This book is great for someone who wants to remove barriers in their life that keep them from a more intimate relationship with God. I have read it at least ten times and use it to help others pursue a deeper relationship with God though understanding why they act and feel the way they do.
This is the second book in a series of 3 by David Benner. As a stand alone it is an excellent book, but if you read the first book in the series (Surrender to Love), your ability to apply the truths in this one are much expanded. The basic idea of the book is that you cannot truely know who you are apart from your creator, nor can you become your true self independent from Him. I can't recommend it highly enough. I've given it away to several people. It is not a big book but it is so full of good stuff that I should have just dipped whole pages in highlighter.