My boyfriend was having some doubts about whether or not I was "the one." This book helped us both to recognize just how strong our love is, where our weak points are, and what we have to work on in the future. It did so not by throwing it at us and saying "This is how love has to be!" but by gently guiding us to realize what we already knew about ourselves and each other. This book is awesome, it saved my relationship with my boyfriend and I know more strongly than ever before that he is "the one" for me, and he feels the same way. Although we realize we are still too young (21) to get engaged, this book helped us realize that when we are at that point in our lives, if we still feel this way, then we will definitely be able to build a strong and healthy marriage.