), May 31, 2005

If Dave and Will know something we all should know, then why didn't they explain their positions better or point us to the books they've written? At least the author put his position out for others to review.

Reviewed by Dave (Indianapolis Indiana), May 25, 2005

I found this to be an extremely disturbing book, as did several Pastors and a Sunday School teacher. I spoke with them concerning Eldridge's many errant statements in this book. Eldridge presents several unbiblical views of God. Giving clear implications of he believes in the growing heretical theology of Open Theism. Many ideas which I will not go into because of time and space. But there is several issues that any serious believer must examine. Eldridges unbiblical views of God, of women, of the church, misquotes and misuse of scripture. Many statements found in this are at odds with sound biblical teaching. I found several good articles from conservative evangelical Christians on the internet. Christianty Today even wrote a disparaging article. I encourage anyone to seek these out, and know what you are buying before you run into possible disappointed, most definite confusion, and worse yet false teaching which will go undetected by the young and undiscerning believer.

Reviewed by Will (Indianapolis, IN), April 14, 2005

Oh, and one more thing about risk-taking. Clearly, there is no element of "chance" when God chooses things/people that seem totally contrary to our wisdom (David and Goliath for example, which Eldredge references as support for a risk-taking God). The bible definitely disagrees with this book to that effect. However, God definitely did create us men as risk-takers; it's called faith in God. All throughout the bible God takes huge "risks" (relying on God's unlimited power); we are to do the same thing, taking "risks" and relying on God's power. Just because, by definition, it is impossible for God to take "risks" doesn't mean that he didn't want us humans to take risks. We just need to rely on His power, not ours. The only true "risk" that God has ever taken (that I can think of anyways) is when He gave us free will. I believe that God could take away that free will at anytime if He wanted to, but He promised not to, so it will never happen. In short, I recommend reading this book, and then reading a good critique. Rut Etheridge III has a fantastic critique that's easy to find online. But all in all, the theme of Wild at Heart is totally biblical and needs to be heard if you wish to truly understand the heart and desires of Man.

Reviewed by Ken B. (Cumming, GA), April 14, 2005

You cannot look at the world today and think that men are not wounded. Who we are to the world (or who we try to be) is all a fake. The feminist movement told me to be more like women. The Church tells men to be nice guys who obey the rules. No wonder us guys have issues. If you want to get down to the core of a man's unanswered questions, read this book. Then become the man God made you to be.

Reviewed by Lisa (Ohio), April 12, 2005

It is a sad commentary on the state of modern Christianity that this book (and others by Eldredge)have been so popular. It proves how little Biblical understanding exists in the Christian community. There are some excellent critiques written of this book that you can find on the internet, so I won't bother to repeat what they say. Don't waste your time -- study your Bible instead!

Reviewed by Denny (Madill, OK), March 09, 2005

An excellent book! After reading Waking the Dead I got my hands on this book and could not put it down. For those who want to debate the "theological correctness" of this book I've yet to see a logical argument against it, only opinions. If it does not stir something in you then fine. I see more reviews testifying to renewed passion than not. Debating scripture might make us good theologians but not saints. I believe men today are bored with boxed up religion. I've started a Sunday School class recently using Mens Fraternity material and it dovetails nicely with having read this book. Men are hungry for a god that will meet them where they are. I believe this is Jehovah God, the one true God of the bible. Keep writing John!

Reviewed by Zach (Ohio), February 14, 2005

Motivational? Yes. Is it supported well with Scripture? No. While I think it does show men that our image of God is not as "wild" as it should be, he definitely makes claims and statements that have no scriptural backing, such as when he told his son that he should hit a kid that picked on him so he wouldn't be emasculated. I obviously thought of "turning the other cheek" and wished Eldredge would have at least addressed that concept.

