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  1. Unfaithful: Hope and Healing After Infidelity
    Unfaithful: Hope and Healing After Infidelity
    Gary Shriver, Mona Shriver
    David C. Cook / 2009 / Trade Paperback
    $11.99 Retail: $15.99 Save 25% ($4.00)
    4.5 Stars Out Of 5 18 Reviews
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  1. Minnesota
    Age: 45-54
    Gender: female
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    Hurt so good.
    November 27, 2012
    cloud9
    Minnesota
    Age: 45-54
    Gender: female
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5
    In the midst of the darkest days of my life this was one of the first books God brought me. I felt like I was going crazy with the hurt. In one chapter the Shrivers related how they felt like they were "overreacting or going crazy" and they heard a broadcast on focus on family about a woman who endured the holocaust. That woman witnessed horrific atrocities most of will never experience or understand ,yet when she came to the states , married and endured her husbands affair with him leaving her, she stated :"That experience was the most painful experience of her life." That story, along with the sincere retelling of the Shrivers personal and others they share, brought empathizing to my very lonely heart I sometimes wonder if I would have died without it. Well meaning people show up out of nowhere at the worst times, full of advice , and cause More pain . Books have the power to do that if you end up hearing a list of "you shoulds ." The pain of an affair is a very isolating and very alone grief. Grief is lightened if you can share it , but who listens to such intimate details of sexual betrayal? To be heard and believed is a vital part of healing from sexual betrayal. The Shrivers write in a way that validated my deep pain. Still pain, but heard. They don't leave you there either. There is a lot of direction they give that slowly brings you to a place of even believing there IS light at the end of this dark , long tunnel. The timeline of ESTIMATED healing at the end of the book is worth it to me. I re-read that to my husband when I sense he is creeping into being impatient with me. Betrayers commonly want to "move ahead" a LOT faster then the hurting spouse, causing even more pain. The chapter on forgiveness is sensitive, hard and vital to healing. Mona went through many scriptures helping the hurting to know what forgivenes really is , and what it is NOT, how it feels and does not need to feel to be real forgiveness. I am still wearing out my copy , it is well marked up. The only caution I will warn to the hurting spouse is about the chapter on Admitting Our Roles. In discussing the distance that can happen in a marriage from failures in both the husband or wife ; at first I was in such pain I had to skip that part until I had felt a little more understanding from him, and felt a little heard. Maybe that chapter could have fallen later in the book. The point is to heal the marriage, not just recover from this horrific betrayal. The chapter on emotional affairs was very excellent and should be read by every married couple , in my opinion.I saw understanding come to him a little more as I read the stories of others to him. Its a slow healing process, this book was a big help,along with the Lord and others who have survived affairs.
  2. Fort Mill SC
    Age: 45-54
    Gender: female
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    November 2, 2012
    donner
    Fort Mill SC
    Age: 45-54
    Gender: female
    This book was a tremendous help for me. I found out in August that my husband had been embroiled in TWO affairs over the past four years. You just don't know how in the world you can proceed, but with God's grace you can, as the Shriver's so openly and honestly shared. It was helpful - even though painful to read - to be able to hear the 'infidel's' feelings/perspective. As the victim, it's hard to really care too much about the one who has just ripped your heart out, but so good to come together broken, find out what caused the weak link that allowed vulnerability, and HEAL. When you take into account what you have BEEN forgiven by the Lord, I just don't think you can withhold forgiveness from someone who is truly repentant, truly sorry, and willing to recommit to the marriage. I am so incredibly grateful that out of all the marriages falling apart, God chose to intervene, to move in my husband's heart, and that he chose me, chose to take the hard road of broken honesty and rebuilding.

    The section on emotional affairs was so dead on - if that doesn't make people understand they need to always be on guard to protect their marriages and their hearts, nothing will. You don't have to go looking for trouble, it is always there waiting for you! Build that wall of protection, value and cherish each other so that no evil can come between you.

    Thank you, Gary and Mona, for sharing your story of hope.
  3. Age: 18-24
    Gender: female
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    Hopeful!!
    October 25, 2012
    Lala
    Age: 18-24
    Gender: female
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5
    This book was so touching! I was thankful for the honesty of the writers and their journey through adultery! I received this book for free for my Kindle and God put it strongly on my heart to read this book so that I could get assurance for my marriage since my husband has a pornography problem! I'm so glad I read the book because it gave me so much hope for my marriage and that I am not alone! Very powerful!!
  4. New Mexico
    Age: 35-44
    Gender: female
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    It was exactly what I needed!
    June 1, 2012
    Mist
    New Mexico
    Age: 35-44
    Gender: female
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5
    I needed something to occupy my mind when I was flooded with the pain of my husband's infidelity! I prayed and God directed me right to this book. Mona and Gary have offered myself and my husband biblical knowledge that is vital to our marriage.
  5. Alabama
    Age: 35-44
    Gender: female
    4 Stars Out Of 5
    This book will help both parties.
    October 25, 2011
    st3g
    Alabama
    Age: 35-44
    Gender: female
    Quality: 4
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 4
    In a time of such crisis, no one feels normal. This book will help you both know that this is actually normal. This book, in addition to other counseling or books, can really put things into perspective. People make mistakes everyday. God forgives us and we should forgive others, then true healing can begin. There really is hope.
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