8 Great Dates for Moms & Daughters
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Number of Pages: 160
Vendor: Harvest House Publishers
Publication Date: 2010
Dimensions: 8.50 X 5.50 (inches)
Availability: In Stock
Series: Secret Keeper Girl
With all the pressures and influences of today's world, Christian moms worry about their little girls and how they will grow up. Quality time between a mom and a daughter can be the greatest protection against the world's pressures to make a girl mature too quickly. Knowing this, Dannah Gresh, popular speaker and founder of the Secret Keeper Girl conferences, has developed a host of dating ideas to help moms invest the time needed to deeply connect with their daughters.
8 Great Dates includes fun mother-daughter get-togethers, perfect one-on-one or for a small group of moms and their energetic 8-12 year-old daughters. Each date focuses on one topic surrounding beauty and modesty and is full of fun while at the same time imparting a life and faith-enhancing message. The book provides a mom with everything she needs to plan and carry out the activities and includes topics such as:
- The power of true beauty--what makes a girl beautiful?
- Truth or bare fashions--how to balance fashion and godly modesty
- Hair, makeup and clothes--who should be your model?
Here's the secret to bringing up healthy, grounded, and spiritually rich girls!
Before she delves into the individual date activities, Gresh begins by encouraging mothers to work on their own spiritual struggles before they attempt to work with their daughters. She also gives a detailed description of how to use the book. In Part Two, she gives minute-by-minute instructions that cover every aspect of the dates for the daughters. The dates are varied from mother-daughter facials to experiences in personal quiet time with God. For every date, Gresh also offers some lower-budget ideas for families that might be experiencing financial difficulties. At the back of the book, enough devotions are provided for mothers and daughters to study together for four weeks of daily study. She even provides perforated worksheets for mothers and daughters to discuss and work through on the dates. As a mother herself, and someone who has tried all eight of these dates with her own tweenage daughter, Gresh has a wide knowledge base for her suggestions.
Gresh encourages mothers to be honest with their young daughters, being open to discussing all of the difficult topics that tweens experience as their bodies develop and their relationships with one another and with the opposite sex change. Having clearly done her research, she provides statistics about some of the major factors that contribute to unhealthy development and sexual activity for young girls, and she offers mothers practical tips on how to confront those issues. For example, she encourages mothers not to treat developing curves on a young girl as a negative experience, but to make it fun by planning a bra-shopping date. This honesty, says Gresh, will encourage girls to seek information from their mothers instead of their equally confused peers. I believe Gresh is a firm proponent of Proverbs 22:6: "Train a child in the way [she] should go, and when [she] is old [she] will not turn from it."
Although some of Gresh's ideas seem cliched, like a tea party, I think that she also incorporates them in ways that we usually don't think about in our culture today. For example, treat your daughter to a classy tea party in a high class venue instead of in her bedroom with her stuffed animals to show her how valued she is. Also, for detail-oriented mothers who want to have every minute of the date planned, Gresh's schedules will probably be an asset. However, they could be difficult to follow for mothers who are more "in-the-moment" planners. Despite these minor weaknesses, Gresh's book has a multitude of ideas for mothers looking to connect with and lead their daughters. Nicole Miller, www.ChristianBookPreviews.com
--Dr. James Dobson
--Tippy Duncan, LMFT, Christian Marital and Family Therapist
Ladybug69Age: 45-54Gender: female4 Stars Out Of 5Great book!November 16, 2011Ladybug69Age: 45-54Gender: femaleQuality: 4Value: 4Meets Expectations: 4I think every mom or dad should give this book a try. I found it to be a good teacher. A book that helps parents to understand our daughters better. Also, it gave great ideas of how to spend time with my daughter, and how to's on getting her to understand life's challenges better. I love it, and we are still dating!