Reviewed by Alan (Daphne, AL), February 05, 2005

I think that some people have a wrong view of this book. It is NOT a theology book, don't read it that way. He is simply saying that men-yes, even men-have a heart, and that heart is longing. Just as Psalm 37:4 says, if we are truly seeking God, and something in our lives is unsettled, if our hearts want more, it's because God has put something there. Even "computer nerd," which is judgmental to call someone else that, but many have chosen to do so, can experience that boldness and assertiveness that God has given men. That boldness doesn't have to come out in climbing Mt. Everest, but it can still come out, even in an office. That boldness is the reason the Bible calls men to be leaders, not just in the church, but in the home. READ THIS BOOK, but not as a theology book, as a book about the condition of your life. Stop seeking fulfillment elsewhere, search it from God, then let your heart and His be intertwined. Then you can follow your heart.

Reviewed by Matt Brown (Raleigh, NC), January 07, 2005

Christopher Lake from MD is very much correct in his assertion that this book does not portray the God of the Bible. John Eldridge's claims border those of open theist who claim that it is impossible for God to know the future of "free" persons. While this may be a correct conclusion according to the philosophy of men, it is not what Scripture teaches us about God. Consider Isaiah 46:9-10: "remember the former things of old; for I am God, and there is no other; I am God, and there is none like me, declaring the end from the beginning and from ancient times things not yet done, saying, 'My counsel shall stand, and I will accomplish all my purpose,'". Guard yourselves from this heresy and the other authors that are more outlandish such as Gregory Boyd, Clark Pinnock, and John Sanders.

Reviewed by Gary (Las Vegas, NV), October 25, 2004

When I first read the book, I had many of the reservations and objections that some of the other reviewers raised, and the only reason that I attended the recent "Wild at Heart Bootcamp" was to meet up with my friend. I am thankful that God gave me an open mind to hear not only the messages of this book but how they applied to me personally, and indeed powerfully, in a real way. No, Eldredge is not interested in theological debates, and I still disagree with some of the things he said. But throughout the entire discussion in the weekend retreat, the emphasis was ALWAYS on Jesus Christ. However, the WAH ministry wanted to remind us, that the Gospel was not just about the forgiveness of sins, but that Jesus came to set us free, free to live THIS life, in the glorious image of God from which we were created. WAH is Eldredges' contention how we as followers of Christ may achieve that freedom and live out God's purpose in each one of us. The picture of the "wild," adventurous man is but a metaphor of the freedom that Christ has promised us. I suggest therefore, read the book and find out how it may help you in your own life, and not as a critique and be troubled by how each point is or is not supported by scripture. Judging from the 400 or so people who attended the retreat, many of them I had the prividge to share with, chances are you too will be affected positively, and even profoundly, by this book.

Reviewed by Christopher Lake (Silver Spring, Maryland), August 27, 2004

This book is NOT Biblical. Please hear me out, and read this review carefully before jumping to any conclusions. I know that by saying this book is unBiblical, I might sound harsh and judgmental. Some readers may say that I need to "lighten up," but I am talking here about whether or not a book is faithful to God's word-- and that is a SERIOUS matter. Men especially, pease hear my words. I am a man, and I do agree with Eldredge that the American church has, by and large, missed many chances to inspire God's men to their high, heroic, and exciting calling in life (which is, Biblically speaking, simply to boldly love and glorify Him and to love and help others). However, this book does no better for men than the church-- and in certain passages, it is even worse, to the point of teaching heresy (anti-Biblical teaching). Eldridge is wrong-- God did NOT "risk" in making His creation, because He already knew how everything was going to turn out anyway. He would only have "risked" if He had not known what were going to happen-- and He did, and still does, know, because He is ALL-knowing. Furthermore, God did NOT create Adam to be "wild" and constantly in search of adventure and danger. He created Adam to worship and glorify Him by OBEYING Him-- whether that obedience is carried out in a context that seems "wild" and "adventurous," or whether it is carried out in a quiet, calm way (such as in an office, working at a job as a so-called "computer nerd," which is as glorifying to God as any other calling in life). One last thing that I found particularly disturbing about this book-- in one section, Eldridge's son comes home in tears, after being punched by a schoolyard bully. Eldredge then tells his son that when he returns to school, if the bully hits him again, the son should stand up and punch him "as hard as he can." Is this Jesus's teaching to us as men? What about meekness? Turning the other cheek? Brothers, this book is simply not Biblical.

