The Mom Factor: Dealing with the Mother You Had, Didn't Have, or Still Contend With - eBook  -     By: Dr. Henry Cloud, Dr. John Townsend
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Zondervan / 2009 / ePub

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No one has influenced the person you are today like your mother. The way she handled your needs as a child has shaped your worldview, your relationships, your marriage, your career, your self-image-your life. You can identify areas that need reshaping, to make positive choices for personal change, and to establish a mature relationship with Mom today, and help your relationship with your daughter tomorrow.

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Format: DRM Protected ePub
Vendor: Zondervan
Publication Date: 2009
ISBN: 9780310859529
ISBN-13: 9780310859529
UPC: 025986859527
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From the very beginning, you relied on her for things no one else could give you. How she met those needs -- or didn't meet them -- affected you daily as a child. And still affects you profoundly as an adult. For every son or daughter who wonders if things should have been different . . . for every man or woman who wonders if they still couldn't be . . . here's a life-changing look at The Mom Factor. She shaped you in ways that would surprise you both. No one has influenced the person you are today like your mother. The way she handled your needs as a child has shaped your worldview, your relationships, your marriage, your career, your self-image -- your life. How can you identify areas that need reshaping, make positive choices for personal change, and establish a balanced, mature relationship with Mom today? In The Mom Factor, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend steer you down a path of discovery and growth beyond the effects of six common mothering styles: -The Phantom Mom -The China-Doll Mom -The Controlling Mom -The Trophy Mom -The Still-the-Boss Mom -The American-Express Mom -- Cloud and Townsend show you how your mom affected you as a child and may still be affecting you today. You’ll find a hopeful, realistic, and empowering approach to identifying your unmet mothering needs and filling them in healthy, life-changing ways through other people. This encouraging book doesn’t just help you understand areas in your life that need change and strengthening -- it helps you apply your discoveries to attain new freedom and joy in living, and an increased ability to give and receive love. The Mom Factor is a biblical, highly practical route to wholeness and growth, deeper and more satisfying bonds with your family, friends, and spouse -- and a new, healthier way of relating to your mother today.

Author Bio

Dr. Henry Cloud is a popular speaker, and co-host, with Dr. John Townsend, of the nationally broadcast New Life Live! Radio program, and cofounder of Cloud-Townsend Clinic and Cloud-Townsend Resources. His bestselling books include the Gold Medallion Award-winning Boundaries books and Making Small Groups Work. Dr. Cloud and his wife and two daughters live in Southern California.

Dr. John Townsend is a psychologist, popular speaker, and cohost of the nationally broadcast New Life Live! radio program, and a cofounder of Cloud-Townsend clinic and Cloud-Townsend Resources. He has written or co-written 27 books, selling over six million copies, including the bestseller Boundaries.  He is also the author of Boundaries with Teens and Hiding from Love. He and his wife, Barbi, live in southern California. They have two grown sons.

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  1. Georgia
    Age: 25-34
    Gender: female
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    Wonderful, Must Have Book
    July 25, 2014
    Georgia
    Age: 25-34
    Gender: female
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5
    This review was written for The Mom Factor.
    Depending on your needs, this book may not go into enough detail about how to handle issues with Mom or Mother-in-law, but it does highlight behavior, attitudes and treatment that can open one's eyes to what the Mom//Mother-In-Law is exhibiting at and doing to you.

    If you need more help with how to actually step up and deal with them, I would turn to "Boundaries", "The Law of Happiness" and "Safe People". Those actually deal with the core issues and outline in detail how you can take steps to protect your self mentally and emotionally.

    ** These Authors make it perfectly clear that that is BIBLICAL to not allow bad treatment go unaddressed.... pointing out that the Bibles says "Setting Limits Will Save Lives".
  2. Texas
    Age: 25-34
    Gender: female
    4 Stars Out Of 5
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    November 24, 2010
    Abbie
    Texas
    Age: 25-34
    Gender: female
    Quality: 4
    Value: 4
    Meets Expectations: 5
    This review was written for The Mom Factor.
    This book digs deeply into the profound and lasting effects of the mothering a person receives in his/her life. It reveals the connections of present behaviors in individuals lives that are directly linked to the type of mothering they had. I have always believed that the season of motherhood is sacred and that the task should be approached with much prayer. I think that most of us want to mother a little differently than our mother's mothered us. Coming from a dysfunctional family to say the least and having a difficult and at sometimes volatile relationship with my own mother I was extremely curious about this book. I can most certainly see areas in my mothering style that are copies of my own mother - as this was my main example growing up. However, I can also see the effects of the "mothering" I received by others as well that have rounded off some of the bad.

    The authors breakdown six mothering types: (1) the Controlling Mom, (2) The Phantom Mom, (3) The Still-The-Boss Mom, (4) The China Doll Mom, (5) The Trophy Mom, and (6) The American Express Mom. They first address each mom through real-life examples of these mothering types and what effects are seen in adult children of this style. They talk about the common characteristics displayed by each mothering style and the resulting character of the children. This is very interesting - in deed! After this there is another section for each style that is solely dedicated to overcoming the negative and reconciling it all to Christ to make a positive future. It also gives hope to those of us who have followed bad examples that though we've made mistakes in mothering and other relationships due to our example that we can make changes.

    This is not a mom bashing book - giving adults a cop out for bad parenting and relational skills. In fact it is more about becoming responsible for our own actions, owning our mistakes and then making the conscience choice to become better through Christ.

    While you may pick this up in hopes of correcting or understanding the relationship you have with your own mother beware that you may find yourself in this book too.

    At times I found myself very convicted but at the same time encouraged that I can change these things that are negative while my children are still young.

    A very informative and useful book. An excellent resource for parents and pastors. This may help in understanding all relationships in your life - may even help you understand that difficult person you know, live with, or work with.

    Thank you Zondervan for this review copy.
  3. 5 Stars Out Of 5
    July 29, 2009
    Phyllis Rich
    This review was written for The Mom Factor.
    This book will help to set you free from chains you don't even realize are binding you. I read it when it was first published. It was validating to read about my own relationship with my "phantom mother." I was no longer guilty for everything that was wrong in our relationship. Plus Drs. Cloud and Townsend give tools that I could use to quit needing her to be the mother I wanted and to have the best relationship it was possible to have. I have recently been reviewing this book in a woman's group and have been reminded of the healing which is possible as women gain insight into their relationships with their mothers as well as their own "mothering" patterns. If you have a mother or are a mother, it is a worthwhile read.
  4. 5 Stars Out Of 5
    August 23, 2001
    Lupita Reyes
    This review was written for The Mom Factor.
    This is a must have book. With the Lords help and this book you will learn how to become a better mom. Plus, this book will help you with your relationship with your own mother. Learn why we are the way we are.
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