It's a scene too often played out in current American culture: One spouse offers the other these five little words, now considered a legitimate exit line from what was supposed to be a lifelong commitment. Discarding popular advice to use romance and sweetness to draw a wandering spouse back into the marriage, Dr. David Clarke lays out an action plan based on Matthew 18. It turns the tables on the divorce-minded spouse and guides the injured spouse from becoming mired in devastation to calling the shots--leaving the fate of the marriage in the hands of the person still committed. Doctor Clarke's beyond-tough-love program isn't merely theoretical; it's an approach that he has successfully used with hundreds of couples in his own practice. It's an action plan that can be used to regain confidence, power, and control--and create the best chance of saving and rebuilding the marriage.

"I don't love you anymore." These simple words have the power to send the listener into shock, denial, and desperation. The obvious response is to ask oneself, "What can I do to win my partner back?" In I Don't Love You Anymore, Dr. David Clarke provides just the battle plan needed.

Contrary to what many relationship "experts" recommend-weak, passive plans that involve begging or romancing a spouse back-Clarke offers an approach that he calls guerilla love, which essentially turns the tables on the wandering spouse. He outlines the biblical view of marriage and instructs readers on:

• Drawing healthy boundaries.
• Five things he really means when he says, "I don't love you anymore."
• The most popular "exit lies" and how to see through them.
• Classic symptoms of a person who is having an affair.

Most important, Clarke empowers and equips readers to make the best, most God-honoring, attempt at saving a marriage.

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