Reviewed by Stewart (Rome, GA), July 18, 2004

At least for me, this book was long, long overdue. The stuggle to always be the "nice guy" and refrain from taking risks or pursing outdoor adventures is, finally, reconciled. My energies, struggles, and even "demons" are normal and a product of the way God made me and the way He intended. My desires are shaped by the Lord. At least now I can give up one struggle - the desire to be a softened-neutered-nice-but-restrained guy. This book should be a wake up call to the church. I agree that men have weakened themselves by ignoring our God-created passions. WILD AT HEART shows us how to restore them and challenges us to take the right risks and live the adventure. This book has helped me immensely going forward and has also made clear that "the only way to live in this adventure ... with all its dangers and unpredictability and immensely high stakes ... is in an ongoing, intimate, relationship with God." Bravo!

Reviewed by Wendi (Sunnyvale, CA), February 03, 2004

What an awesome book for all people, about finding your heart in Christ. It addresses so many levels and ways we lose our heart, or have lost heart, and builds a bridge of healing back into communion with God. I have been a Christian for over 20 years; severly wounded in Christian service, the devil's plan. This book is my miracle, 9 years in the coming. Restoration, God's plan. This book IS Christian and theologically sound; if we have ears to hear what the Spirit of the Lord is saying, no matter how God chooses to speak, we will. We will not see clearly with logs in our eyes (the devil's plan), logs that reflect and expose the chains that bind us, just as the book says. This book is about setting your heart free in the love and grace of God - that is the gospel - the good news (God's plan). Because whom the Son sets free is free indeed! Not free to sin, but free to be the whole of who He made you to be, as a person, as a man or woman, and as an "overwhelmingly conquering in Christ" Christian. Lay the counterfeits down, address your wounds, and be free... That we all could be as painfuuly honest before God, man, and ourselves, as John Eldgredge - thats freedom.

Reviewed by Dan Lane (Griffin, Georgia), January 11, 2004

This book helped me deal with my father. My wife is now reading and my niece is reading it for the fourth time. When asked why she said that she needed to know what to look for in a Christian husband. My ministry, Family Life Style Ministries is planning to share this with our immediate community and Griffin. Many thanks to our God and to John.

Reviewed by David Tresch (Waynesboro, VA), September 30, 2003

John Eldredge has captured the essence of a man and what the definition of a "man created in the image of God" should be. His three basic concepts are so perfect for men in today's world. After having two pastors and a clinical pastoral counselor look through the material, I am using the facillitator's kit to kickoff the Men's Ministry Program at my church. Don't forget to let your spouse/girlfriend read this as well so she knows what you are up to!

Reviewed by Donna (Drayton Valley, Canada), September 26, 2003

I thought this book was awesome. It helped me to understand why my husband thinks the way he does. I was not looking at this as a supplement to the bible, apparently as some people who reviewed it did, but as an informational book. Some people should really lighten up. If a book makes you crazy as apparently this one did to some people, STOP READING!!!!

Reviewed by Rosa Walker (Clarksville, TN), September 11, 2003

This book has been a blessing to my whole family. It not only dealt with men's issues, but also truthfully and insightfully explained that women's greatest desire is to be delighted in, and when she's not by her father, she looks for it in other men. By explaining what men and women's deepest desires are, John shows that God put man's desire to pursue and women's desire to be pursue into us so that man and woman together can be the full image of God. God has pursued his people throughout time, and would rather die than be apart from us, but He also wants us to pursue Him, He wants us to find all our delight and fulfillment in Him. This book shed new light on our emotional relationship with God, and shed new light on idolatry and how homosexuality is a corruption of the image of God. John Eldrede is a brave man to share his heart like he has, especially with such a socially incorrect message that knocks feminism in the face.

