I have bought many copies of this book and I expect to buy many more in the future. This has become my standard wedding gift! A nice set of sheets, and a copy of "Sheet Music". Because so many couples have a big party to open their gifts, I write a note to the couple letting them know I want them to be able to open it up and enjoy it in privacy at their pace, place it in the book, and then I wrap it up and write on the outside of it that it is for the wedding couple to open only in privacy. I love the way Dr. Lehman approaches a number of difficult topics with his usual sense of humor while providing answers to questions that most people don't know how or who to ask. I truly love Dr. Lehman's approach! I would recommend it for every married couple out there! Whether you are newly weds, or oldie weds!