Will You Be My Facebook Friend?: Social Media and the Gospel
Great Book on Gospel Oriented Social Media Usage!
Will You Be My Facebook Friend? Social Media and the Gospel
I received this complimentary copy of the booklet, Will You Be My Facebook Friend, via Cross Focused Media. The booklet is less than 50 pages long and is easily read in one sitting. Tim Chester is the author of this booklet.
About the Author:
Tim Chester is the pastor of The Crowded House in Sheffield, UK. He is also the founder and director of Porterbrook Seminary, and author of over 20 books. You may read his blog here.
Chester breaks this booklet down into four easily digested chapters:
What's the problem?
Recreating my world
Escaping my limitations
The facebook of God
Each chapter concisely and adequately covers its topic. Tim begins with many of the statistics of how social media's prevalence and provides both dangers and benefits to its existence. He builds on these dangers over chapters two and three, and then provides what a proper focus should be concerning facebook (and other social media) and the Gospel.
Tim uses obvious grace when pointing out the dangers of becoming consumed with social media, yet speaks clearly about the reality of being deceived into creating a little kingdom for myself. I appreciated the balance. I found the third chapter, Escaping my limitations, to be a bit befuddling at first. Chester's main point of the chapter, from what I understand, is that facebook and other social media sites, tend to pull us from real, physical community and deceives us into thinking we are experiencing community when we're online. This is a great point, but I struggled to comprehend what he was saying at times. (This may be just a poor reflection on my reading comprehension...which may mean that I'm really skimming the material? That statement would be humorous if you've read the book)
The most practical and rewarding part of the book was the Twelve Guidelines for Social Media. Tim provides very practical, and Christ-like, application to what he has written. This is crucial to keep the reader from just self-righteous, legalistic impositions on their facebook usage. Tim allows the freedom found in the Gospel of Jesus Christ to seep through every page of the booklet and more so in these guidelines. The book is worth the purchase price if only for this list.
I would recommend this booklet wholeheartedly. In fact, I would highly suggest that parents use it as a resource to discuss how the Gospel and facebook fit together. This is something easily digested and is practical in it's material. I think it would be a great resource for youth groups, schools, and church libraries.
The LORD bless you and keep you;
the LORD make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you;
the LORD lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace.
(Numbers 6:24-26 ESV)
January 15, 2013
A guide for using Social Media with integrity
Facebook has much to offer us. I love that I can reconnect with family and friends who live far away from me and my family. I love sharing pictures of our kids so that their grandparents and aunts and uncles can see. And it is fun reestablishing a friendship online with people you havenÃ¢ÂÂt seen or heard from in years. Occasionally you read an article (or book) about how social media is addling our brains or turning us into socially obtuse narcissists, but can this really be true?
Author and church planter, Tim Chester, has written a short booklet (48 pages) which can be read in less time than many of us spend online per day. Chester is not a Luddite. He acknowledges the benefits of Facebook and other social media sites; however, there are problems and dangers in its excessive use. Many use Facebook to recreate their world, controlling how people perceive them. Others use Facebook to escape their limitations (using Facebook to replace real-world relationships rather than enhance them). Chester explores these dangers, but also relates them to the gospel. While the promise of social media is relationship on our terms, in the gospel God has opened up away to relate to Him and one another on His terms. While we try to Ã¢ÂÂrecreate ourselvesÃ¢ÂÂ on social media sites, God in Christ is recreating us in his image. He relates to us in truth while many of our online worlds are built on self-constructed images and pretense.
Chester closes with some guidelines for social networking which enable us to use them beneficially, while avoiding some of the inherent dangers. I like Facebook as much as the next person, but technology is not neutral and carries its own telos. If we use social media in a non-examined way, we likely will end up somewhere we never intended to be, in terms of how we see ourselves and our relationships. Chester offers some great advice on how to be mindful in the online world. This book will be helpful for anyone seeking to get a handle on their online world and wanting to bring greater integrity to their social media presence.
Thank you to 10Publishing and Cross Focused Reviews for providing me a copy of this book in exchange for this review
January 14, 2013
Share it with the Congregation
In my hand is a small book (48 pages) with a powerful punch, Will You be my Facebook Friend, by Dr. Tim Chester. This author and church planter makes us stop and ponder the idea of social media. He asks us to examine how weÃ¢ÂÂve been changed by it. He echoes what God asks us in Haggai, Ã¢ÂÂGive careful thought to your ways.Ã¢ÂÂ
Dr. Chester doesnÃ¢ÂÂt preach at us through the pages but lays out a measuring tool to challenge us to take a second look. What does the scale tell us? Have we been weighed and found wanting? His wise, gracious, challenging and thoughtful words bring healing not harm.
I favorably recommend this book expecting pastors to pass it out to their congregation or introduce it Sunday School. The slippery slope is there, but we donÃ¢ÂÂt all have to take the path. When we do what is right in the eyes of God then how can we go wrong.
January 14, 2013
A Biblical Sobering Look At The Use of Facebook
Ã¢ÂÂSocial Media and the GospelÃ¢ÂÂ
Ã¢ÂÂIn just a few years, Facebook has gone from nothing to a major feature of modern life. There are over 500 million users, half of whom use it on any given day.