Reviewed by Mark (Columbia, MD), August 27, 2003

Simply the definitive work on what it means to be male and Christian.

Reviewed by Drew (Palestine, TX), August 09, 2003

I really do not recommend this book to anyone. It is full of man-made theories, not Biblical truth. The author basically says that men in the church are bored because they are not being wild like they were made to be. We were not made to be wild. Yes, we are men and many love the wilderness and adventure, but the author makes it sound like its bored men that like desk jobs and inside tasks. The reason men are bored is not because we have missed our "calling" to be wild, but because of missed purpose. If you're bored you really should read Rick Warren's book The Purpose Driven Life, not Wild at Heart. Wild at Heart is deceptive to the truth and there is no reason any man should fill his mind with what it says. If you do decide to read, please, know your Bible really well first. This way you can recognize how off base the Wild at Heart is. Also, me and my father noticed that Charles Swindoll had the only review quote in the inside of the book. It made us wonder what other credible sources actually thought about this book.

Reviewed by Kraig (Iowa), August 07, 2003

Eldredge brings up a good point about men having "wounds", but that is the only positive this book offers. His view of God is not Biblical. Just one of many examples is Eldredge's view of a risk-taking God. Eldredge must have missed the hundreds of references to God's omniscience in his studying of the Word. Sadly, this is yet another popular book to corrupt true Biblical Christianity.

Reviewed by Discerning Reader (So. California), July 24, 2003

What has happened the Christian community?? This is one of the worst books I've read. Right from the start Eldredge claims that Bible Study is boring. That has not been my experience when learning about our God! Then he goes on to say that God called an evil infested creation "Good". Eldredge has created for himself a god that is different than the God of the Bible. God called His creation "Good" BEFORE sin entered. The "wildness" that Eldredge relishes is a result of sin. Next he completely denies the Omniscience of God. To state that "God took a risk" is to imply that God does not know the outcome. That is a denial of the God of the Bible. I'm greatly saddened by the popularity of this book! I'm greatly saddened by the state of God's people if they can't discern the poor theology of this book. It doesn't belong on Christian bookstore shelves.

Reviewed by Ruth Lipscomb (Forney, TX), May 13, 2003

For years I have prayed God would do something to turn our "adult males" into the "MEN" our families, nation needs. I see God working through this book in the lives of our males. This is the MOST INCREDIBLE book I have every read! I have purchased copies for all my sons and have encouraged all my friends (male and female) to read it ... it's a MUST READ. I thank God for Eldredge's ministry to our men.

Reviewed by JV McConnell (Fairhope, AL), March 28, 2003

I am on my second reading of this book (which is almost impossible with most other Christian men's books!). Eldredge is able to capture the true essence of what God wills for me of Christ to be. It's not about "trying" to attain some supposed suppressed standard of just existing. It's about living with the God-given passion that make a man, a man. Truth is, only when a man is true to his (and His) nature can he be what his wife and children,church, community, business, etc. need him to be Too many times the church teaches men to live with "one foot one the brake" which only promotes a life of timidity and fear...not holiness. Only a life with relentless passion can be used of God. This is the Christ-like man!

