When I found these pins, I thought how wonderful they would be to share with my family since we lost my sister 2 months ago. However, when I mailed them out to my family, many of the pins were bent and even missing from the envelopes when they arrived. I wouldn't recommend them if you are mailing them out.
This was just what I wanted. My only problem with this item is that I purchased this along with the memorial tear lapel pin and thought they would be different. I expected that the lapel pin would be smaller and intended for a man, not a woman. They were exactly the same in every detail , except for packaging, and the lapel pin was priced lower. When I ordered the second batch, I ordered the lapel pins for everyone.