There is much that is good about thisÃ¢ÂÂ¦social networking brings many benefitsÃ¢ÂÂ¦but what about the dangers? Image, identity, idolatry and selfÃ¢ÂÂpromotion are just some of the challenges that social networking can present. Dr Tim Chester looks at these issues pastorally and biblically, in his usual clear and candid manner. He asks pertinent questions to help us tackle them head on.Ã¢ÂÂ (From 10 Publishing Company Website)
About the Author: Dr Tim Chester is involved in The Crowded House, a church planting initiative in Sheffield, UK. He was previously Research & Policy Director for Tearfund UK, and has been published widely on prayer, mission, social issues and theology. He is married to Helen and has two daughters.
My thoughts about the book: Marshal McLuhan has written that Ã¢ÂÂthe medium is the messageÃ¢ÂÂ and author Dr. Tim Chester adds Ã¢ÂÂhow we communicate changes what we communicate.Ã¢ÂÂ And there is not doubt that Facebook as well as Social Media in general has changed both how we communicate with God and with others as well as what we communicate. The statistics that Dr. Chester reveals in his book concerning Social Media use are staggering and sobering. He writes for example Facebook has over 500 million users, with half using it on any given day.Ã¢ÂÂ He also states that Facebook users Ã¢ÂÂshare over 680,000 pieces of contentÃ¢ÂÂ every minute of every day So, Facebook is definitely a Social Media Force to be reckoned with. But how has it impacted us as Christians personally in the areas of our relationship to God and with one another?
As author Chester shares Facebook allows us to Ã¢ÂÂrecreate our worldÃ¢ÂÂ thus allowing us to be something or somebody we are not. A person can be what and who they want to be on Facebook and everyone can be someone if they so chooseÃ¢ÂÂ¦but to really be popular on Facebook you have to stand out from the norm and be really unique or different. So you now have a Social Media tool that allows us to create a page about ourselves and we can put on a different face and become virtually popular because of the content of our posts in the not so virtual world of Facebook and Social Media. And even for Christians many post content that is not at all consistent with whom they are relationally with God and with others in their real time world. After all as Dr. Chester informs us who is going to follow someone who is not positive and beautiful and got it all together? He exposes the subtle danger of Facebook causing us to be something we are not to the world and our Facebook friends and the not so subtle danger of feeding into our selfishness and pride, thereby leading us to sin against God for God has called us to a life of selflessness and humility rather than shameless self-promotion.
Dr. Chester also writes about how Facebook can cause us to Ã¢ÂÂEscape our Limitations.Ã¢ÂÂ The door of the world is opened to us through Facebook and Social Media and far too many of us blindly walk through the door into a world that offers an almost limitless number of so called friends and opportunities. We are no longer bound by time and space as finite creatures. The world is ours to claim if you know how to properly use Facebook and Social Media to our advantage. Dr. Chester reminds us that Jesus Christ has recreated us and our self-identity and worth are truly found in a relationship with him and not thousands of so called Ã¢ÂÂfriendsÃ¢ÂÂ who Ã¢ÂÂlikeÃ¢ÂÂ us or our posts on Facebook. With Facebook and Social Media God and Christ many times are taken right out of the picture of our lives with our having little time for him and for meaningful face to face real time communication and relationships with people in the world that exists right around us. And that is far more important to God and the advancement of his Kingdom than our wasting hours each week communicating with who really know who about all the whatÃ¢ÂÂs happenings in Ã¢ÂÂourÃ¢ÂÂ lives. And I admit candidly I have been far too guilty of this in the past and feel convicted about changing my behavior in the future.
In his chapter of the book entitled, Ã¢ÂÂThe Face Book of GodÃ¢ÂÂ Dr. Chester reveals how Ã¢ÂÂthrough Facebook we can show our face or image to the worldÃ¢ÂÂ but it is Ã¢ÂÂthrough the gospel we see the face of God, the glory of GodÃ¢ÂÂ which is far more important. The issues of being real, relational and a servant of Christ to others are greatly hindered by Facebook not only by the amount of time it consumes because we spend hours of our lives on it but also by the messages we communicate to people while we are on it.
The good news is the Dr. Chester does not throw the Ã¢ÂÂbaby out with the bathwaterÃ¢ÂÂ or become all legalistic throwing a bunch of new rules at us to follow that would make us appear more spiritual and like God than we really are. As if we donÃ¢ÂÂt get enough legalistic, Ã¢ÂÂif you only try harder you will please God moreÃ¢ÂÂ messages already so it is refreshing that Dr. Chester remains solidly Biblical and practical in how he suggests we approach the issue of Facebook and Social Media in general in our lives. And to help us he concludes his book with Ã¢ÂÂTwelve Guidelines for Social NetworkingÃ¢ÂÂ that are Biblical, practical and truly liberating in the deepest sense of the word for those of us who are believers in Christ and have been liberated by Christ.
I think if you are a believer in Christ and are a heavy and frequent user of Facebook and Social Media; a Ã¢ÂÂSocial Media JunkieÃ¢ÂÂ if you will, you will find Dr. ChesterÃ¢ÂÂs book to be a refreshing departure from the traditional worldly focused and bondage engendering thinking of people who are leading us in the world. They would be people who either do not know our God or have a personal relationship with him or who do know him but are not growing spiritually because they are absorbed far too much with the inordinate use of Social Media such as Facebook in their lives. I hope the book Ã¢ÂÂWill You Be My Facebook Friend?Ã¢ÂÂ both challenges and changes your thinking and life in regards to the use of Social Media in the future as much as it has mine.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received the book at no cost from the 10 Publishing Company for review purposes. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255: "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."
January 12, 2013