Reviewed by Jack (Marietta, GA), February 21, 2003

I went into this with such hopes, having read so many reviews about how wonderful this book is. I now lament the poor state of Bible literacy within the Christian community. From the get-go, this book is off base. God created Adam and put him in the Garden of Eden, telling him to take care of it, before creating Eve. Was God wrong for not putting Adam out where it was "wild"? That mistaken premise sets the tone for the whole book, and sends it off course. While it's true that God spoke to Moses while Moses was in the wilderness, Moses was in Midian because of his sin - not because God sent him there (as a matter of fact, God send him back to Egypt). Eldredge seems to relish the idea of danger, even to the extreme of putting his children in danger rafting on a flood-swollen river, even though he has no idea how to float such a river. They did make it, but it was foolhardy to risk the kids lives in this way. There are other examples as well. The most outrageous thing is in chapter 1 where the author states that he, and presumably the rest of us as well, cannot ignore our need for a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to rescue without losing his soul! What? This is not even close to Christian theology. The bottoim line, in my opinion, is that the author has given us new things to try and fit into the God-shaped hole that we all have. Taking advice from a guy who, though he's a counselor and presumes to teach men, as late while writing the next-to-last full chapter, is apparently giving some consideration to starting over with one of those other beautiful women. There's some good stuff here. Unfortunately, between the goofy he-man psychology, the vulgar examples and poor theology (most of this seems to come from Robert Bly and James Bond movies), the good stuff is hard to find.

Reviewed by Myron Heckman (Brewster, Massachusetts), February 10, 2003

The book affirms masculinity as God's creation, and deals head-on with some of the real issues men face, like pornography. Like the "Wild" in the title, Eldredge can overstate, and he includes a couple of vulgar references. Men who are computer nerds or who prefer office jobs may feel left out of his outdoorsy direction. He interprets the story where Ruth seeks marriage from Boaz as "seduction pure and simple - and God holds it up for all women to follow." (p. 191) Whew! The book gives helpful insight into the male psyche, but readers should exercise discernment.

Reviewed by Michael Downs (Olathe, KS), January 03, 2003

I read many books each year and none this past year struck straight to my heart like this one did. The more he writes the more things just ring true. It is amazing profound and yet somehow simple at the same time. My church will be doing a study on this book this year...it has already set so many people free (through understanding Christ and who He created us to be!)

Reviewed by Eb Jackson (Round Hill KY), December 14, 2002

Read the first chapter and you have the whole story. Everything after that is redundant; the author says the same thing with different emphasis. The point that he seems to be making is that you can be a Christian and behave like a man, providing your behavior is tempered by Christian idealism. The author is affronted by the concept of "being a nice guy" as if that is somehow evil. In short, this is a book worth buying, reading and sharing. For a more indepth and soul-stirring read, I highly recommend you buy • THE PRAYER OF HANNAH • by Kenn Gividen.

Reviewed by Wade (Colorado), December 10, 2002

This book was a real God-send. I was in the latter stages of some rocky times in my spiritual growth, and I realized through reading it that I was losing touch with my heart. Eldredge's words about what it means to be a Christian man, one full of adventure, were right on. His assessment that what is missing most in Christian men is their passion or heart for life lived to the fullest. I know a lot of other men who have read this book, and I have yet to hear anything short of great words about it. It's a must read if you ask me.

Reviewed by Mark Winstead (Cary NC), November 13, 2002

I wrote a review of this book over a year ago, but I just have to ammend it. WAH rocks in a re-read. Too many "men" books talk about being good. PK emphasises 7 promises to "be nice". This book challenges that theology -- we shouldn't be described as good, but like C.S. Lewis' Aslan, we should be "dangerous, but good".

Reviewed by Jason (Tennessee), September 30, 2002

As a pastor, I read a lot of books. This one, however, was different in a number of ways. Eldgedge is willing to talk openly about what men really feel inside ... the desire to be a man, a conqueror!! He's not advocating any type of self-absorbed, radical theology; and if you get that from reading the book, you've missed the point; and, even though I'm an avid hunter and outdoorsman (and so is Eldgredge), he's not all about just seeking things to kill and overpower. He's simply digging deep into the heart of why a man longs to be passionate and free. It's in our spiritual DNA. I was impressed at how much theology Eldredge taps into. The book could easily be placed in a theology section for people who don't read theology!!! It's a super read, and given all the other "Men's Devotional" books out there, I can say Wild @ Heart is in a league of its own.

