this book has been a wonderful way to learn about myself and my partner, I also saw ways to understand my children better in this as well. I have read it a couple times and lent out my copy to many people, as well as often given it as a wedding shower or wedding gift to new couples. Sometimes its not just that you love your spouse, but that your spouse KNOWS you love them that is what is needed.
I bought this book for a friend but have read the book myself a couple times. A wonderful reminder that we don't all receive love the same and that finding out and meeting people's needs requires some effort! But it gives lots of examples and illustrations as to how to make sure others feel loved.