This book has been a godsend for me. My son married the love of his life and I was so excited to welcome her into our family. We had a wonderful realtionship during the courtship and engagement and then, like a smack in the face, the wedding ceremony changed all of that and I became the enemy. I can do nothing right, say nothing right. I have tried to give them space (they live close by, attend the same church, we live in a very small community), I haven't given advice, I have kept my mouth shut on so many issues but still, there is a wall that I cannot seem to break down.This book has opened my eyes to what could be the problem and what my roll is our relationship should be. God has opened my eyes through these pages and I am so grateful. I love my son and will do whatever I can to mend the relationship with my dil. I am still on edge, I am still guarded, but there is hope. 2 weeks ago they made me a "Nana" for the first time. God is loving, faithful and always with me so what should i fear?