Reviewed by Eb Jackson (Round Hill KY), September 24, 2002

Radical new approach to Christianity? Or a return to New Testament evangelism? Author John Eldrege pulls the pieces of godly manhood into one, understandable volume. Eldredge decries the "whimpy" man of God and suggest that such lack of stamina turns other men away from the church. Also highly recommended for spiritual growth is • THE PRAYER OF HANNAH • by Kenn Gividen

Reviewed by Glenn Frank (Garden Grove, CA), July 16, 2002

This book was a very good thought provoker... not heavy doctrine but a thoughtful investigation of what God's design for men is. There are things in the book that at times I did not agree with, and a few instances that seemed almost like they were written only for shock value (to wake the reader out of their typical way of thought?). Some of these instances are maybe a little uncalled for...but overall the author has a pretty valid over-arching view point. The last three or four chapters are the best, practical, parts of the book... His practical answers to the "concept and theory" part of his thesis in the beginning of the book. Some might think that this guy is a bit off... but honestly, I think he has a better grip on the Bible's perspective on Men than "Promise Keepers" does!

Reviewed by Gene Twilley (Montevallo, AL), May 07, 2002

This is a must for those who are finding their experience as a man in the church at best...boring. Who are you and how has God wired you up? Also a must for women with husbands/potentials or even children. A real down to earth read (just don't walk away thinking you need to go out and kill something - if you do you've missed it).

Reviewed by Ryan Wright (Santa Clara, CA), March 08, 2002

This is the best men's book I have ever read. John pulls no punches while at the same time lacking no compassion. I have bought at least 15 copies of this book and given them away and almost every man has said to me "It's as if this book was written just for me" John speaks to men in the language of men. It was wonderful to read something that was not sanitized but written purposely to connect with the male heart and mind. I am online now to buy some more copies!

Reviewed by Doug Tegner (Fremont, CA), December 13, 2001

Opened my eyes to why I and other men often feel and do what we do - convinced me to have my daughters read and discuss these issues before they marry.

Reviewed by Jim Caldwell (Puyallup, WA), November 26, 2001

Profound book, a must read for everyone, male or female. It will shake your thinking, stir the coals and put wind in your sails, if you are honest and open.

Reviewed by Sarah (Marietta, GA), August 05, 2001

Ladies, don't shy away from this book. I believe that it speaks to both men and women about our wounded hearts. Only God can heal our hurts, yet we look to others to fill that gap. It's a great book! I learned so much. I recommend it for men and women alike!

Reviewed by George Ackron (IL), August 05, 2001

The most profound book on MANHOOD I have ever read!

Reviewed by Mark Winstead (Cary NC), July 05, 2001

Awesome!!!!!!! Great look at what it means to be a man in God's kingdom. A must read. I'm recommending this one to my men's group for study!

Reviewed by David Hunt (Broken Arrow, Oklahoma), June 28, 2001

This book is awesome! If you are a man, buy it! God will speak to you. It will bring restoration to your heart. Christianity does not have to be boring!

Reviewed by Russel Jarvis (Greenfield, Indiana), May 14, 2001

John Eldridge was writing about me. So many other books written to Christian men never get beyond moralizing. This one goes to the heart and helps men's whole lives in the real world. I have invited four men from my church to read it with me through the summer. Don't read it unless you want to break out of your boring "nice guy" life.

Reviewed by Mark Moore (Council Bluffs), April 06, 2001

This is a must read book for every man. It is also a must read book for every wife and Mom of boys. John gets to the soul of a man. Great book!!!

Reviewed by David A. Plank (Greensboro,NC), April 03, 2001

An invitation to true masculinity. I often take a few weeks to digest a book. This book was so significant to my journey of faith, as a man, that I read it in two days. This was at a time when my calendar was already very jammed. If this book is entered deeply, with thought, prayer and community, I believe it will revolutionize one's life and the Kingdom. Come join the battle with our King!

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