We speak it on ourselved. Put an "I" in fromt of- Can not do that, Am not smart, You are stupid/mean etc. I will never and on & on. The Book of James tells us the Tongue is Life and Death and this little Book explaines how true that is. It will change your Life by letting God show you how important what we say really is.. I buy these by the dozen to give away-by His grace it may change another life.
I found this book on my boss's book shelf, and began reading it and could not put it down and did not give it back. (Don't worry he was okay with me keeping it). That was in 2008. And here it is 2012 and I still consider this one of my favorite books of all time. I still recommend this book to every one. I gave that copy to my mom last year and I just logged on today to purchase this book for a friend. I still recite declarations/prayers on healing and finances that I read in this book. If anyone would like to understand just how affective our speech really is to our everyday life, read this book! Like I said in the title it is life changing.