The rhetoric surrounding the acceptance of the homosexual lifestyle is everywhere. Parents have children suddenly "coming out." Organizations are accused of "intolerance." And it seems that everyone agrees it's okay to be gay. Learn how to address the issues surrounding same-sex attraction and its implications for society in this thought-provoking book by a man who's been there.
101 Probing Questions...101 Compassionate and Scriptural Answers
from Focus on the Family’s Mike Haley
Almost daily we hear news reports that confirm the acceptance of homosexuality in our culture. Homosexuals are adopting children, appearing as characters on television programs, taking vacations catering to an exclusively gay clientele, and even seeking the right to “marry” their partners. But is this acceptance healthy for society?
Few topics can raise so many questions so quickly. And for many readers, those questions hit close to home as they learn of the homosexuality of a loved one or close friend.
Here are the answers to the most often asked questions about homosexuality, fielded by an expert on the subject...and a former homosexual himself.
With the obvious exception of the Bible, it isn't often that a book comes along that everyone in the church should be required to read. However, Mike Haley's book 101 Frequently Asked Questions About Homosexuality may be just such a book. Though not as in-depth as a psychological or medical analysis of the subject might be, this book is definitely solid in regard to biblical stances on homosexuality, and the response and position congregations should have and take on this very contemporary matter.
The book creates and answers key questions about homosexuality. The questions range from the basic ("What is homosexuality?") to the personal ("Our son has just told us he is gay, so what do we do now?"). Some of the questions tackle issues that are hotly debated in society, such as, "Isn't it better for homosexuals to adopt children rather than just leave the children in foster care or orphanages?"
Mike Haley has a distinctive perspective on all these matters because he was a former practicing homosexual himself. He knows both sides of the issues from a personal perspective. He points out that sarcastic comments from Christians, such as, "God created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve," close doors and cut off opportunities to witness to the homosexual community.
Haley's insights and lessons are based on intensive research, yet they are easy to read and understand. Any Christian who wonders what his or her actions should be in dealing with homosexuals should read this book and then spend time in prayer and meditation regarding this matter. -- Keith Osmun, Christian Book Previews.com
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2.5 out of 5 stars
Reviewed by Martine (Minneapolis), January 26, 2010
If you decide to use the Bible as the source to raise your kids, expect jail time. The Bible has lots of great advice like "spare the rod and spoil the child". So whatcha gonna do? Hit your kid with a rod in obedience? It also suggests that an appropriate punishment for a youngster that disrespects his parents in word or deed is stoning them to death. So when your youngster speaks to you in a disrespectful way, will you kill them? The Bible votes yes. I doubt any sane parent thinks this is good advice. So why the heck should homosexuality in your child be any different? The Bible was written at a very different time when life was cheaper, and times were brutal. It may not be the advice you need today. Sorry to be blunt, but thats how I see this book. Its interesting, in a theoretical way. And I don't think reading this book is a bad idea. But do, PLEASE, read it with some healthy skepticism.
4.5 out of 5 stars
Reviewed by Cinde Reynolds (Wayne, OH), August 28, 2009
A very good resource for quick biblical answers to specific questions about homosexuality. The author quotes other Christian experts in areas, e.g.lesbianism, where he has little experience. Also great for those who don't care to read an entire book.
5 out of 5 stars
Reviewed by Hilary (Chicago), June 15, 2009
GREAT BOOK! The only nay-sayers are people who don't want to believe the truth. This book is written by someone who has a RIGHT to choose a side: he's been on both! He was a former homosexual, so he knows more than some of us ever will, so it doesn't make sense to trash talk this book, does it? It was worth EVERY PENNY and more.
5 out of 5 stars
Reviewed by Debbie (Montreal, QC. Canada), June 14, 2009
Having gay friends doesn't mean you have an objective view. In fact, that means your view is MORE biased than anyone, since they would obviously make you believe they are right! I have an objective view because I was a struggling homosexual but was healed through Christ. I did not even know I was living in sin. This book was very useful, and it helped me explain a lot of things to others.
5 out of 5 stars
Reviewed by LIndsey (Toronto, ON), June 13, 2009
Isn't it amazing at how people will trash talk a book because it hits them right where it needs to? Why would you look at this book if you were never willing to change your opinion? Nobody wants to admit that their child is sinning against God and is headed for hell, but that does not excuse trash talking a book that does nothing but expose the truth. These are the last days, and it is evident that people have traded the truth for a lie. Loving your kid "even when he's gay" doesn't mean he gets into heaven, which is more important than some silly teen boy-to-boy crush.
0.5 out of 5 stars
Reviewed by UCFE (Pheonix, AZ), May 20, 2009
Warning, if you take what this book has to say as truth it will cause colossal damage to your child's soul.
My suggestion is to have unconditional love for your children whether they are straight or gay.
P.S. This horrendous and dangerous book is in a million pieces in my trash can where it belongs.
5 out of 5 stars
Reviewed by Alicia (Toronto), May 11, 2009
I know homosexuality is a sin, and through this book, I was able to share things with my friends who struggled as well. Don't let society brainwash you. "How do you know?" Because the Bible says so!!!
0 out of 5 stars
Reviewed by John Carroll (Milwaukee, WI), April 11, 2009
As a straight person who has homosexual friends and family, I believe I have an objective perspective on this topic. This book (and others like it) on homosexuality are hurtful and ignorant. When are people going to wake up and realize that being gay is not something homosexuals choose to be. I have a gay friend that is in a perfectly loving relationship - just as honest and real as any loving heterosexual relationship I've seen. They're good people just being who they are. And, we're supposed to say to them, "this is wrong, this is not what God intended for you?" How do you know? Why can't everyone just learn to accept people's differences? There would be a lot less suffering on both ends. I'm guessing this is what Jesus would have wanted.
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