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Publication Date: 2009
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Dr. John Townsend is a leadership consultant, psychologist, and New York times bestselling author. He has written twenty-seven books, selling 8 million copies, including the 3 million-selling Boundaries series. John is founder of the Townsend Institute for Leadership and Counseling and conducts the Townsend Leadership Program. He travels extensively for corporate consulting, speaking, and working with leadership families. He and his wife, Barbi, live in Newport Beach, California. They have two sons. One of Dr. Townsend's favorite hobbies is playing in a band that performs in Southern California lounges and venues.
AnonymousGeorgiaAge: 25-34Gender: female5 Stars Out Of 5Wonderful, Must Have BookJuly 25, 2014AnonymousGeorgiaAge: 25-34Gender: femaleQuality: 5Value: 5Meets Expectations: 5Depending on your needs, this book may not go into enough detail about how to handle issues with Mom or Mother-in-law, but it does highlight behavior, attitudes and treatment that can open one's eyes to what the Mom//Mother-In-Law is exhibiting at and doing to you.
If you need more help with how to actually step up and deal with them, I would turn to "Boundaries", "The Law of Happiness" and "Safe People". Those actually deal with the core issues and outline in detail how you can take steps to protect your self mentally and emotionally.
** These Authors make it perfectly clear that that is BIBLICAL to not allow bad treatment go unaddressed.... pointing out that the Bibles says "Setting Limits Will Save Lives".
AbbieTexasAge: 25-34Gender: female4 Stars Out Of 5Be FreeNovember 24, 2010AbbieTexasAge: 25-34Gender: femaleQuality: 4Value: 4Meets Expectations: 5This book digs deeply into the profound and lasting effects of the mothering a person receives in his/her life. It reveals the connections of present behaviors in individuals lives that are directly linked to the type of mothering they had. I have always believed that the season of motherhood is sacred and that the task should be approached with much prayer. I think that most of us want to mother a little differently than our mother's mothered us. Coming from a dysfunctional family to say the least and having a difficult and at sometimes volatile relationship with my own mother I was extremely curious about this book. I can most certainly see areas in my mothering style that are copies of my own mother - as this was my main example growing up. However, I can also see the effects of the "mothering" I received by others as well that have rounded off some of the bad.
The authors breakdown six mothering types: (1) the Controlling Mom, (2) The Phantom Mom, (3) The Still-The-Boss Mom, (4) The China Doll Mom, (5) The Trophy Mom, and (6) The American Express Mom. They first address each mom through real-life examples of these mothering types and what effects are seen in adult children of this style. They talk about the common characteristics displayed by each mothering style and the resulting character of the children. This is very interesting - in deed! After this there is another section for each style that is solely dedicated to overcoming the negative and reconciling it all to Christ to make a positive future. It also gives hope to those of us who have followed bad examples that though we've made mistakes in mothering and other relationships due to our example that we can make changes.
This is not a mom bashing book - giving adults a cop out for bad parenting and relational skills. In fact it is more about becoming responsible for our own actions, owning our mistakes and then making the conscience choice to become better through Christ.
While you may pick this up in hopes of correcting or understanding the relationship you have with your own mother beware that you may find yourself in this book too.
At times I found myself very convicted but at the same time encouraged that I can change these things that are negative while my children are still young.
A very informative and useful book. An excellent resource for parents and pastors. This may help in understanding all relationships in your life - may even help you understand that difficult person you know, live with, or work with.
Thank you Zondervan for this review copy.
Phyllis Rich5 Stars Out Of 5July 29, 2009Phyllis RichThis book will help to set you free from chains you don't even realize are binding you. I read it when it was first published. It was validating to read about my own relationship with my "phantom mother." I was no longer guilty for everything that was wrong in our relationship. Plus Drs. Cloud and Townsend give tools that I could use to quit needing her to be the mother I wanted and to have the best relationship it was possible to have. I have recently been reviewing this book in a woman's group and have been reminded of the healing which is possible as women gain insight into their relationships with their mothers as well as their own "mothering" patterns. If you have a mother or are a mother, it is a worthwhile read.
Lupita Reyes5 Stars Out Of 5August 23, 2001Lupita ReyesThis is a must have book. With the Lords help and this book you will learn how to become a better mom. Plus, this book will help you with your relationship with your own mother. Learn why we are the way we are.