I purchased 3 books , this book I read twice!!! I had really good days reading this book and bad days? So, when that happened I would put the book down and start again later. My only regret is I wish I had heard of this book sooner
I really was not helped or impressed with this book. As a Christian woman I need solid advise and information, and I believe this book was written for the secular world. Not once did I see a scripture quote or any reference to God, in fact one chapter talked about homosexual infidelity. What a disapointment!
I have read many books on the subject of infidelity and how to get past the betrayal. I hadn't found any that I thought covered all areas of infidelity as this one. This book adequately lays out the why's, the how's and shows how to move past the betrayal to living a healthy happy marriage. However, the repair includes the betrayer to help the victim get past the lies, hurts, and more. In essence the betrayer becomes the healer to the victim. It shows how to move forward with honesty, openness and more. This book covers more areas than I ever thought was part of infidelity. Thanks, Dr. Glass, for writing such a great book for many who are in need of healing.
I agree with another reviewer that the research is solid, but if we smooth over the sin too much is that not the same as dismissing and in truth, approving of it? I finished with a sense this is a "pass" when, not if adultery is committed. The one aspect of the book I REALLY agree with is being PRO-ACTIVE!!!
Excellent book. This book addresses the feelings of both the unfaithful and the betrayed partner, so it is helpful for both. The author described feelings that made me think "that's exactly how I feel". Lots of good ideas for how to put it back together, and how to decide if you can't.